-JEALOUSY UNDOUBTEDLY IS VICE, THEN WHY DOES IT EXIST BETWEEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS IS A BIG QUESTION, TO ANALYSE AND SEARCH ANSWER IS THE PRESENT EXERCISE. -EVERYONE KNOWS THAT IT IS A VICE STILL IT CONTINUES BETWEEN GENERALLY FEMALES, BROTHERS AND SISTERS, BUSINESSES AND WHAT NOT -IT IS AN INHERENT VICE WHICH IS ALMOST IN ALLL HUMAN BEINGS WHICH HAPPENS IN COMPARISON, COMPETITION, USURPING POWER, ASSETS ETC. ETC. -WHEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS ARE BORN THROUGH SAME PARENTS LIVE AND LOVE TOGETHER, PROTECT THEMSELVES AGAINST OTHERS THEN WHY SHOULD JEALOUSIES ARISE AT ALL -IT IS A FACT WHEN BROTHERS AND SISTRS ARE SMALL, THEY LOVE EACH OTHER, DO ALL TO PROTECT EACH OTHER, HELP EACH OTHER ,PLAY TOGETHER, HIDE MANY THINGS FROM PARENTS AND FRIENDS IN ALL MANNERS.. -BUT WHEN THEY GROW 1. STATUS 2. DISTRIBUTION OF ASSETS 3. PARENTS LOVE AND BEHAVIOUR PRESUMED TO BE MORE FOR ONE AND LESS FOR THE OTHER 4. IN CASE OF DISCUSSION AND/OR DIFFERENCE OF VIEWS ETC. THEY RECALL THE PAST, ENTER INTO JEALOUSIES, START ACCUSING EACH OTHER AS HE/SHE BEHAVED EARLIER, RATHER VICTIMISED HIM/HER ETC. ETC. -IN CONSEQUENCE BY JEALOUSIES BROTHERS AND SISTER GAIN NOTHING RATHER LOSE A LOT IN ENSTRANGEMENT OF RELATIONS AND EVEN AVOIDING MEETING AND TALKING TO EACH OTHER. -TRUE, THIS IS HOW THEY BEHAVE, BUT THERE IS NO DOUBT THEY DO REMEMBER THE RELATIONSHIP AND WANT TO RE-ESTABLISH RELATIONS BUT EGO AND MANY A TIME NEGATIVE ATTITUDE OF THEIR WIVES/HUSBANDS ALSO KEEP THEM DISTANT, NOT TO TALK AT ALL. -LET WHATEVER IT MAY HAPPEN, WHEN SOME DIFFICULT SITUATIONS, CRISES, DEATHS, ACCIDENTS ETC. TAKE PLACE, AS IT IS SAID NEVER TO BREAK RELATIONS AT ALL AS IN ADVERSE CIRCUMSTANCES THERE IS NO DOUBT SOMEONE WILL DEFINITELY COME TO HELP. IN THE SAME MANNER, IN SUCH A SITUATION, WHATEVER THE SOAR RELATIONS MAY EXIST, BROTHER/SISTER WILL BE MOVED BY EMOTIONS AND PITTANCE, WILL CERTAINLY RENDER SOME SORT OF HELP DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY. -IT ISESSENTIAL, IN SUCH A SITUATION WHEN CHILDREN HAVE DEVELPED JEALOUSIES AGAINST EACH MOTHER, PARENTS CAN RATHER MUST TAKE INITIATIVE TO ARRANGE SOME FUNCTIONS, TRAVELS, EXCURSIONS ETC. WHICH COULD HELP IN KEEPING WORKING RELATIONS BETWEEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO ARE JEALOUS OF EACH, FOR WHATEVER REASONS, RIGHT OR WRONG, THESE MAY BE. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. Conclusion: must do their best that jealousies do not develop between their children, the moment these start happening, parents must explain to them that it is not desirable neither for each of them nor for reputation in the relations and in the society outside, now that you have your own families you are living on your own, whatever has happened in the past, no good will happen to recall, must be understood that whatever behaviour and action were taken presumed to be against the other, nothing happened or was caused knowingly, rather as brother and sister every act was for the benefit and betterment and if it has not turned out as desired, better not to blame, forget it and continue keeping love for each as a family fully united.. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… By vasdevloond contacts: 9811943867 vasdevloon@gmail.com