WIFE COMMANDS MORE THAN THE HUSBAND, THEN WHY DOES SHE GRUMBLE, IS THE QUESTION -PERHAPS SHE IS NOT CONSCIOUS OF THAT -PERHAPS SHE GETS BURDENED WITH WORK ESPECIALLY WHEN WORKING AND TAKING CARE OF HOUSEHOLD -PERHAPS RESPONSIBILITIES ARE NOT BEINGSHARED BY THE HUSBAND IN REPLY: -IF HUSBAND MAKES AN EFFORT TO EXPLAIN THAT HIS JOB IS EARNING, MAKE PROGRESS IN CAREER, AND BRING IN MORE MONEY FOR WELFARE OF THE FAMILY AND IN PARTICULAR OF THE CHILDREN IN THEIR UPBRINGING AND WELFARE -IT IS POSSIBLE THAT THE WIFE WHO IS NOT WORKING WILL EASILY UNDERSTAND AND WILL MAKE A COPROMISE BUT THE GIRL WORKING WILL NEVER GET CONVINCED AS SHE WILL REPLY THAT SHE IS WORKING AND IT IS NOT THAT IN OFFICE, SHE TAKES REST, SHE ALSO WORKS MORE OR LESS LIKE YOU -IN SUCH A SITUATION, THE ANSWER REMAINS THAT HUSBAND MUST SHARE HOUSEHOLD RESPONSIBILITIES DESPITE THE FACT THAT HE IS WORKING SO HARD ALL FOR THE FAMILY AND NOT FOR HIMSELF ALONE -NORMALLY COOKING IS DONE BY WIFE AND HUSBANDS PREFER THAT ALSO IN THAT CONDITION, HUSBAND CAN TAKETO CLEANING UNTENSILS, SETTING UP THE TABLE, CLEAN AND DO UPKEEP OF THE HOUSE ETC. - IN SUCH A SITUATION, HUSBAND WILL NOT BE COMMANDED MORE BUT WILL SURELY BE BURDENED, I WON’T SAY, MORE EQUAL AT LEAST - IF THE HUSBANDS DO NOT WISH TO BE COMMANDED MORE BY WIVES, THEN IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT THEY MUST SHARE HOUSEHOLDS AND AS SUCH DO NOT GIVE ANY CHANCE TO WIVES TO GRUMBLE,THAT THE WIVES ARE WORKING MORE AND ARE TIRED WHILE THEIR HUSBAND WISH TO RELAX BY SEEING TV OR TAKING DRINK ETC. ETC. -EQUALLY IMPORTANT, IT IS ESSENTIAL FOR THE HUSBANDS TO BECOME CONSCIOUS OF THE FACT THAT SOON AFTER MARRIAGE, HUSBANDS COMMAND, THE WIVES MAKE ALL EFFORTS TO ADJUST WITH THEIR HUSBANDS AND THEIR FAMILIES AS WELL DESPITE THAT EVEN IF THEY TAKE TO AND/OR ACCEPT TO SHARING HOUSEHOLD RESPONSIBIITIES. LET THE HUSBANDS NOT FORGET THAT WITHOUT EXCEPTION THEY WILL BE COMMANDED BY THEIR WIVES, AS THEIR BODIES WILL GET DECAYED, THEY WILL GET OLD, PERHAPS DISEASED, PRACTICALLY DOING NO WORK AFTER RETIREMENT, THEIR WIVES BEING SURROUNDED BY THEIR CHILDREN ETC. THE HUSBANDS HAVE NECESSARILY TO DEPEND ON THEIR WIVES AND BE COMMANDED AS SUCH IN THE SAME MANNER, AS THE PARENTS SEE THEIR CHILDREN NOT DOING MUCH WORK, SCOLD THEM TO HELP IN HOUSEHOLDS, SIMILARLY THE HUSBANDS IN OLD AGE GENERALLY DO NOT DO MUCH, AND THE ENTIRE BURDEN FALLS ON THE WIVES, THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT THE WIVES WILL COMMAND ON THEIR HUSBANDS AND IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT THE HUSBANDS MUST ACCEPT THIS FACT AND LIVE A REASONABLY COMFORTABLE LIFE – ADVICE FOR HUSBANDS; WHEN HUSBANDS REACH OLD AGE, NEVER THEY CONTRADICT YOUR WIVES, NEVER GRUMBLE, ACCEPT THE SITUATION AS IT ROLLS ABOUT, MANAGE TO ADJUST AND BE HAPPY IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES, HOWSOEVER GOOD OR HARD THESE HAPPEN. ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………. BY vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free Marriage bureau, founded in 2015: contacts: vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com -