WHAT A MISERABLE AND PATHETIC STORY OF A HUSBAND, TOTALLY LOST, FINDING NO NO ANSWER AT ALL -WHY IT HAPPENED, HOW IT HAPPENED, TO KNOW ABOUT IT IS NOT GOING TO SERVE ANY PURPOSE -BECAUSE WE KNOW IT WELL THAT NONE ACCEPTS ONE’S FAULT AND ALWAYS BLAMES THE OTHER ONE FOR ALL THESE HAPPENINGS AND SUFFERANCES -LET US NOT FORGET AS IT IS SAID THAT CLAPPING HAPPENS BY PUSHING AND STRIKING BOTH HANDS TOGETHER, THE MORE ONE WANTS TO CREATE A NOISE, THE HARDER ONE WILL CLAP -HENCE WHY AND HOW SUCH A SITUATION HAPPENED BETWEEN THE HUSBAND AND WIFE CANNOT PRESUMED TO BE THE FAULT OF ONE ALONE, BOTH MUST BE AT FAULT AHD HAVE AS SUCH AGGRAVATED THE SITUATION TO SUCH A DRASTIC AND PATHETIC POINT, THAT WIFE FINALLY LEFT HIM, SHOUTING, ACCUSING AND WEAPING PERHAPS -IT IS SAID THAT WHEN WE HAVE SOMETHING HOWSOEVER PRECIOUS AND VALUABLE IT MAY BE, WE GENERALLY DO NOT APPRCIATE AND TAKE IT AS A ROUTINE AND PERHAPS ACQUIRED AND WON TO BE OUR SOLE RIGHT, FORGETTING THAT THE OTHER ONE ALSO IS A HUMAN BEING, WITH ALL FEELINGS, EMOTIONS AND RETALIATION IN EXTREME AS WELL -SAME HAS HAPPENED TO THIS SO-CALLED HUSBAND WHO IS WEAPING, RECALLING THE PAST AND COMPLAINING THAT HE HAS LOST ALL, LIFE IS PASSING IN REGRETS, WORRIES PURPOSELESS, SO MUCH SO THAT HE CAN’T SLEEP AT ALL AND NARRATES HIS MISERIES AS MENTIONED HEREUNDER -DAY SOMEHOW PASSES OFF, NIGHT ENDS NEVER, SLEEP NEVER AND PERHAPS HARDLY HAPPENS -I TRY TO CLOSE MY EYES, BUT THESE REMAIN OPEN AND EVEN IF CLOSED, IT IS JUST FOR NAME SAKE, CLOSE NEVER AND BRING ABOUT SLEEP NEVER -I GET UP, WALK DOWN, GET TO URINATE, TAKE WATER AND SOME TIME TAKE SOLACE IN THE DRINK, BELIEVING THAT HEREAFTER SLEEP WILL OVERCOME THE UNEASINESS AND ALL WORRIES AROUND -NOTHING HAPPENS, ALL EFFORTS GO WASTE, SLEEP NEVER HAPPENS AND FOR DAYS TOGETHER LIFE PASSES OFF IN SLEEPLESSNESS AND DAYS SLIP AWAY IN LAZINESS AND THINKING PERHAPS -HAVING TRIED ALL EFFORTS, FINALLY IT CAME TO MY MIND TO TAKE THE GLORIOUS PICS OF OUR LIFE LIKE MARRIAGE, HONEY MOON, BIRTHDAY CELEBRATIONS ETC. ETC. -STICK THESE TO MY CHEST BELIEVING THAT WE BOTH ARE SLEEPING TOGETHER WITH ARMS AROUND ON EACH OTHER, UNEXPECTEDLY AND UNBELIEVABLY WHEN I GET TOTALLY TIRED, SLEEP DOES HAPPENS BUT NOT AS FAST AS WE WERE ENJOYING WHEN WE BOTH WERE LIVING AND SLEEPING TOGETHER AS HUSBAND AND WIFE, IN ALL LOVE -ADDED TO THESE MISERIES WHEN I SEE THAT MY WIFE HAS ELOPED AND IS ENJOYING HER LIFE WITH MY FRIENDS -HOW MUCH ANGER AND RETALIATION HAPPENS, IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO NARRATE EXCEPT THAT I AS A POOR HUSBAND HAVE LOST NOT ONLY MY WIFE BUT MY FRIENDS AS WELL -AT TIMES I THINK WHAT IS NOW THE USE AND PURPOSE TO LIVE LIFE ANY LONGER BETTER TO END IT UP AND COMMIT SUICIDE -BUT SOON HEREAFTER THE THINKING AND IDEA PREVAIL THAT TO COMMIT SUICIDE -IS THOUGHT TO BE AN ACT OF COWARDICE -ONE AS SUCH IS DEPLORED AND CONDEMNED BY ALL MEANS IN FAMILY, RELATIONS, FRIENDS AND SOCIETY AT LARGE -HENCE NEVER DARE TO COMMIT SUICIDE, BUT HOW TO OVERCOME WHEN I AM NOT ABLE TO OVERCOME THE SHOCKS AND MISERIES OF LIFE. -IT IS SAID QUITE OFTEN WHEN ONE IS IN DISTRESS, MISERSIES, SEEING EVERYTHING DARK WITH NO HOPE AT ALL, MANY A TIME SOME KNOWN AND UNKNOWN HAPPENS TO CONSOLE AND GIVE SOLUTION TO ONE’S MISERIES AND HELPLESSNESS -IT SO HAPPENED THAT HE PERSUADED ME TO REMARRY WHICH ACT WILL ALLOW ME TO FORGET THE PRESENT WORRIES AND THE PAST AS WELL -HE FURTHER ADVISED THAT ONCE BITTEN, TAKES ALL CARE TO ENSURE THAT MILK HASN’T TURNED BITTER -NOW THAT YOU HAVE GAINED ALL EXPERIENCE, I AM SURE, YOU WILL DO ALL TO ACCOMMODAT THE FUTURE WIFE, FIND FAULT NEVER, MANAGE LIFE AS SHALL BE CONVEIENT AND PLEASANT TO HER TO LIVE HAPPILY AND ENJOY THE LIFE IN LOVE AND IN TOGETHERNESS -IN ADDITION TO THIS, I THINK IT WILL BE BETTER TO MARRY A DIVORCED OR A WIDOW ONE AS YOU BOTH WOULD HAVE LEARNT TO BE ACCOMMODATIVE TO ADJUST WITH EACH OTHER -FINALLY IF POSSIBLE, MANAGE TO MOVE OUT OF THESE ENVIRONMENTS, THIS TOWN AND SETTLE DOWN SOMEWHERE ELSE WHEREBY YOU WILL NEVER SEE NOR COME ACROSS YOUR ELOPED WIFE NOR BETRAYED FRIENDS, AS SUCH YOU AND YOUR WIFE WILL BE ALONE TO YOURSELF, TO ENJOY THE PRESENT, FORGET THE PAST, AND LEAD A PROGRESSIVE AND HAPPY LIFE -I ACCEPTED HIS ADVICE, MOVED TO ANOTHER TOWN, GOT MARRIED, MNAGE TO FORGET THE PAST, SUCIDE IDEA IS SHUDDERED APART, LIFE HAS TURNED INTO LOVE, MOTIVATION AND ZEAL TO WORK AND LIVE LIFE AS BEST AND AS LONG AS POSSIBLE. -conclusion: never brood over the past, push up all your energies to remain calm and concentrate on finding the answer by analyzing various options. 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