BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE WHO IS STRONGER? -IT IS A MOST COMPLEX AND TICKLISH QUESTION. HOWEVER IT NEEDS TO BE ANALYSED AND CONCLUSION DRAWN. -SOON AFTER MARRIAGE, MOSTLY IT IS HUSBAND WHO IS COMPARATIVELY STRONGER AS THE WIFE ENTERS A NEW HOUSE, UNKNOWN TO REST OF THE MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY, EXCEPT HER HUSBAND. ……………………………………………………HUSBAND AS SUCH IS STRONGER POSSIBLY ALL IN ALL -ALMOST EQUAL; AFTER PASSAGE OF SOME TIME MORE OR LESS A YEAR OR SO, THE WIFE GETS ADJUSTED AND THE HUSBAND TOO BY KNOWING THE HABITS OF HIS WIFE, BY GIVING SOME SPACE IN HIS FAMILY AND CARING FOR HER FAMILY, ………. BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE ALMOST EQUAL, NO DIFFERENCE WHO IS STRONGER FROM THE TIME GETTING MARRIED, EXCEPT ONE OR ONE AND HALF YEAR OF ADJUSTMENT, TILL RETIREMENT OF HER HUSBAND, CHILDREN ARE BORN, RESPONSIBILITIES INCREASE, THIS PERIOD GOES ON NON-ADJUSTMENT, ACCUSING, FIGHTING, NON-ACCEPTANCE, BUT CERTAINLY LIVING TOGETHER FOR THE SAKE OF CHILDREN’S UPBRINGING, EDUCATION ETC. AND TO DO PROGRESS IN CAREER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. DESPITE ALL THESE SKIRMISHES, LIFE GOES ON, HUSBAND RECONCILES WIFE PLAYS A BIT STRONGER ROLE THAN HER HUSBAND WHO MOSTLY RECONCILES AND ACCEPTS. OLD AGE; IN OLD AGE AFTER RETIREMENT IN 60S OR 65S, WORKING POWER AND BRING FINANCIAL HELP TO FAMILY, HEALTH ETC. ARE ALMOST GONE, NOTHING MORE TO DO WHILE WIFE CONTINUES WORKING IN ALL HER HOUSEHOLD DUTIES, AND EVEN TAKING CARE OF HER HUSBAND, IN DIRE DEPENDENCE AND NO FINANCIAL POWER, PRATICALLY DOING NOTHING, ACCEPTS WIFE AS SHE IS AND AS SHE BEHAVES; WIFE IS ALL IN ALL HUSBAND REMAINS IN ACCEPTANCE AS SUCH WIFE BECOMES SUPREME WITH ALL POWERS. CHILDREN; HUSBAND FINDS VERY LITTLE TIME AFTER WORKING WHOLE DAY. TIRED AND/WORRIED, WANTS TO TAKE REST AND RELAX RATHER THAN TAKING SOME TIME TO BE WITH THE CHILDREN AND TAKE SOME TIME TO DISCUSS WITH THEM THEIR ISSUES, AS SUCH ALL SUCH RESPONSIBILITIES FALL ON THE WIFE AND ALSOWHATEVER THE CHIDREN WANT TO BE DONE AND EAR TO GO TO FATHER, EVERY DEMAND OF THE CHILDREN PASSES THROUGH THEIR MOTHER, HENCE IT HAPPENS THAT -HUSBAND FINDING NO TIME AND ALSO BELIEVING THAT LET HIS WIFE MANAGE WITH THE CHILDREN NEITHER HAS HE THE TIME NOR HE WANTS TO DISTURB HIMSELF WITH THE PROBLEMS IF ANY, EXCEPT WHEN HE IS FORCED BY HIS WIFE TO NARRATE THE BEHAVIOUR OF THE CHILDREN AND DIFFICULTIES IF ANY UNDOUBTEDLY IN ASSOCIATION WITH HER