WHY PEOPLE GET STRESSED, REASONS AND ANSWERS 6-10-19


16 October 2019 06:09

WHY PEOPLE GET STRESSED, reasons in general being 1. fear about result 2. getting late 3. circumstances/events unveiling unexpected 4. work burden or inability to do the work and/or finish the work in time 5. coming across someone who is hated 6. loss of all sorts 7. family feuds 8. children not caring and/or not giving due respect 9. wife in anger all the time 10. strained relations between in-laws and his/her own family and with him/her 10. exp .....Read more


IS POOR IS TO LIVE IN POVERTY AND MISERIES WHOLE OF HIS/HER LIFE AND DIE AS SUCH 15-10-19


15 October 2019 06:55

POOR REMAINS POOR IN GENERAL WHOLE OF HIS/HER LIFE AND DIES POOR AND IN MISERIES. Is it due to his past karma(actions), as it is said, or it is society creation to keep poor as poor for whatever reasons, needless to express my own views as my sole purpose is how to improve their lot. I feel and I am convinced the POOR IS RESOURCEFUL, IS WITTED, GENIUS AND IS INGENUOUS TO FIND AND EXPLOIT ALL HIS QUALITIES AND HARD WORK TO SURVIVE. I wonder how it .....Read more


ORGANISATION IS IMPORTANT OR AN INDIVIDUAL 12-10-19


12 October 2019 05:23

ORGANISATIONS IS IMPORTANT OR AN INDIVIDUAL; I have discussed that in detail but still I find this subject needs to be answered with some more arguments and clarifications. IT IS POSSIBLE SOMEONE IS ADAMANAT, does not listen to reasons, keeps up jealousies and wants to show up his/her prominence, persuasions, reasons and consequences, have not changed his/her action and behaviour. It is possible that the opponents are exciting him/her, giving big .....Read more


LOVE INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL WHICH IS IMPORTANT 6-10-19


06 October 2019 12:44

LOVE INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL WHICH IS IMPORTANT. Internal is just kept to oneself, it is not expressed while external employs all means to love but fails as there is no SINCERITY. Internal love without expression and/or external overtures, remains to oneself and in general lasts till the life ends while in case of external love, many will shy away and never meet him/her again and perhaps it may get so much publicised, that one may not find anyone t .....Read more


ORGANISATION IS IMPORTANT OR AN INDIVIDUAL 6-10-19


06 October 2019 12:27

ORGANISATION IS IMPORTANT OR AN INDIVIDUAL. Both are important but when it comes to make a choice, I will say individual is important as it is individuals that organisation is made of. Organisation is important to keep up discipline as whatever has been achieved, will get washed away. THEN WHAT IS THE ANSWER: I think if individuals are not tackled timely and rightly, they take to revolt and damage the organisation the most. REVOLT COSTS A LOT TO .....Read more


SON IS AN ASSET WHILE GIRL IS A LIABILITY PERCEPTION, SOME ANSWERS HOW TO MITIGATE OR ELIMINATE 28-


28 September 2019 04:02

SON ALMOST EACH FAMILY WANTS TO HAVE, MOSTLY THE FIRST CHOICE AND IF THEY WANT TO HAVE A 2ND CHILD, MOSTLY GIRL IS PREFERRED TO BALANCE THE FAMILY AND STRENGTHEN FAMILY BONDAGE.Many especially upper middle class, rich and elite resort to premedical check up and opt for abortion in fear of having a girl. Thus the male and female ratio will continue increasing and I think possibly is the cause of assaults, molestation, rape etc. on women. WHEN SUCH .....Read more


TO REMAIN HAPPY IS ESSENTIAL TO HAND OVER ALL TO WIFE IN FULL TRUST AND AS SOLE CARETAKER 27-0


27 September 2019 03:16

TO REMAIN HAPPY ONE MUST DIVEST HIS RESPONSIBILITIES, FUNDS AND ASSETS IF DESIRED NEED TO BE GIVEN TO ONE'S WIFE. If this is done, one can be free from responsibilities and worries attached to these. Unfortunately many husbands do not do it in fear that hereafter they will have to depend for everything on their wives and thus lose their authority, in thinking that man is a man, he exercises his authority by power, strength, assets and belongings .....Read more


CAN AN ENEMY TURN TO FRIEND AND/OR GET TO WORKING/NEIGHBOURLY RELATIONSHIP? 26-09-19


26 September 2019 10:21

CAN AN ENEMY BECOME A FRIEND EVER, AND IF POSSIBLE, HOW. It is a big question for which many will reply it is impossible while I believe it is possible, if not a friend, at working/neighbourly relations are possible. It is possible 1. one needs to shun ego 2. needs to reflect what were the reasons which took relationship to turning enemies 3. did I retaliate, abused, threatened etc. 4. am I talking ill of him/her to his contacts/ relations etc. .....Read more


