WE CHERISH LOVE AND HATE WORRIES, BUT IT REALITY, IT HAPPENS THE CONTRAST, WHY SO AND WHAT ARE THE REASONS, IS A QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED AND SOLUTIONS GIVEN. -UNDOUBTELY WE ALL CHERISH LOVE, WANT NOT ONLY TO MAINTAIN BUT WANT ALSO NOT ONLY TO DEVELOP IT BUT TO STRENGTHEN RATHER CEMENT IT FOR ALL TIMES GOOD OR BAD. -UNFORTUNATELY IT HAPPENS THE CONTRAST, THE MORE WE GO IN NUMBER, THE MORE WE ENGAGE ON MISUNDERSTANDINGS, CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS. -QUESTION ARISES IF IT IS SO, THE ANSWER IS EASY, THERE IS NOTHING TO THINK ABOUT -THESE ARE INHERENT WEAKNESSES OF MAN WHICH APPEAR AND SHAPE INTO ALL SORTS OF SO-CALLED VICES -THE WEAKNESSES CONSIST OF JEALOUSIES, GREED, COMPARISON, DOMINANCE, PROMINENCE, POWER, RECOGNITION AND TO BE WRITTEN DOWN IN HISTORY AND REMEMBERED ALL THE TIME AS AN EXCEPTIONAL AND GLORIOUS EXAMPLE OF SUCCESS. -AND WHEN SUCH A THINKING DEVELOPS, LOVE STARTS DIMINISHING AND GETTING OVERPOWERED BY AMBITIONS BY ALL MEANS GOOD OR BAD, -GENERALLY BAD OVERPOWERS WHATEVER GOOD IS LEFT AND HEREAFTER LOVE IS COMPLETELY REPLACED BY GREED, HATE AND BY ALL TYPES OF TRICKS AND MEANS TO REACH ONE’S AMBITION -IN SUCH A SUCH A SITUATION, LOVE AND RELATIONS BECOME INSIGNIFICANT, THE FLATTERERS AND THOSE WHO ARE CONSIDERED LOYAL AND HELPFUL TO ACHIEVE ONE’S AMBITION ARE ADMIRED AND USED FOR ALL PURPOSES, EVEN TO THE EXTENT OF ELEMINATING THE SO-CALLED FOES, ENEMIES AND WHO SEEM TO BE OBSTACLES. -THERE ARE NUMERIUS EXAMPLES WHEREIN ONE’S OWN CHILDREN KILL HIM/HER TO GAIN POWER, PROMINENCE, RECOGNITIION ETC. REMAIN ALONE TO DECIDE, REMAINS NONE TO QUESTION OR CRITICISE HIM/HER -THIS IS LIFE, IT HAPPENS AND IT GOES ON LIKE THAT, IT HAS EXISTED SINCE EXISTANCE OF HUMAN BEINGS AND WILL CONTINUE TILL THESE HUMAN BEINGS EXIST -WE READ AND ARE TOLD ABOUT ALSO, WHEN EXTREME HAPPENS, SOME MESSENGERS OF GOD COME ON EARTH TO CORRECT THE RACE AND SET THIS RIGHT -WHICH PERHAPS HAPPENS FOR SOME TIME, LATER ON THE SAME RACE OF HATE SHINES UP AND ALL SORTS ABUSES, VICTIMISATIONS ETC. START GROWING UP. -EVEN AT PRESENT MANY RELIGIOUS ORGANISATION EXIST, INCLUDING TEMPLES, CHURCHES, MOSQUES ETC. TO PREACH LOVE AND HATE NEVER -BUT IN REALITY ALL THESE ORGANISATIONS AND INSTITUTIONS CLAMOUR FOR PROMINENCE TO EXPAND AND EXPAND ENDLESSLY AND AS SUCH DESTROY AND/OR ELEMINATE THE OTHERS CONSIDERED AS COMPETITORS AND/OR NON ACCEPTABLE -IN VIEWS, CREED AND/OR PROMINENCE -AND AS SUCH IN THE RACE TO BE KNOWN THE BEST TO BE ADMIRED AND WORSHIPPED -ALL ILLS ARE TALKED OFF ABOUT OTHERS, NOT TO TALK OF LOVE ALL PREACHES AND SPEECHES ARE DIRECTED AGAINST OTHERS IN HATRED, LIES AND WHAT NOT. -HAVING SAID ALL THE NEGATIONS AND REALITIES, THEN THE QUESTION ARISES AS TO WHAT IS THE ANSWER TO GET RID OF THESE VICES. -IT IS WELL KNOWN WHEN THERE IS DESTRUCTION, CONSTRICTION TAKES PLACE -AND WHEN THERE ARE UPHEALS/HAVOCS/DESTRUCTION BY NATURE BY MAN BY WAGING WAR ETC. -MANY GET DIED, AND WHOSOEVER ARE LEFT, DO REDEVELOP LOVE AND RENDER HELP OF ALL SORTS FOR EACH OTHER -IN SOME ANSWER, IT SEEMS WHEN THERE IS PLENTY. HATE RECEDES OR EXISTS NO MORE, LOVE, RESPECT, AND TO RENDER HELP DO DEVELOP ALMOST IN EACH AND EVERYONE. -THUS SHOULD WE CONCLUDE, THE LESSOR THE POPULATION, AND MORE MEANS WILL DEVELOP AND ENCOURAGE LOVE -MAYBE FOR A SHORT TIME BUT SOONER AS THE TIME PASSES, THESE NATURAL AND CREATED VICES WILL TAKE THEIR TURN AND DEVELOP RAPIDLY. -AT PRESENT TO A GREAT EXTENT MONEY POWER HAS REDUCE LOVE -AND AS THE TIME PASSES AND IF NATURAL OR CREATED CLAMATIES DO NOT HAPPEN, LOVE WILL CONTINUE DIMINISHING AND POSSIBLY WILL TURN INTO PURPOSE, SELFISHNESS AND UTILITY AND WHEN THAT WILL BE ACHIEVED, THE TEMPORARY LOVE WILL VANISH AND SO ON -AS SUCH. PURPOSE, GAIN, ADVANTAGE WILL REMAIN AS MEANS OF LOVE, SHORT LIVED, ONLY TILL THE TIME PURPOSE IS NOT ACHIEVED. -IN HINDU PHILOSOPY IT IS SAID WHEN SUCH VICES GET TO EXTREME, THEN NATURE TAKES ITS OWN TURN AND/OR SOME GODLY MESSENGER IS SENT TO CORRECT THE CYCLE. -HAVING SAID ALL THIS, LET ONE NOT FORGET, WITH LOVE HAPPINESS COMES ABOUT, ONE LIVES IN PEACE AND ENJOYS LIFE GLORIOUSLY WHILE HATRED BRINGS IN FEAR, DUSTRUCTION AND DISTURBANCE ALL THE TIME. -in conclusion, it is left to one’s choice whether to amass wealth by all means and as such remain worried most of the time or live in love and peace despite having meagre resources. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. By vasdevloond founder of cost free marriage bureau, titled Marriage Guidance New Concept: contacts: vasdevloond t 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com