Formate for Selection Of a Partner


27 November 2017 07:55

Formate for Selection Of a Partner

This format has been devised to facilitate the marriage intending spouses. The key points in the format are to jot down about:
  • One's personality
  • Habits
  • Successes
  • Weaknesses
  • Desires
  • Priorities these into changeable and impossible to change
  • In impossible likely to change, mark which could change if the Spouse is found a loving and caring one.
  • Be specific to observe and/or specifically ask possible answers to the impossible to change.
  • The FORMAT in brief is as under
    • Self Appraisal for Partner Choice Conclusions
      • ACTUAL
        • Flexible
        • Fixed
      • DESIRED
        • Essential
        • Optional
PHYSICAL: Age,Complexion,body construction.
QUALIFICATIONS: Academic, Professional
WORK STATUS: Income,designation,hierarchy status. experience, organisation. Reputation
HABITS: smoke,drink,non-veg/veg, egalitarian,hard work/lethargic/easy goer, plain/honest,soft spoken,gambler,dreamer,night club addict.
ATTITUDFS: Patient,good listener,cool minded, appreciative,short-tempered,vindictive,provocator,aggressive,argumentator,back-biter, never at fault.
BELIEFS: religious,ideologue,traditional/modern, specific to type of job, working or not,d signs/astro/kundli, culture, regional/caste superiority.
ACHIEVEMENTS: academic,professional,career building,relatonships
DECEPTIONS/WEAKNESSES: emotional,trust everyone,hard to relationship, hard to deal/bargain
BUSINESS/SERVICE LIMITATIONS: Late coming/early going,travelling duties,stay away from residence/abroad,strenuous and tiring, same professional/altogether different /specific jobs, work companion in one's organisation/service, working/homely.
FAMILY OBLIGATIONS: Brothers/sister education,brothers/sisters marriage,to live in joint family,old parents single/couple living together/living separate,responsibilties towards them etc. etc.
ASPIRATIONS AND HABITS: career and status uplift,family building and its uplift, caring and loving, to lead a happy and peaceful life,caring and loving,loyal and fidel, truthful, trustworthy,tolerant,adjustable and accommodative,intelligent,consultant, advisor, guide,good companion by constitution, passions,nature,moral and/or financial support,pleasant, admirable,loveable and loving: caring and sharing: compatible