KUNDLI IS LIKE SERPENT, THE BELIEVERS ARE ALWAYS AFRAID OF KUNDLI 25-09-19


25 September 2019 06:56

IN MARRIAGE PROCESS, KUNDLI IS STANDING A HURDLE LIKE A SNAKE CREATING FEAR IN MOST OF THE HINDU FAMILIES OVERRIDING THE CHOICE OF THE BOY/GIRL. All are fearful of the future and it is difficult to break this belief. All know well know that even if kundlis are matched, still there are conflicts and divorces. But matching of kundlis for many families is a PRECAUTION even if not the solution. As a result of this, many spouses who love each other a .....Read more


EVERYONE WANTS TO GET TO HAVEN, WHEN AND HOW 24-09-19


24 September 2019 12:39

EVERYONE WANTS TO GET TO HAVEN, HOW AND WHEN REMAINS A BIG PROBLEM, CENTURIES ARE GONE BY, NO ONE CAN CLAIM WITH CONFIDENCE THAT HE/SHE HAS SEEN HAVEN, ENJOYED IT, PERHAPS SEEN GOD AND CAME BACK ON EARTH, WHY DID HE/SHE RETURN, PERHAPS DUE TO BAD DEEDS AND AS SUCH ONE IS PUNISHED OR HAS BEEN SENT BACK TO PREACH AND GET THIS WORLD RID OF ALL VICES.IT IS A QUESTION VERY DIFFICULT TO ANSWER BUT ONE THING IS SURE, HOPE AND BELIEF WHICH HAVE ALWAYS BE .....Read more


WOMAN IS TREASURE OF GIFTS 24-09-19


24 September 2019 12:34

WOMAN IS A TREASURE OF GIFTS, CALLED GOD GIVEN GIFTS. she is all love, takes care of the man she marries, from love to care for his well being, gets to temples to pray for his good health and progress provides him all comforts from what he prefers to eat and what he enjoys the most, in stress manages to listen discuss and suggest answers, cools him and persuades him to take to right course of action, turns out to be adviser and well wisher all th .....Read more


ADULTHOOD - 2 - SUPPLEMENT 24-09-19


24 September 2019 12:30

ADULTHOOD -2- SUPPLEMENT; Adult is one who: 1. takes decisions by himself/herself based on one's own views. 2. owns responsibilities himself/herself 3. does his/her own earning 4. is capable to distinguish between good or bad 5. discusses, understands and decides on what is right and what is wrong. 6. learns to face and change life to his/her own choice. 7. decides about marriage by his/her liking, when,where and with whom to marry, con .....Read more


ADULTHOOD HOW TO DEFINE 23-9-19


23 September 2019 05:34

ADULTHOOD AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN; 1. when it starts: it starts when one goes to college, gets to job etc. Age also is an accepted fact, physique and constitution of a person develop to maturity. Desires to get associated in the company of opposite gender ignites. One develops one's own views, habits and manners unhindered as one wants. Develops confidence to move on one's own and express oneself almost equal to elders in equality almost. THEN WHAT .....Read more


WHAT FORCES OPPOSITE GENDERS TO MARRY 27-8-19


27 August 2019 11:33

WHAT FORCES OPPOSITE GENDERS TO MARRY; People talk of LOVE, it is one of the factors but not the prime-most and as such I spell out the reasons in priority; 1st if SEX, 2nd is TO HAVE ONE'S OWN FAMILY, 3rd comes LOVE, 4th goes in TO AVOID LONELINESS and 5th consists in CARING-SHARING, UNDERSTANDING AND CONTRIBUTING MAXIMUM FOR UPLIFT AND HAPPINESS OF EACH OTHER. .....Read more


CORRUPTION I NOT MONEY ALONE 24-8-19


24 August 2019 11:16

CORRUPTION is not only of stealing money by taking advantage of the rules, but it also relates to feelings, attitude, manners behaviour, running away from commitments, deceiving oneself against one's feelings and sentiments and to remain arrogant imbued with power and prestige, to hurt others without any fault or guilt, pronouncing oneself as honest by tolerating corruption by others working with and along, changing political allegiance in disreg .....Read more


WHY TO LIVE LIFE LONG MARRIED LIFE, BETTER TO TAKE TO CHANGE AS IT IS NATURAL IN EVERYTHING 23-8-19


23 August 2019 06:33

MARRIAGE IS A PIOUS INSTITUTION, IT NEEDS TO BE RESPECTED AND RETAINED BUT CERTAINLY WITH CORRECTIONS AS THE PRESENT DEMANDS TODAY, WE MUST NEED TO REMEMBER THAT CHANGE IS ESSENTIAL, IF IT IS FOR GOOD, THE BEST AND IF DRIFTS TOWARDS THE BAD, ALL EFFORTS MUST BE DIRECTED TO DISCARD IT. So is the case with the marriage institution which was laudable for generations, is crumbling due to faults developed in its working and also due to ignoring the ne .....Read more


THE DAY SHINES IF ONE SHINES 22-8-19


22 August 2019 08:00

THE DAY SHINES IF ONE SHINES. If one is happy, everything around one will be shining and encouraging and one is in bad shape, everything will look dark and gloomy, as if all is lost, except cursing oneself, one's fate, regrets and revenges nothing else will look as an answer. If one gets up in the morning and feels that one is tired, the whole day will go by in tiresome mood and nothing positive will happen, and if one thinks, one is fit and heal .....Read more


LIFE LONG MARRIAGE IS FADING AND IS GETTING REPLACED BY CONVENIENCE, REPUTATION, STATUS, POWER ETC.