CHILDREN AND ALSO THE HUSBAND DECIDING NOT TO INTERFERE NOR HAVING TIME, DO ALLOW THE POWER TO MOVE ON TO HIS WIFE, HENCE -WIFE BECOMES STRONGER WITH POWER VARYING FROM 76% TO 90 WHILE THE HUSBAND REMAINS IN HIDDEN ANGER BUT MANAGES TO PULL ON DESPITE THE FACT THAT THE SITUATION IS NOT NOR ARE CONDUCIVE CIRCUMSTANCES TO TALK AND EXPRESS ABOUT HIS FEELING AND ANGER FRO TO TIME, ACCEPTANCE AND SUBMISSION GO ON WITH WIFE’S POWERS RANGING FROM 75 TO 90% WHILE THIS ABOUT 10% OR MORE MAXIMUM UPTO 25% REMAINS WITH THE HUSBAND, WHO GETS INTO ANGER WHEN HE CAN’T AFFORD TO BEAR AND CONTROL HIS ANGER ANY MORE. PHYSIQUE; THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT HUSBAND AS A MAN IS MUCH STRONGER IN PHYSIQUE THAN THIS WIFE AS A WOMAN. HUSBAND TRIES TO AVOID IN ORDER NOT TO BREAK RELATIONS, INSTEAD TO LET THESE GO ON AS THESE ARE, BUT WHEN THE SITUATION GETS OUT OF HIS CONTROL, HE LOSES ALL PATIENCE AND THEN HIS PHYSIQUE TAKES THE FRONTAL LINE, WHICH RESULTS IN ACCUSING AND THRASHING HIS WIFE, EVENTUALLY LEADING TO BREAK AND GETTING INTO DIVORCE, WITH REPENTANCE ON BOTH SIDES MOSLY, BUT TILL THAT TIME, EGO, JEALOUSIES AND REVENGE TAKE PRIORITY AND THE BREAK BECOMES FINAL. THE QUESTION ARISES AS TO WHO SUFFERS MORE IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES: IT IS THE HUSBAND WHO SUFFERS MORE FINDS HIMSELF ALONE IN REGRETS AS ALSO IN EGO WHILE WIFE AS PER HER NATURE AS A WOMAN, FEELS LESS PAIN BY TALKING AND MIXING UP WITH SOME FRIENDS OF HER LIKING AND PASSES HER TIME. AS SUCH , SHE FEELS LESS EXCEPT WHEN LEFT ALONE. AT THIS STAGE WIFE IS STRONGER BY 25% WHILE HUSBAND IS STRONGER FROM 0 TO 10 AS HIS EGO TURNS STRONG AND DOES NOT ALLOW ANY EFFORT TO MAKE SOME COMPROMISE. INTELLIGENCE; MOSTLY WIFE LET THE HUSBAND GO ON WITH HIS VIEWS AND DECISIONS, IF CONSULTED AND DISCUSSED, SO GOOD AND IF NOT, SHE MAY BE FEELING, BUT HARDLY EXPRESSES AND IF THE RESULTS OF HER HUSAND’S DECISIONS ARE GOOD, SHE SUBMITS AND ACCEPTS HIM FOR ALMOST ALL HIS DECISIONS AND IF SOMETHING GOES WRONG, THEN NOT ONLY THAT HUSBAND FEELS INCLINED TO ASK HIS WIFE BUT AT THE SAME TIME, WIFE ALSO GETS STRONGER TO EXPRESS HER VIEWS AND IDEAS MORE EMPHATICALLY AND THE HUSBAND DOES ACCEPT SUCH AN ATTITUDE OF HIS WIFE. WHEN AN IDEA OR SOME OF THE IDEAS BRING IN SUCCESS WITH THE DESIRED RESULTS, THEN THE HUSBAND REMAINS NOT ONLY INCLINED BUT WAITS FOR HIS WIFE TO TAKE HER TIME AND THEN GET TO DISCUSSION WITH HER VIEWS. NOT TO FORGET, MAN BECAUSE OF FREEDOM TO MOVE