HAPPINESS WHAT DOES IT MEAN AND HOW IT HELPS IN LIFE? -IT IS HAPPINESS WHICH GIVES CONFIDENCE TO AN INDIVIDUAL -TO REMAIN MOTIVATED -TO MEET, PARTICIPATE AND ENJOY WHEREVER ONE IS TO WORK AS BEST AS POSSIBLE -TO REMAIN WORRILESS -TO REMAIN WINNER AND SUCCESSFUL -ENCOURAGE TO BUILD AND KEEP RELATIONS WITH EACH AND EVERYONE -PROBLEMS AND NEGETIVITY HAVE NO PLACE AT ALL -JEALOUSIES, EGO, ANGER ETC. FIND NO PLACE AT ALL -LIFE IN ALL SPHERES WHETHER MARRIED LIFE, CHILDREN, COLLEAGUES, IN COMPETITION, IN BEHAVIOUR, ATTITUDES ACTIONS ETC. WIPES OFF EACH AND EVERY MOMENT AND ALL THE TIME -HELPS TO GAIN PROMINENCE AND GETS SUPPORT EVERYWHERE AND IN ALL REQUIREMENTS AS AND WHEN NEEDED. THE ONE WHO HAS WON THE ART AS TO HOW TO LIVE HAPPY ALL THE TIME DESPITE ALL ODDS AND DISCOURAGEMENTS OF LIFE, IS LIKE A SAINT, WORTHY TO BE RESPECTED RATHER WORSHIPPED AND AS SUCH VICES LIKE JEALOUSIES, ANGER, BIAS TOWARDS GENDERS, COMMUNITIES, RELIGIONS, BELIEFS ETC. ARE WASHED OFF FOR EVER. IN SHORT, SUCH A PERSON, IN OTHER WORDS CAN BE CALLED, ESTEEMED AND ACCEPTED THAT HE/SHE HAS WON THE PRESENT AND THE FUTURE AS WELL TO BE IN HEAVAN AND TO REMAIN CHERISHED AND ADMIRED BY GOD FOR HIS/HER ACHIEVEMENT AND WIN OVER IMPOSSIBLE. NOW THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER IT IS A DREAM OR IS IT ACHIEVEABLE? IN ANSWER: 1. IS IT ACHIEVEABLE, YES 2. TO REMAIN HAPPY ALL THE TIME, IS PRACTICALLY IMPOSSIBLE 3. SHOCKS AND WORRIES CAN HIT, BUT CONSCIOUS OF HAPPINESS WILL BRING IT BACK TO REGAIN HAPPINESS. 4. AS THE SO-CALLED INDIVIDUAL WILL GET WEAKER IN HEALTH OR PERHAPS GET DISEASED, HAPPINESS WILL SURELY GO AWAY, WILL NEVER CAUSE WORRY AND BY ALL MEANS MANAGE TO KEEP SUCH A PERSON CALM AND ENCOURAGE TO ACCEPT THE SITUATION AS IT IS, IN REALITY, AND MOVE ON IN HOPE THAT SOON SUCH SITUATIONS WILL BE OVER AND HAPPINESS WILL COME BACK. IN SHORT IF A PERSON MAKES EFFORT AND REMAINS CONSCIOUS TO WARD OFF ALL SITUATIONS AND ACTIONS IN WHATEVER INTENSITY THESE MIGHT BE, WILL SURELY PASS HIS/HER LIFE MOSTLY IN HAPPINESS. THE QUESTION ARISES HOW TO ACHIEVE HAPPINESS: 1. FIRST AND FOREMOST IS THE CONSCIOUNESS 2. 2ND ONE IS TO DISCERN AS WHAT ARE THE VICES AND SITUATIONS WHICH ARE AFFECTING HIS/HER HAPPINESS 3. ANALYSE AND PRIORITIES WHICH IS MOST IMPORTANT AND TO MOVE ON ONCE THE GOAL IS ACHIEVED TO ELEMINATE AND WIN OVER THAT SITUATION AND/OR THE SO-CALLED VICE 4. TO SHOVE OFF ANY AND EVERY OBSTABLE/ABBERATION WHICH IS AFFECTING THE GOAL 5. TO ANALYSE DAILY HOW MUCH ACHIEVEMENT HAS BEEN DONE AND HOW MUCH EFFORT/ACTION IS REQUIRED TO MOVE ON AND ON 5. TO BEGIN WITH GOAL WILL SEEM TO BE EASIER AND ACHIEVABLE BUT AS THE TIME WILL PASS OFF AND MOVEMENT FROM ONE STEP TO THE OTHER WILL HAPPEN, IN ALL PROBABILITY. IT IS WILL BRING IN RESISTANCE AND DISCOURAGEMENT AND PUT IN ALL REASONS TO ARGUE AND TAKE DECISION THAT IT IS NOT ACHIEVABLE AT ALL, AND LET ME FORGET ABOUT IT AND MOVE ON IN LIFE AS USUAL. 6. THE LAST ONE IS THE DETERMINATION TO FACE ALL SITUATIONS AND SUCCEED AS A WINNER AND SUCCESSFUL PERSON. 7. AS AND WHEN ONE GOAL WILL BE ACHIEVED, IT WILL ENCURAGE TO GET TO OTHERS, ONE BY ONE, AFTER HAVING PRIORITIESED, SET THE GOAL AND WON OVER ONE BY ONE 8. ONCE THESE INITIAL STEPS ARE TAKEN, OBSTABLES REMOVED, SUCCESS ACHIEVED. ONE MUST AIM AT THE GOAL TO ACHIEVE AND REMAIN HAPPY. 9. BELIEVE ME IT WILL NEVER BE DIFFICULT AS ONE WOULD HAVE LEARNT THE ART AS TO HOW TO TACKLE AND GET OVER ALL THOSE FACTORS AND SITUATIONS WHICH WILL BE AFFECTING HIS/HER HAPPINESS. FINALLY SUCH A PERSON MOST OF THE TIME WILL NEVER GET DISTURBED, SHALL MANAGE TO REMAIN CALM AND PEACEFUL, NO REBUFF, NO RETALIATION, NO ANGER, NO HATRED ETC. IS LIKELY TO REMAIN HAPPY MOST OF THE TIME OF HIS/HER LIFE. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. By vasdevloond, founder of cost free marriage bureau, titled MARRIAGE GUIDANCE NEW CONCEPT: contacts:9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com