21 August 2019 07:20

MARRIAGE IS ALSO SETTING ANOTHER TREND, which contains in the belief that when everything changes as one feels fed up with the same in routine, whether it is in eating, wear, living in palaces still one likes to go to resorts, see the world around etc. then why to STICK TO ONE MAN OR ONE WOMAN. It is not that this trend is predominant in developed countries, it is so so in developing countries as well. I think primarily status, position and power .....Read more


LIFE IS DRAMA 20-8-19


20 August 2019 01:11

LIFE IS A DRAMA. we enjoy drama but not the life. Drama is momentary and is visual excitement while life needs visual+internal excitement. Internal excitement is influenced by our thoughts, actions, dreams, fulfillment, achievements, expectations, failures etc. All these affect our mind and take our life to enjoy or regret and perhaps weep and cry. HOW TO SHAPE LIFE depends on our thinking, expectations, behaviour, environments, association, our .....Read more


MARRIAGE INSTITUTION IS DETERIORATING 20-08-19


20 August 2019 07:10

MARRIAGE IS A PIOUS INSTITUTION CREATED BY SOCIETY TO BRING ABOUT SOCIAL COHESION AND PROGRESS. Alas it is fast deteriorating and it is not being well taken care of as to how to avoid its downfall and how to strengthen it. There are many reasons for the downfall, for example, family conflicts, miss-match of companions as husband and wife, flagrant expectations, stress of work, insecurity of job, preference to self-independence - no interference e .....Read more


WHY PARENTS LOVE AND CARE MORE FOR THE WEAKER CHILD? 16-08-19


16 August 2019 05:55

WHY THE PARENTS LOVE AND CARE MORE FOR THE WEAKER CHILD THAN THE HARD WORKING ONE: (1) parents want to push up the weaker one to rise to the situation and perform like his/her brother/sister (2) parents believe that the hard working child is managing his/her goal himself/herself and as such it is the weaker one who needs the help and guidance (3) parents feel if the weaker one does not come up to the desired situation, he/she will be left behind .....Read more


WIFE IS CONSTRUCTOR AND DESTROYER OF FAMILY 15-08-19


15 August 2019 04:12

WIFE IS CONSTRUCTOR AND DESTROYER OF THE FAMILY, WHY SO. The reasons I think are that when the girl leaves her house, parents and friends, her sole aim is to BUILD UP HER OWN FAMILY, HER OWN HOUSE AND ACCEPT HER HUSBAND AN IDEAL ONE, WITH ALL QUALITIES AND NO DEFECTS AT ALL, AND IF THESE ARE, THESE ARE OF NO IMPORTANCE AND NEED TO BE IGNORED FOR THE SAKE OF LIVING A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE, THIS IS THE PURPOSE FOR WHICH SHE DECIDES TO LEAVE ALL. It is .....Read more


GOD.. 2ND CHAPTER 15-08-19


15 August 2019 03:27

God 2nd chapter.. God called the same man and asked him have you enjoyed the world I have created?The man replied I have enjoyed all the luxuries you created and more than that what man has created even up-to enjoyment with women folk world over. In this further boasted that You must be aware that You who is called Omnipresent and Almighty that man has created wonders of which perhaps You are not aware. Man had created aeroplanes, missiles, atom .....Read more


TO FIGHT WITH CHILDREN IS A CRIME, UNFORGETTABLE AND UNPARDONABLE 14-8-19


14 August 2019 05:16

TO FIGHT WITH CHILDREN IS A CRIME, UNFORGETTABLE AND UNPARDONABLE. Conflicts with wife and even fights do quite often result in reconciliation but it is not so with the children. Soon as children become adult, earn their own living and get into liking, love affair etc. form their own views and opinions, the parents need to be conscious and considerate, which unfortunately in most cases does not happen mainly parents assume that the children are s .....Read more


ELDER SON IS IS DEPRIVED OF HIS EFFORT, WHAT IS THE ANSWER/? 11-08-19


11 August 2019 06:27

ELDER SON IS DEPRIVED OF HIS EFFORTS AND CONTRIBUTION EXTRA, COMPARED TO REST OF THE MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY, I had put in an answer, in my write-up and I do not know how many benefited from my thought process nor did I receive any comments. Though law permits all children whether sons or daughters are to be given equal share, but still I believe the elder son certainly and surely contributes a lot by services, owning monetary expenses and owning r .....Read more


