PARENTS BEHAVIOUR REMAINS PARTIAL AND IT VARIES FROM TIME TO TIME -IT IS NATURAL THAT OPPOSITE SEX ARE PREFERRED AND LOVED MORE -FOR EXAMPLE MOTHER LOVES SON MORE -AND LESS FOR THE DAUGHTER -ON THE CONTRARY, FATHER LOVES MORE HIS DAUGHTER -IN SOCIETY ESPECIALLY IN ASIANS, BOY IS PREFERRED DUE TO BEING EARNING MEMBER AS ALSO WHATEVER INHERITANCE IS GIVEN REMAINS IN THE FAMILY -FURTHER THE SURNAME OF THE FAMILY CONTINUES FOR GENERATIONS SO LONG AS BOYS ARE BORN. -FATHER LOVES DAUGHTER AS SHE LISTEN TO FATHER REMAINS CALM AND LOVING, TALKS FREELY AND DEMANDS ALSO FREELY, IF ANY NEED ARISES. -FURTHER FATHER ALSO THINKS SO LONG AS SHE IS WITH US IN OUR FAMILY, LET HER ENJOY LOVE AND ALL SORTS OF FACILITIES AS THE FATHER DOES NOT KNOW AS TO HOW SHE WILL BE HER FUTURE LIFE WHEN SHE WILL GET MARRIED. -BOYS WHEN GROWN UP DO GENERALLY QUESTION THE PARENTS, GENERALLY IT IS FATHER WHO IS ACCUSED AND MOTHER NOT AS MOSTLY ALL THEIR DEMANDS HAVE BEEN MET BY MOTHER OR THROUGH MOTHER -BESIDES MOTHER HAS ALL ALONG BEEN CARING FOR THEM TO ENJOY BETTER FACILITIES, GET GROWN UP STRONG AND WELL SETTLED, TO ADD TO THE FAMILY EARNING, GET WELL SETTLED, SETS UP HIS OWN FAMILY, AND AS SUCH THE FAMILY AND ITS SURNAME CONTINUES AS LONG AS THE BOYS ARE BORN IN THE FAMILY. -BESIDES THIS, GENERALLY PARENTS ARE MORE INCLINED AND PARTIAL PERHAPS IN THEIR TREATMENT OF THE SON WHO IS COMPARATIVELY NOT WELL SETTLED -IT HAPPENS SO AS THE PARENTS THINK THAT ONE WHO HAS ALREADY SUCCEEDED TO GET WELL SETTLED, WHILE THIS BOY WHO IS WEAK PERHAPS IN PHYSIQUES OR INTELLIGENCE OR DOES NOT TAKE MUCH INTEREST IN STUDIES AND IS NOT HARD WORKING ETC., IT IS ESSENTIAL TO GIVE HIM MORE LOVING BEHAVIOUR, MAYBE BECAUSE OF PITTANCE OR ALSO BELIEVING THAT IT IS ESSENTIAL THIS WEAK BOY ALSO GETS STRONGER AND LIVES A COMFORTABLE LIFE AND AS SUCH RELATIONS BETWEEN BORTHERS REMAINS IN TACT AND HORMONIOUS. -PARENTS DEFINITELY FEEL PROUD OF THE SON WHO HAS GOT WELL SETTLED AND HAS PROBABLY FULFILLED THE WISH AND GOAL OF THE PARENTS FOR WHAT THEY HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO ACHIEVE AS ALSO FOR NAME AND FAME FOR THE FAMILY. -IN BEHAVIOUR THE ONE WHO HAS WELL SUCCEEDED, GENERALLY DIFFERS IN VIEWS WITH THE PARENTS WHILE THE WEAKER ONE GENERALLY DOES NOT CLASH OR COME IN CONFLICT WITH PARENTS. -AS SUCH WILLINGLY OR SUBCONSCIOUSLY PARENTS CONTINUE PREFERRING THE WEAKER ONE. -THEN THE QUESTION ARISES AS BOTH SONS AND DAUGHTERS ARE BORN BY THE SAME PARENTS, THEN WHY THERE SHOULD DIFFERENCE IN BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS EACH OF THEM, EVEN IN LOVE TO SOME EXTENT. -FIRSTLY EACH CHILD AFTER HE/SHE IS BORN HAS DIFFERENT INBORN QUALITIES SOME ARE INTELLIGENT. SOME ARE ARTICULATE, SOME ARE MISCHIEFS AND ARE FIGHTING AND CLASHING ALL THE TIME, SO ON AND SO FORTH, -AS SUCH, THE PARENTS REMAIN SOFT TO THOSE -WHO ARE OBEDIENT -WHO DO NOT POSE ANY PROBLEM FOR THE PARENTS -ARE MORE DILIGENT AND MORE HELPUL IN ASSISTING AND CARING FOR THEIR PARENTS -ARE SELF CONFIDENT AND DO PROGRESS WITHOUT CAUSING ANY TENSION FOR THE PARENTS. -AS SUCH EACH CHILD ALSO IN HIS/HER CHILDHOOD AND DEVELOPMENT, IS INFLUENCED DIFFERENTLY IN THE SOCIETY AND THROUGH THEIR COLLEAGUES. -THUS INBORN AND SOCIETY INFLUENCE WHICH EACH GRABS DIFFERENTLY DO TEND TO THE TREATMENT AND BEHAVIOUR OF THE PARENTS DIFFERENTLY TOWARDS EACH OF THEIR CHILDREN. -BESIDES THE DIFFERENCE IN BEHAVIOUR OF PARENTS FOR EACH CHILD IN HIS/HER/ THEIR BEHAVIOUR, WHEN THE CHILDREN GET MARRIED, EACH ONE CREATES A DIFFERENT BEHAVIOUR, CARE AND EVEN LOVE FOR THE PARENTS AND VICE VERSA. Conclusion: as it is human weakness as narrated above, the only and right answer remains that parents must explain to the one who is studious, is helpful and does not trouble parents, must be explained to him/her they love him/her certainly with all emotions and possibly since you are more studious and are mostly independent for each and every thing, as such for parents it becomes imperative and obligatory that they take a little bit more care for the weaker one, rather you also help him/her so that he/she is corrected now and moves on independently more or less like you, and if this happens, for which we as parents do all, it will be better for him as also for the house in gaining reputation besides we as parents will remain least worried and shall do our best to improve the financial condition of the family, beneficial to you all. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………. By vasdevloond contacts 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com