IN THE SOCIETY AS HE WISHES, WHILE WOMAN’S MOVEMENTS REMAIN RESTRICTED, BY OWNING AND EXECUTING ALMOST ALL RESPONSIBILITIES OUTSIDE, ALLOW THE MAN TO OBSERVE, DISCUSS AND GAIN EXPERIENCE. AS SUCH HIS INTELLEGENCE INCEASES WHILE THE WIFE AS A WOMAN HASN’T THAT FREEDOM NOR IS ALLOWED TO MIX UP AND DIALOGUE WITH OTHER MEN, HER INTELLIGENCE AS SUCH REMAINS COMPARATIVELY LIMITED. IN SUCH A SITUATION, HUSBAND REMAINS AND IS ACCEPTED AS MORE INTELLIGENT AND DECISION MAKER AS WELL. HOWEVER, WHEN WIFE IS COMING FROM HER PARENTS WHO ARE WELL EDUCATION AND ARE VERY SETTLED IN BUSINESS AND//OR STATUS, THE GIRL/WIFE DEVELOPS INTELLIGENCE AND EXPERIENCE OF 50% WHAT HER PARENTS WERE DOING AS SUCH IF THE HUSBAND IS IN SAME VOCATION AS THE PARENTS OF HIS WIFE, THEN WIFE IS CONSIDERED TO BE COMPRATIVELY MORE INTELLIGENT THAN HER HUSBAND. BESIDES INBORN INTELLIGENCE, MOVING IN THE CONGENIAL ENVIRONMENTS AND ALSO ENCOURAGED BY PARENTS, THE GIRL ALSO ACQUIRES ENOUGH KNOWLEDG AND EXPERIENCE TO ANALYSE AND TAKE DECISIONS. IN SUCH A SITUATION, WIFE WILL BE ACCEPTED INTELLIGENT AND EXPERIENCED, IF NOT MORE, MORE OR LESS ESSENTIAKKY EQUAL. IN CONCLUSION, SO LONG AS RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE REMAIN GOOD IF NOT THAT EXCELLENT AS WISHED FOR, THERE DO REMAIN THE CHANCES AND ENVIRONMENTS TO CONSULT, DISCUSS AND TAKE DECISION TOGETHER. IN SUCH A SITUATION. THE QUESTION AS TO WHO IS INTELLIGENT MORE OR LESS DOES NOT ARISE NOR ANY OF THEM THINKS SO. IT IS ONLY IN CASE OF FAILURES OF HER HUSBAND IN HIS DECISIONS AND ACTIONS THAT THE WIFE IS TAKEN AND ACCEPTED COMPARATIVEY MORE INTELLIGENT WHILE IN GENERAL EGO OF MAN AS ALSO HIS BIASED ATTITUDE DO NOT ALLOW MAN TO ACCEPT THAT WOMAN CAN BE MORE OR EQUALLY INTELLIGENT THAN HIM, EXCEPT IN FAILURES AND NOT OTHERWISE. HENCE SO LONG AS RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE REMAIN GOOD AND CONGENIAL, THE QUESTION OF WHO IS MORE INTELLIGENT AND/OR MORE STRONGER DOES NOT ARISE NOR IS EVER THOUGHT OF, AND AS SUCH, ALL GOES WELL TRUST, CONSULTATION ETC. AND BY DIVISION OF POWERS AS PER EACH ONE’S CAPACITY. EXPERIENCE, INTELLIGENCE ETC. FINALLY IN MARRIED LIFE AS TO WHO IS STRONGER, THE QUESTION DOES NOT ARISE SO LONG AS THE RELATIONS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE REMAIN AMICABLE AND IN ACCEPTANCE OF EACH OTHER AS EACH ONE IS. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………. By vasdevloond contact: 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com