GOD, HOW TO DEFINE 10-08-19


10 August 2019 08:10

GOD.. How to define we believe he is Almighty,Omnipotent,Justice Giver and as such each religion has given Him different names We all must understand that calling by different names is man's creation to create divisions and upkeep their respective identities Thus I come to believe that God is one and had their been more, there would have been confusions and conflicts Then Question arises why do we believe there is God I believe none has ever seen .....Read more


FAMILY IS THE BONDAGE, FAMILY IS LOVE 9-8-19


09 August 2019 02:54

FAMILY is the bondage, family is love, family is progress, family is fulfillment of parents's aspirations and also fulfillment of mine and then and also all efforts put in including deprivation of their own comforts. CAUTION; FAMILY IS BUILT WITH UNITY,RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING AND APPRECIATING THE EFFORTS OF EACH OTHER TO LIVE IN HARMONY, LOVE AND UNION OF ALL MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY. advice; KEEP UP THIS NOBLE GOAL ALWAYS IN FRONT OF YOU AND PUT IN .....Read more


MOOD AND ENVIRONMENT 8-8-19


08 August 2019 12:49

MOOD AND ENVIRONMENT: I think MOOD IS MORE IMPORTANT as if mood is bad, even the best of best environments like being at resorts, travelling to places of wonder, being surrounded by nears and dears, do not help. BUT THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT ENVIRONMENTS DO PLAY A MAJOR ROLE TO CHANGE THE MOOD. If someone is in bad mood and continues to be in the same environments the bad mood will get into worse while good environments will help to soften the mood, .....Read more


LIFE IS LIKE MACHINE, NEEDS GREASING AND MAINTENANCE 07-08-19


07 August 2019 03:44

LIFE IS LIKE MACHINE. As we have to grease and maintain machines, likewise it is essential that we grease and maintain our body to live longer, most probably a happy life. GREASING means what we eat, what we inhale etc. and MAINTAIN means that we have to do exercise,, meditation, yoga etc. to keep ourselves hale and hearty. HOWEVER IN CONTRAST TO MACHINES, LIFE IS FULL OF EMOTIONS which create liking, love etc. while emotions also breed disliking .....Read more


PROGRESS AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN .. 13TH lesson 7-08-19


07 August 2019 03:18

PROGRESS AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN: 13th lesson EXCEPTIONAL HAPPENINGS AND OPPORTUNITIES Exceptional circumstances and opportunities happen with almost everyone. It depends on individual when and how he/she recognises these. Many even though know that opportunities are at but fail still to seize and take advantage because of fear, responsibilities,their inabilities to harness and reap advantage out of these, while some rush with opportunities, but .....Read more


SILENCE IS GOOD FOR THOSE PERHAPS WHO DO NOT WANT TO REPLY 4-8-19


04 August 2019 01:23

SILENCE: It is good perhaps for those who do not want to involve in discussion, criticism and taking sides while there are others who think time is a big healer and problems thus will get solved by themselves anyway. Dr Manmohan Singh became a victim of this. Modi is mum as his allegiance is with RSS while facts need answers, much against his instincts,faith and conviction. Hence we hear his roars alike a tiger when he in the outside world but .....Read more


CONGRESS IS IN CHAOS, SOME VIEWS OF FOUNDER OF MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT 4-8-19


04 August 2019 04:22

CONGRESS IS IN CHAOS. LOST KARNATKA, LIKELY TO LOSE MAHARASHTRA. AMAZING 1. seniors ones are unable to take decision for the last 3 months about the President if so how one can trust they will be able to run and govern if ever came to power in the central government. 2. 2nd it is Rahaul's childish behaviour and then to insist that none from Gandhi family will participate or take to Presidentship. Once he as resigned, I think he should not pass th .....Read more


SHORTEST ARE THE DAYS


03 August 2019 05:11

Shortest are the days in love hardest are the days in conflict. One prays to God to prolong days and night as much as one wishes and in hardest time one wants and prays for the end at the earliest possible God says I have sent you in this world to live and enjoy and to recount your experience on return to ME, perhaps GOD may decide to send such persons back to complete their journey and on return admire wonders God has created. Tks .....Read more


PRESENT IS LIFE WHILE FUTURE IS HOPE AND PROGRESS


02 August 2019 02:56

PRESENT IS LIFE,FUTURE IS HOPE, STRUGGLE AND PROGRESS. We need to learn to live with the present, make the best use of it, live contented and happily, must also know that despair and dissatisfaction multiply day by day and end up in making life unlivable. We are also to learn to realise that tomorrow will also become present, hence present is the only time which enables us to live as we want, happily or miserably. THUS FUTURE IS PROGRESS WHILE P .....Read more


GOD HAS GIVEN US BRAIN AND MIND


01 August 2019 06:42

GOD HAS GIVEN US BRAIN AND MIND IT DEPENDS ON EACH INDIVIDUAL HOW HE/SHE USES THESE.Any of these in excess is no good perhaps for a few but not in general. Excess dependence on brain will direct one to more and more excesses , bad, unruly and indulge one in cruel actions like dacoities, thefts, killings and what not, while excess of mind and conscience will force a person to leave this material life and get more and more involved in religious pre .....Read more


