-BAAP BETEE SAI POOCHHTA HAI -AAJ TU UDASS KIYAON HAI ITNEE -BEETEE KEHTEE HAI MUJHAI AAP SAI KEHNAI MAIN DAR LAG RAHA HAI BAHUT -BAAP KEHTA HAI BEETEE KO -KYA TU MERAI SAI BHEE CHHUPAI GEE -BEETEE TAB SAB KUCHH BAAP KO BATA DETEE HAI, BAAP KEE SALAH AUR VICHAR SUNNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -BEETEE DARTAI DARTAI KEH DETEE HAI BAAP KO -KEH MUJHAI EK LARAKAI KAI SAATH PYAR HO GAYA HAI -HUM KAFEE ARSSAI SAI MIL RAHAIN EK DOOSRAI KO -JAAN GAYAI HAIN HUM DONO -EK DOOSRAI KEE AADTON SAI -AUR AGAR KAYEE MUSHKALAIN AATEE BHEE HAIN -TO KAISSAI NIBHAYAIN GAI -HUM DONO MIL KAR -YEH BHEE SOCH LIYA HAI HUM DONO NAIN -BAAP POOCHHTA HAI -KYA TU USSKEE FAMILY KAI BARAI MAIN JANTEE HO AUR KABHEE MILEE BHEE HAI USKAI MAAN BAAP SAI -LAKREE KEHTEE HAI NAHIN -JAB TAK HUM DONO POOCHH NAN LAIN EK DOOSRAI KAI MAAN BAAP SAI -HUM EK DOOSRAI GHAR JANAI KO ACHHA SAMAJHTAI HEE NAHIN -BAAP KEHTA HAI BEETEE KO -AB TU BAREE HO GAYE HAI -SHADI TO KARNI HO GEE KISSI NAN KISSI KAI GHAR JANAI KAI LIYAI ZAROOR HAMAIN CHHOR KAR BHEE -YEH RASMO RIVAJ HAIN AUR HAI ZAROOREE BHEE -LEKIN RISHTA KARNAI SAI PEHLAI -HOTA HAI ZAROOREE MAAN BAAP KAI LIYAI, PATA LAGANA ACHHEE TARAH SAI LARKAI KAI BARAI AUR USSAIKAI MAAN BAAP KAI BARAI MAIN BHEE -VOH KAISAI HAIN, UNKA KYA BARTAO HAI AUR KYA HAI UNKA REPUTATION BHEE -LARKEE BAAP KO KEHTEE HAI KYA AAPKO MERAI OOPER ETEBAR NAHIN -AUR KYA AAP JANTAI NAHIN -PYAR TO PYAR HOTA HAI -LARKA LARKEE CHUN LETAI HAIN EK DOOSRAI KO AAPNEE ZINDGEE BEETANAI KAI LIYAI, -PYAR AUR MUHABAT MAIN REHNAI KAI LIYAI HEE -LARKEE LARKAI KO LENEE PARTEE HAI MAAN BAAP KEE IJAZAT AUR BLESSINGS BHEE -AAP TO JAANTAI HAIN ACCHEE TARHA YEH -KEH AB VAKAT BADAL GAYA HAI -AB LOVE KEE SHAADIAN HOTEE HAIN AUR JO MAAN BAAP KAI CHOICE SAI HOTEE THEEN KABHEE VO TO NAN HOTEE HAIN AB AUR NAN KOYEE MANTA HAI ISS PURANAI RIVAJ KO BHEE -BAS AB AAP APNEE BEETEE PAR KARAIN YAKEEN -AUR DAIN MUJHAI AASHEERVAD BHEE -BAAP KEHTA HAI MEIN TEREE MAAN SAI BHEE POOCHH KAR DEKOON ZARA -BEETEE KEHTEE HAI -MAAN KO MEIN KUD KEH DOONGEE AUR MANVA BHEE LOONGEE -MEIN JAANTEE HOON BAREE ACHHEE TARAH SAI AAPNEE MAAN KO BHEE -CHAHTEE HOON AND MANGTEE HOON MEIN AAPKEE OK AND BLESSINGS BHEE -BAAP KAFI SOCH VICHAR MAIN PAR KAR AUR AAPNAI DIL KO BEHLA KAR HEE -MAAN LETA HAI BEETEE KEE BAAT KO AUR KEH DETA HAI,LEKIN HAI YEH ZAROOR KEH TU KABHEE NAN KABHEE MILAYAIGEE HUMSAI USS LARKAI SAI ZAROOR -BETEE KEHTEE HAI, ZAROOR, AAP KEE AASHEERVAAD TO HAI ZAROOREE -PHIR VOH AAPNEE MAAN KO TO MANA LETEE HAI THOREE DER MAIN HEE -BAS PHIR KYA HUA -KHUSHIAN MANAI LAGAI MAAN BAAP BEETEE KAI SATH HAR PARKAR SAI HEE -KUCHH DER KAI BAAD LARKEE CHALEE JAATEE HAI AAPNAI LOVER KO BATANAI KAI LIYAI AND YEH KEHNAI KAI LIYAI BHEE -KEH KAISAI USSNAIN MANAYA HAI AAPNAI MAAN BAAP KO -KEHTEE AAPNAI LOVER KO YEH, -TU BHEE ASSAI KEHNA AAPNAI MAAN BAAP SAI -AUR LAI KAR AANA ZAROOR UNKEE BLESSINGS BHEE -MEIN UMEED KARTEE HOON -JAB HUM DONO KA PAYAR HAI SACHA -TO TUM MAAN BAAP KEE ASHEERVAD LAI KAI AAOO GAI ZAROOR -TAB ISSKAI BAAD HUM MILAINGAI EK DOOSRAI KAI MAAN BAAP KO ZAROOR -LARKA BHEE MANVA LETA HAI APNAI MAAN BAAP KO KISSI NAN KISSI TARHA HEE -BAS PHIR DONO MILA DETAI HAIN EK DOOSRAI KAI MAAN BAAP SAI AND PHIR DONO KAI MAAN BAAP KEE MILNEE BHEE HO JATEE HAI JHOREE DER MAIN HEE -AUR MIL JATEE HAI DONO KO RAZAMANDEE APNAIN APNAIN MAAN BAAP SAI BHEE -BAS PHIR KHUSHYAN HEE KHUSHYAN HOTEE HAIN, AUR AKHIR MAIN HO JATEE HAI SHADI IN DONO KEE JAISAI CHAHTAI THAI YEH DONO. Advice: if the children make up their mind for marriage by their choice and want to take parents’ acceptance and blessings, I think, parents must willing accept that situation rather than antagonizing their children and when such a demand is accepted, the children do their best to live a loving life and if there emerge some differences between the two, both will do their best to find solution in clear thinking and argument that it was their own decision and it is as such essential to show to parents that they both were right in their decision. ………………………………………………………………. Vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau, founded in 2015 contacts:vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com