WHO TURNS OUT TO BE THE BOSS AFTER MARRIAGE. What I have written stands true. It is said that the first night of meeting determines who will be the boss and decision maker. ADVICE: let it not be determined in the spirit to turn out one as a boss, instead(1) IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ACCEPT QUALITIES OF EACH OTHER, APPRECIATE THESE, ACCOMMODATE BY DISCUSSION AND COMMUNICATION AND TURN AROUND FINALLY WHICH IS GOOD FOR THE FAMILY ETC. FINAL SAY SHOULD REMAIN WITH THE MERITS, INTUITIONS ,EXPERIENCE AND EXPERTISE OF EITHER OF THE TWO AND READY ACCEPTANCE BY THE OTHER WITHOUT ANY EGO, GRUMBLING AND LATER ACCUSATIONS.(2) TO FACILITATE EFFICIENCY AND JOB WELL DONE, IT IS BETTER TO DISCUSS AND DETERMINE SPECIFIC JOBS BETWEEN THE TWO WHICH WILL HELP IN OWNING RESPONSIBILITY, EXECUTION AND SHALL AVOID INTERFERENCE TO THE MAXIMUM. (3) UNDERSTANDING OF SINCERITY, HONESTY, FRANKNESS ARE ESSENTIAL TO CREATE TRUST AND INVITE FRANK FEELINGS, OPINIONS ETC. (4) NEVER TO ACCUSE AND INDULGE IN ACCUSATIONS IF SOMETHING AFTER DELIBERATION TOGETHER OR LEFT IN TRUST, GOES WRONG AND INSTEAD TO OWN THE RESPONSIBILITY TOGETHER AND CONCENTRATE TO ANALYSE WHAT WENT WRONG AND HOW TO CORRECT FOR THE FUTURE......TKS