CAN BLACK TURN INTO WHITE EVER/


01 August 2019 04:44

CAN BLACK TURN INTO WHITE, mostly it is said that it can shine but can never turn white. True but in life it is not so. Life gets DARK when one loses all hopes, does not want to live any more, while it becomes WHITE AND BRIGHTENS if one gears up, pulls up from the gloom, takes to association of successful persons, get close to who are well wishers, inspire and motivate him/her, reflect on causes as to why he/she is in such a state of affairs, whe .....Read more


INTELLIGENCE IS WHAT?


01 August 2019 04:22

intelligence is about learning, understanding and how logically to address various situations.How it is to be used depends on each individual. God has given us two gifts brain and mind. Brain generally runs after materialism and personal gains while mind directs towards doing good deeds and do service to others as best as one can, which in short means giving, while brain directs towards snatching and usurping. Some people argue that as per our d .....Read more


MARRIAGE CONFLICTS ARE MANY, REFLECT WELL BEFORE DECIDING SEPARATION/DIVORCE


28 July 2019 04:36

AFTER MRRIAGE CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS WHY reasons are many besides what I have cited before. These are gender bias, non acceptance of qualities of each other and to exert supremacy, both families conflicts non commitment of promises, non communication, no participation in household affairs, intolerable habits, impotent, avoiding discussions and decisions, non acceptance of wife family their attitude and behaviour, job choice clashes etc. etc. ANSWER .....Read more


IS LOVE RECIPROCAL OR ONE SIDED?


26 July 2019 06:18

IS LOVE RECIPROCAL OR ONE SIDED. Generally it is reciprocal, it is expected so and practiced. But belief I think is one sided, we love blindly and in full faith that some day love will shower on us and we will get what we have believed in and have been wanting for, while reciprocal could be tolerated for some time but not for all the time. I think wife is the only one who is ever ready to give love , always looks to the pleasure of the husband an .....Read more


SHOULD PARENTS DEPEND ON THEIR CHILDREN


25 July 2019 07:32

SHOULD PARENTS DEPEND ON THEIR CHILDREN, ANSWER, I WILL SAY NO, LARGELY AS MUCH AS THEY ARE CONVINCED AND HAVE MEANS TOO. Parents do their best to see that their children are able to fulfill their dreams and turn out the best of the best and in return expect that their children will take care of them, which in many cases does not happen especially in this modern age wherein almost every child wants to have his/her freedom and live in the manner h .....Read more


HOW TO FACE A STUBBORN PERSON


18 July 2019 10:17

HOW TO FACE A STUBBORN PERSON. It is very difficult as he/she is like a hard nut to crack, but when one strikes hard, it breaks. Same could be the case with a stubborn person. To deal with such a person, it is essential to know why he/she is like that and what are his/her weaknesses. Principally such a person feels that whatever he/she says/does is right and is unquestionable. His/her requirement is that there is no CONTRADICTION. Hence it is imp .....Read more


MARRIAGE IS SOOTHING AND COOLING FACTOR AGAINST ANGER


14 July 2019 04:52

MARRIAGE IS SOOTHING AND COOLING FACTOR AGAINST ANGER which is also subjected to 1. self consciousness that anger does no good, rather instead harms self 2. why not to substitute again by other means of listening, understanding etc. which cause anger 3. change environments which seem to provoke one to anger 4. non-tolerance to opposition 5. finding no answer to the problem except to get into anger etc. etc. MARRIAGE BECOMES THE COOLING FACTOR al .....Read more


progress what does it mean, 11th lesson


12 July 2019 09:06

PROGRESS WHAT DOES IT MEAN; 11th lesson; The greater one expands his horizon, the more knowledge one acquires, more ambitious one becomes and learns to work hard, compete and to excel others of acquaintance as also the ones imagined. ALAS everyone can't increase his/her horizon which depends on one's means to travel, see the world around, do sight seeing and meet people with different cultures, their mode of life etc. If one can't travel one can .....Read more


AFTER MARRIAGE THERE ARE CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS, WHY?


