LIFE PASSES MOSTLY IN WORRIES AND CONFLICTS, SHORTEST ARE FEW DAYS COMPARIED TO HARD AND WORRIED LIFE. QUESTION ARISES WHY SO, LIFE IS MEANT TO LIVE IN ENJOYMENT AND HAPPINESS. MANY INVENTIONS HAVE BEEN DONE TO COMFORT AND LET THE MEN/WOMEN ENJOY AND BENEFIT FROM THESE. ALAS, IT DOES NOT HAPPEN. PERHAPS IT IS THE NATURE OF MEN/WOMEN TO REMAIN IN GREED, JEALOUSIES AND PREHAPS TO TAKE PLEASURE IN DESTRUCTION OF OTHERS, EGO DOMINATES, WISDOM BOWS DOWN, EGO PREVAILS ADED WITH " I AM SOMETHING, KNOW IT WELL,I AM NO LESS AT ALL, ANGER FLARES UP, ACCUSATIONS AND FIGHTS BEGIN, ENEMITIES DEVELOP TO AN EXTENT THAT THEY DO NOT WANT SEE EACH OTHER. LOVE AND TO LIVE IN PEACE IS FORGETTEN, BESIDES EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS FURTHER ADD TO WORRIES AND CONFLICTS. IN NUTSHELL, MOST OF LIFE PASSES IN WORRIES, RESPONSIBILITIES, VARIOUS OBLIGATIONS, AS SUCH VERY LITTLE TIME IS LEFT TO ENJOY, AND WORST AGAIN, WHEN LIVE TOGETHER, FIGHTS BEGIN,AND WHEN AWAY, COMPARATIVELY, LOVE AND ADMIRATIONS INCREASE. THEN ALSO WORRIES START, THAT CHILDREN ARE AWAY, AND THERE IS NONE TO TAKE CARE OF US. THUS WORRIES ARE ENDLESS, AND FIND END ONLY WHEN THE LIFE COMES TO AN END. advice: life is to live, enjoy and be happy, it does not mean that one should not work, or live together as husband and wife and/or with children, nonetheless, however, understanding, explanation, acceptance and be respectful are the only answers to live a happy life, there is no alternative at all perhaps. tks vasdevloond