APPRECIATION OR DEPRECIATION, -WHICH IS BETTER AND WHY? ANSWER -THERE IS NO DOUBT EACH ONE WOULD LIKE TO BE APPRECIATED THAN DEPRECIATED. -IT IS HUMAN NATURE AND IS WEAKNESS AS WELL THAT EACH ONE WOULD LIKE TO BE APPRECIATED -IN LIFE IN GENERAL WE FIND THAT MANY OF US FIGHT NOT ONLY TO BE APPRECIATED BUT DO ALL GOOD OR BAD TO GET TO PROMINENCE -IT CAN BE DUE TO EXCEPTIONAL BEHAVIOUR. EXCEPTIONAL SUCCESS -WHICH COULD BE CALLED MERITORIOUS APPRECIATION -IT CAN BE GOOD OR BAD AS WELL -TO BE APPRECIATED ALL THE TIME WITH FACTS OR NOT, CAN MAKE ONE PROUD -AND TO ACHIEVE AND MAINTAIN IT ONE WILL TEND NOT TO LISTEN TO ANY ONE NOR ANY VIEWS AND WILL DO ALL WHAT HE/SHE THINKS IS RIGHT -WHICH IN GENERAL ENDS UP IN DICTATORHSIP OR IN DICTATORIAL TENDENCIES AND ATTITUDE. -DEPRECIATION OR CONDEMNATION WILL GENERALLY DISCOURAGE ONE AND WHATEVER ENERGEY ONE HAS TO STRUGGLE WILL BE WIPED OUT. -BUT WHEN REASONS FOR CONDEMNATION COULD BE ANALYSED, PERHAPS ONE WILL COME TO REALISE THAT IT IS GOOD IN THE SENSE THAT IT MAKES HIM/HER AWARE WHAT HE/SHE NEEDS TO DO MORE NOT ONLY TO GET OVER CONDEMNATION BUT INSTEAD BE APPRECIATED AS WELL. -THUS IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT ONE NEEDN’T BE APPRECIATED OR CONDEMNED ALL THE TIME -RATHER IT WILL BE BETTER TO APPRECIATE WHEN ONE FEELS THAT SOMETHING GOOD OR UNEXPECTED HAS BEEN DONE -CONFDEMNATION, INSTEAD OF CONDEMNING, IT WILL BE BETTER TO BRING OUT REASONS THEREFOR AND EXPLAIN IF EFFORTS WERE NOT DONE TO REMOVE SUCH DEFICIENCIES AND/OR WEAKNESSES, SUCH AN ATTITUDE OR ACTIONS COULD BE HARMFUL IN HIS/HER LIFE IN FUTURE AND AT ANY TIME. Conclusion: appreciation or condemnation must be related to circumstances, actions and care must be taken to use either of these sparingly and exceptionally with an intention to encourage one to continue in struggle for appreciation and for the one who requires to be condemned, if one is pointed out the reasons as to why he/she is being condemned and how he/she can not only get rid of such weaknesses but how and in what manner he/she is to struggle to get better and better. …………………………………………………………………………………………………. By vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevkiibd@gmail.com