11 July 2019 04:25

AFTER MARRIAGE, CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS WHY; 4th reason:(a) LACK OF PRIOR GUIDANCE BY PARENTS (b) how and under conditions both the husband and wife were brought up, maybe there were conflicts and fights in the parents, the habits and conduct of the child were ignored and tolerated by family of either or both husband and wife, (c) lot of difference between the status of 2 families (d) hopes and expectations variant with each other etc. etc. (e) have .....Read more


eESSENTIAL TO CREATE AN AGENCY LIKE CAG TO VET AND CONTROL DOLES AND PROMISES GIVEN BY POLITICAL PA


06 July 2019 05:24

ESSENTIAL TO SCRUTINISE DOLES PUBLICISED BY VARIOUS STATES/PARTIES BEFORE AND DURING ELECTIONS AND/OR AT ELECTION TIME. ALAS, AFTER GETTING ELECTED AND GETTING INTO POWER, TO FILL UP EMPTY TREASURY BOXES, THEY RESORT TO MORE AND MORE TAXES TO EXPLOIT THE MASSES KNOWING WELL THAT THE PUBLIC IN THEIR STATE ETC. CAN'T DO ANYTHING. IT IS PITY BUT IT IS TRICK OF DEMOCRACY WHICH ENABLES THE ELECTION MONGERS TO MAKE MORE AND MORE PROMISES, TO GET ELECTE .....Read more


EACH NEW BORN CHILD HAS WINGS, IS IT NOT SURPRISING?


05 July 2019 01:02

EACH NEWLY BORN CHILD HAS WINGS, IS NOT SURPRISING. It is a fact. As the child starts growing, the wings he/she was born with, continue growing, some get strengthened while in some case these remain dormant and finally die natural death. THE WINGS GET TO GROW due to (1) in-born aptitude and qualities, (2) grow up by parents care and guidance (3) studies shape these up (4) society and environments encourage to mold these up (5) comparison with .....Read more


INTELLIGENCE NEEDS TO DEVELOP TO WISDOM, WISDOM TO VISION


01 July 2019 05:23

INTELLIGENCE IS NO GOOD IF NOT DEVELOPED INTO WISDOM which develops when one faces many problems and gives answers to those, the more the ticklish and taxing situations are tackled, the more wisdom develops and encourages to take decisions concerning small and big situations. Soon after wisdom is achieved, VISION IS IMPORTANT, which many fail to develop as it involves elaborate studies of how the situations are shaping up in the neighbourhood, in .....Read more


THE POORER ONE IS THE HARDER ONE WORKS WHY SO?


26 June 2019 07:50

THE POORER ONE IS, THE HARDER HE/SHE WORKS. Why so. It is a compulsion as the one is born, needs to survive and to survive, to fill one's belly and to have a shelter get essential and as one grows, one feels the urge to get married. In contrast, the poorer one is, the more children one has, why so as he/she has no outings except to live and enjoy with each other. IN CONTRAST, THE RICHER ONE IS, THE LESSER ONE FEELS THE URGE TO WORK. Why so, as on .....Read more


RELIGION WAS CREATED AS UNIFYING FORCE BUT HAS GONE INTO DIVIDING,CREATING CONFLICTS


26 June 2019 07:58

RELIGION WAS CREATED TO UNIFY THE PEOPLE TO LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE, LOVE AND CELEBRATIONS ALIKE. Alas religion has got into many forms and names and as such CONFLICTS EMERGED AMONGST THEM TO GROW THEIR RESPECTIVE NUMBERS WITH THEIR RESPECTIVE BELIEFS, IN MANY CASES DEPRECATING AND DEMOLISHING OTHER RELIGIONS. History is full of conflicts and wars fought on the basis of religion. Despite all this Christianity and Muslim religions remain predomin .....Read more


LOVE AWAITED COMPARISON WITH PLANTS AND TREES


24 June 2019 06:02

LOVE AWAITED; Trees and plants await love of rain, howsoever watering we may do, rain makes a difference, it seems, with rain all trees and plants dance in joy to forget the onslaught of the heat of the sun in summer. Likewise children especially when small await mother to take them into her lap, kiss them and shower love on them. It happens with children whose mothers are working mothers, estranged mothers and at times separated by time and circ .....Read more


CHANCES COME TO EVERYONE


22 June 2019 01:42

CHANCES COME TO EVERYONE IN LIFE, few grab it, quite a few fail to analyse the importance of chance, many decide not take it as each chance is fraught with risk, compulsion not to lose the present one for the uncertain one and/or compelled by family compulsions. ALL THESE FACTORS ARE TRUE in the circumstances one lives in BUT I WILL SAY MANY DO NOT TRUST THEMSELVES AND THEIR CAPACITIES and thus do not feel inclined to take risk in the new chance .....Read more


ONE NATION AND ONE ELECTION


22 June 2019 12:00

ONE NATION AND ONE ELECTION

ONE NATION AND ONE ELECTION; I agree to ONE NATION in diversity of religions and beliefs, to live in peace and accept constitution as bible, quran etc. Religion is congregation of same thoughts and customs of living which helps the believers of same religion to practice religion and live in peace. Further if one religion has the right to live in peace in his/her religion, others have also have also the same right to live in peace. HENCE COHESION .....Read more


GARDENER IS THE LIFE OF THE FLOWER, LIKEWISE HUSBAND IS THE LIFE OF THE WIFE


21 June 2019 06:29

GARDENER IS THE LIFE OF THE FLOWER, LIKEWISE HUSBAND IS THE LIFE OF THE WIFE. How and in what manner? Gardner imagines which type of flower he should sow, at which soil and in which area. Likewise husband also imagines to marry, looks up for the best mate, family members and the status they all hold. This effort I have put into write-up HOW TO SELECT A PARTNER. As the gardener selects the seed, likewise the husband also looks up as to who could b .....Read more


A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.


