SOME TIME WE FEEL FULLY SHATTERED, FULLY FRUSTRATED GET INTO BAD MOOD AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO. -TRUE IT HAPEENS ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE DOES GET THE RESULT AFTER WHOLE DAY TOIL AND STRUGGLE. -IN SUCH A SITUATION, THE ANSWER REMAINS TO DIVERT ONE’S ATTENTION TO SOME THING ELSE -STILL BETTER TO GET AWAY FROM THAT SITUATION AND GET TO SOME RESTAURANT, COFFEE HOUSE, CINEMA OR TO A MALL JUST TO STROLL AROUND, DIVERT ATTENTION, RELAX PERHAPS AND GET BACK FULLY TIRED, GET TO SLEEP AND AS SUCH FORGET WHAT HAPPENED, -AND ON NEXT DAY TO START ANEW WITH NEW EFFORTS, NEW MOOD, AND PERHAPS WITH NEW SOLUTIONS. -BESIDES IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ANALYSE THE CAUSES WHY YOUR MISSION AND EFFORTS FAILED -AND NOW WHAT COULD BE THE SOLUTION -WHETHER TO PURSUE IT OR TO FORGET IT -AND TAKE TO SOME OTHER JOB OR ACTIVITY. -THEN QUESTION ARISES WHEN ONE SHOULD GET FRUSTRATED WHETHER TO CONTINUE WITH IT -THERE IS NO DOUBT, WITH FAILURE DEFINITELY FRUSTRATION DOES HAPPEN, IT IS TOTALLY UNAVOIDABLE -BUT DO ENSURE THAT IS A TEMPORARY ONE AND NEVER ALLOW IT TO CONTINUE AND CURB YOUR FUTURE THINKING, MOTIVATION AND EFFORTS THEREFOR. -HOWEVER SOME NEVER FORGET, SOME TRY BUT ARE NOT ABLE TO GET OVER -TRUE, IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT WAS THE SUBJECT AND NOT HAVING SUCCEEDED, WHAT CONSEQUENCE IT WILL BRING ABOUT -IF THE SUBJECT IS SO SERIOUS WITH DIRE CONSEQUENCES, -BETTER TO GET TO BE ALONE -AS OTHERWISE ANGER AND SHOUTING WILL HAPPEN TO SOMEONE WITHOUT HIS/HER FAULT -ALSO BESIDES BEING ALONE. WILL ALSO GIVE THE CHANCE TO THINK OVER, REFLECT ON REASON, AND POSSIBLY DIG OUT VARIOUS OPTIONS AND FUTURE COURSE OF ACTION -FURTHER IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT SOME TIME THE WORK/SUBJECT IS NOT PERMITTED UNDER THE RULES AND REGULATIONS -THEN IT IS BETTER TO MAKE ALL EFFORTS -BUT NEVER GET DISMAYED AND DEMOTIVATED -BELIEVE IN THAT YOU DID ALL EFFORTS PERHAPS SOME SOLUTION COULD BE FOUND -AND IF IT DID NOT HAPPEN, YOU KNEW IT FROM THE START ITSELF THAT THERE WAS NO POSSIBILITY, BUT IN YOUR BELIEF, SOME TINGE HOPE WAS STILL LEFT, HENCE THE EFFORT WAS INITIATED -AS IN SUCH A SITUATION, WHEN A PERSON KNOWS ALREADY, -THERE WILL NEVER HAPPEN DEJECTION AND POSSIBLY ONE WILL NOT GET DISHEARTENED. -SOME TIME PERHAPS, FAMILY PROBLEMS MAY CROP UP AND FOR WHICH THERE IS HESITATION TO JUMP TO SOLUTION, BEING AFRAID OF SHOUTS ACCUSATIONS, AND ESTRANGEMENT/BREAK OF RELATIONS AS WELL. -IT IS THE MOST TICKLISH AND TROUBLESOME SITUATION. NOT ONLY ONE’S MOOD WILL BE OFF, ONE WILL GET FULLY FRUSTRATED, MAYBE SOME TIME THINK ALSO LET THEM FIGHT AS THEY WANT, I HAVE DONE A LOT, IF STILL INSTEAD OF APPRECIATING ALL MY STRUGGLES AND SACRIFICES THEY DO NOT BOTHER, LET ME FORGET THEM AND LET THEM FACE THE CONSEQUENCES AS THEY WISHFOR. -TRUE, ALL SUCH FEELINGS DO COME IN, BUT EMOTIONS AND LOVE DO NOT PERMIT ONE TO LEAVE THE SITUATION BOILING, ONE DOES JUMP IN TO FIND SOLUTION IRRESPECTIVE OF THAT THERE MAY BE ACCUSATIONS, SHOUTINGS, AND PERHAPS ABSUSES OF ALL SORTS -AS SUCH, IN SUCH A SITUATION WHICH HAS CREATED PANIC AND GREAT DISTURBANCE IN ONE’S MIND, DESPITE THAT IF ONE DEFINITELY BELIEVES THAT IF HE/SHE AVOIDS TO TAKE DECISION, THEN SUCH DISPUTES WILL MOUNT TO BIGGER DIMENSIONS, WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN SUCH A SITUATION THEREAFTER, ONLY GOD KNOWS, CERTAINLY HE/SHE WILL NOT BE AFRAID OF THE CONSEQUENCES. ONE WILL GET TO THE ISSUE(S), LISTEN, KEEP PATIENCE BY ALL MEANS, AND THUS BY LISTENING TO EACH ONE, SOME SORT OF COMPROMISE WILL DEFINITELY HAPPEN, IF ONE OR TWO DO NOT GET SATISFIED, MAKE FURTHER EFFORTS TO PERSUADE THEM, IF NOTHING HAPPENS, THEN LEAVE THEM WITH THEIR THINKING, IT IS POSSIBLE THAT AFTER SOME TIME WHEN THEIR TEMPERS WILL COOL DOWN, PERHAPS THEY WILL UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THE SOLUTION AS SUGGESTED. -BUT DO ENSURE THAT EACH ONE IS LISTENED AND EXPLAINED SEPARATELY NEVER TALK OR DISCUSS WHEN ALL ARE TOGETHER, AS THAT COULD CREATE A CHAOTIC AND UNCONTROLLABLE SITUATION. ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………. In short there could arise many situations which will be frustrating and disgusting one. In such a situation. if one leaves the situation without a solution, in all probability it will aggravate and create unsurmountable consequences. Hence it is essential that whatever and howsoever the mood may be, one has necessarily to get over through some of the ways I have suggested above and there could be many more as well. ESSENTIAL NEVER LEAVE THE SITUATION IN TURMOIL AND/OR PENDING, MUST TAKE TO DECISION AS OTHERWISE THE CONSEQUENCES COULD MOSTLY BE DIRE ONES. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………… By vasdevloond, contacts: 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com