SHOULD ONE NEED TO BE IN THE SAME COMPANY OF FRIENDS OR IN THE CONTRADICTORY ONE 9-12-23


09 December 2023 02:45

SHOULD ONE NEED TO BE IN THE SAME COMPANY OF FRIENDS WHO HAVE SAME OR SIMILAR VIEWS OR ON THE CONTRARY WITH THOSE WHO HAVE VIEWS IN CONTRAST AND IN TOTAL DISAGREEMENT. -WHEN IT IS THE COMPAY OF FRIENDS WITH THE SAME VIEWPOINTS MAYBE POLITICAL, ECONOMIC, SOCIAL, RELIGIOUS ETC. -IT IS EASIER TO EXPRESS AND CONVERSE THAN OTHERWISE -THERE WILL BE OPENNESS OF ALL KINDS AND THERE WILL BE NO RESERVATION AT ALL ABOUT LIKING OR DISLIKING -DISCUSSION WILL GO ON TO EXPRESS AS ONE THINKS AND TO CONCLUDE CONVENIENTLY WITHOUT ANY BICKERING OF CONFLICT. -AND IF ONE PREFERS TO BE IN THE COMPANY OF THOSE WHO HAVE ALTOGETHER CONTRADICTORY AND OPPOSITE VIEWS THAN THE ONE BELIEVES IN, WHY AND WHAT ADVANTAGE ONE WILL DERIVE TO ASSOCIATE WITH SUCH TYPE OF FRIENDS. -UNDOUBTEDLY THERE WILL BE HEATED DISCUSTIONS EACH ONE WILL BE EXPRESSING AND ENFORCING HIS/HER VIEWS, WHETHER LIKED OR NOT -IF THE COMPANY OF SUCH FRIENDS IS MOSTLY OF MEMBERS WHO ARE IN CONTRADICTION TO THE ONE WHO IS BEARING OPPOSITE VIEWS, IT WILL BE VERY HARD FOR HIM/HER TO EXPRESS FREELY WHAT ONE THINKS AND WANTS TO EXPRESS -BECAUSE MOST OF THE MEMBER OF THE COMPANY WILL THINK THAT SUCH VIEWS/REMARKS ARE IRRELEVANT AND BY ALL MEANS WOULD SILENCE HIM/HER RATHER THAN ALLOW TO EXPRESS ONESELF -IT IS POSSIBLE THAT HEATED CONTRADICTORY DISCUSSION MAY TAKE PLACE AND END UP ON ESTRANGED RELATIONSHIP -AND ALSO THE ONE WHO HOLDS OPPOSITE VIEWS WILL ALSO FEEL UNHAPPY AND UNFOMFORTABLE. -THEN QUESTION ARISES IS THERE ANY ADVANTAGE TO BE IN THE CONTRADICTORY COMPANY OF FRIENDS -YES PROVIDED FREEDOM IS GIVEN TO EXPRESS HIM/HER -AND DISCUSSION IS HELD WITH VIEWS FOR AND AGAINST -TO ELABORATE, CLARIFY AND REACH A DECISION -THERE IS NO DOUBT, SUCH A DECISION WILL BE FOOL PROOF TO A GREAT EXTENT THAN DISCUSSED IN THE COMPANY OF LIKE MINDED FRIENDS. -IN NORMAL LIFE, IT IS BETTER TO PUT AN ADVERSE AND OPPOSITE ONE TO EXPRESS AND GIVE HIS/HER VIEWS AGAINST AND FOR THE VIEWS ONE IS HOLDING AND THAT HE/SHE WANTS TO SEEK ALL SORTS OF CLARIFICATIONS TO REPLY BACK WHAT HIS ADVERSARIES/ OPPONENT IS GOING TO PUT FORWARD. -IN THIS PROCESS, ALL EVENTUALITIES WITH PROS AND CONS ARE DISCUSSED, ELABORATED AND ANSWERS PREPARED IN ADVANCE RATHER THAN GET ALARMED AND SHAKEN BY WHAT THE OPPONENT PUTS FORWARD HIS/HER VIEWS IN ARGUMENTS. In conclusion it is better to be in the company of opposite views than to be in the like- minded friends as such a company will help him/her to know and prepare what opposite situations could arise but when a person wants to enjoy peace by passing off time and/or relaxing, it will be better to be associated with the like minded persons. HOWEVER IT IS VERY IMORTANT TO REMAIN CALM AND PATIENT IN BOTH TYPES OF COMPANY.