29 October 2018 05:46

A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.

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Love awaited


24 June 2018 05:55

Love awaited

Love awaited; Trees and plants await love of rain, howsoever watering we may do, rain makes a difference, it seems, with rain all trees and pl .....Read more


Health is wealth


23 June 2018 12:52

 Health is wealth

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United we win while divided we fall


23 June 2018 11:51

United we win while divided we fall

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Family problems 3rd stop honey-moon, charter of demands, discussions, clarifications and commitments


15 March 2018 11:48

Family problems 3rd stop honey-moon, charter of demands, discussions, clarifications and commitments

I feel after marriage the wife must remain in the house of the husband for a few days whereby she will be able to know how the family especially the mother-in-law behave, whether she is being liked criticized, how her husband is accommodating her and taking care of her with none so near except her husband, HONEYMOON as such will give an opportunity for ap .....Read more


To Be a Perfect Man or Be Categorized as a Perfect Person


12 March 2018 11:43

To Be a Perfect Man or Be Categorized as a Perfect Person

Conclusion; It is practically impossible for a normal person to be PERFECT but if one makes effort, one will surely be near the goal, maybe one may achieve it. It is said that perfect persons like Lord Rama, Lord Krishna, Budha etc. were GODs Messengers to correct the human beings on this earth and guide them how to live in harmony with others an .....Read more


Divorce vs Estranged Life


16 December 2017 07:24

Divorce vs Estranged Life

Both are worst I think, both need reflexion why, what was the purpose of marriage and what will be the consequences if divorce happens. (2) Also should one continue with estranged relationship or better divorce? Both stages are the worst, can one mend and avoid, live with it or decide to break. Answer: I feel divorce one should think of o .....Read more


Cycle of real life - Born in a poor family is a curse but is an opportunity as well


02 December 2017 12:31

Cycle of real life - Born in a poor family is a curse but is an opportunity as well

  To be born in a poor family is a curse but is an opportunity as well:

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A relationship in which two individuals have promised themselves to each other in the way of a coupl


30 November 2017 10:55

A relationship in which two individuals have promised themselves to each other in the way of a coupl

As life goes on, one develops maturity. Likewise marriage guidance new concept has become almost mature enough to provide the desiring aspirants matches of their choice and is also trying to get over the janampatri problem which is essential part of relationship with many aspirants and their families and whereyby the relationship is not tied despite that fact that boy and girl approve each other and so do the families.Therefore in order to avoid .....Read more


Stress reasons and answers!!


27 November 2017 10:56

Stress reasons and answers!!

  STRESS what it means: It means your faculties get strained due to

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Parents need to prioritise inquiries search even at the cost of work and pre-occupations


27 November 2017 07:49

Parents need to prioritise inquiries search even at the cost of work and pre-occupations. Even if the final choice is left to the children, still it is essential for the parents to find time and make all inquiries to dissipate their doubts and reservations, by all means available.
Finding time even at the cost of work is very important to avoid repentance afterward. Such a role of the parents is essential as a guide to making a final decis .....Read more


To find choicest soulmate is a big problem, Why so


27 November 2017 07:53

To find choicest soulmate is a big problem, Why so

1. Many boys and girls through friend’s relationship:

  • have lost charm of marriage
  • have made aspirants skeptical about finding choicest soulmate
  • being ditched by one or many in his or her friendship relations
  • Parents blockage and disapprovals
  • Caste and religion hurdles
  • Sun-lines/janampatri matching thwarts marriage relationship as the aspira .....Read more


PARENTS NEED TO PRIORITISE INQUIRIES SEARCH EVEN AT THE COST OF WORK AND PRE-OCCUPATIONS. 04-11-


27 November 2017 07:53

Even if the final choice is left to the children, still it is essential for the parents to find time and make all inquiries to dissipate their doubts and reservations, by all means available. Finding time even at the cost of work is very important to avoid repentance afterward. Such a role of the parents is essential as a guide to making a final decision by their child but CARE needs to be taken:

  1. not to influence the views of their .....Read more


TO FIND CHOICEST SOULMATE IS A BIG PROBLEM, WHY SO 04-11-2017


27 November 2017 07:53

1. Many boys and girls through FRIENDS RELATIONSHIP:

       - have lost charm of marriage

       - have made aspirants skeptical about finding choicest soulmate

       - being ditched by one or many in his or her friendship relatio .....Read more


Why it is so, one is sometime attracted by glimpse, emotions, imagination and cares For none except


27 November 2017 07:53

Why it is so, one is sometime attracted by glimpse, emotions, imagination and cares For none except

 LOVE IS BLIND - It is said so. What a charismatic attraction whereby one does not care for the family nor even for himself, remains always submerged in thoughts, images, recalls and awaits to hear, have a glimpse, hoping that one day his love and sacrifices will turn into reality I have said himself and not herself as it is rare that a girl overtly expresses her love or makes advances whil .....Read more


Is Love Stronger Or the Hatred?


27 November 2017 07:54

Generally one will say, love is stronger than hatred as when one is ready to make all sacrifices even one is ready to die but not ever for hatred. Hence Love is taken and accepted stronger than hatred.
But i do not think so and feel that hared is stronger than Love, why so?
Love takes time to develop which happens because of:
       1. Contact
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Comparison of qualities of man and woman


27 November 2017 07:54

Comparison of qualities of man and woman as also weaknesses of man and woman and how to make both compatible to avoid conflicts and turn couple life a happier one.

Man’s qualities:
     - Patient
     - Calculative
     - Reflective
     - Disciplined
     - Team builder
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Should love be kept secret or open at public places?


27 November 2017 07:54

I would say it should be in secret and privy to individuals as otherwise it will influence the children to get distracted and the time which is meant for studies and hard work will get wasted resulting in sufferance for the future. However, it is not so at present. Young generation is moving towards more and more freedom in all manners and in all walks of life. Movies, theatres, travel to different developed countries in particular in France, the .....Read more


Is it essential to have friends when one has relations?


27 November 2017 07:54

RELATIONS -
They happen to be blood relations in one form or the other – nearest as brothers, sisters, parents while far off are like cousins, nephews, etc. extended to their families, brothers and sisters families and their wives families etc.
While friends develop through contacts:
1. in schools
2. in work place
3. in common activity
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Life is for love, happiness, success, family and be remembered by family, relations, friends, nation


27 November 2017 07:54

Regrettable we find conflicts in: (i)   Couples (ii)  Families (iii) Neighborhood (iv)  Work places (v)   Ideas/ideology (vi)  Beliefs Peace is the motto, which consists of: (i) Understanding  (ii)Frank communication  (iv)Honesty   (v)Sharing and caring   (vi)Divergence of opinion, but with no vengeance or ego    (vii)Fidelity    (viii)Reciprocal sex satisfaction     (ix) .....Read more


Love Marriage : How to Persuade Parents


27 November 2017 07:54

Parents always insist on their choice and advance as such many palatable arguments about their choice. It is always their keen desire to get their children married before it is too late and also when they are in service so that they are able to enjoy the participation and gathering of their contacts and prominence. It is the keen desire of each and every parent to execute these responsibilities as early as possible especially when they are compar .....Read more


What a Resembling Comparison between Rose Flower and the Wife


27 November 2017 07:54

- Precious is rose flower,Precious is the wife. - Rose is colorful,Wife is incomparable  - Scent of rose spreads all around,Wife’s fragrance spreads happiness in house and all around. - rose pauses at night in order to be in full bloom and charm in morning next,wife pauses at night, goes   to sleep when all are gone to bed and wakes up earliest of all to emit love to everyone. - Rose does not wish anyone to pluck it,wife does not .....Read more


What Types Of Problems a Girl Faces Before Marriage and After


27 November 2017 07:54

Before marriage ceremonies:
1. Fear and uncertainties about the boy and his family.
2. Awful scenes of how to leave her family where she has been brought up and loved so far.
3. How will it be possible to break away from her friends, relations and colleagues who had been her life in play, jokes, enjoyments, l .....Read more


Is Marriage A Gamble, Destiny, Acceptance Of Each Other And Adjustments Or Conflicts?


27 November 2017 07:54

1. DESTINY is predominant with old - guards, religious sects, illiterates and downtrodden and have-nots.  The more men and women are getting literate, are getting influenced by social media etc. destiny with these literates, working class and those who keep conscious and aware as to how and in what direction the world is moving etc., they hardly believe in destiny. Choice remains their top priority while des .....Read more


Marriage Is A Problem – Not At All


27 November 2017 07:55

Just try it once. The founder of Marriage Guidance New Concept is a man of experience, vision, full of love and dedication to help the mankind, wonderful and astonishingly, at NO COST. He is a recipe, solace and guide for those in despair, gives solution to almost all problems, is philosophical articulates his experience and vision in writings, discussions and dialogue. He is missionar .....Read more


Woman is Hesitant and Choosy Now and Man Needs to Adapt his Attitude Behaviour


27 November 2017 07:55

Time Has Changed
What a wonder; now the girls have become hesitant and choosy
-    Question Arises: What the boys are supposed to do now in changed circumstances;
-    God has made two opposite genders to attract and love each other.
-    God has created man and woman also  to live together in peace and harmony, then wh .....Read more


Formate for Selection Of a Partner


08 December 2018 09:25

Formate for Selection Of a Partner

This format has been devised to facilitate the marriage intending spouses. The key points in the format are to jot down about:
  • One's personality
  • Habits
  • Successes
  • Weaknesses
  • Desires
  • Priorities these into changeable and impossible to change
  • In impossible likely to change, mark which could change if the Spouse is found a loving and caring one.
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