lLIFE IS A LESSON, GOOD OR BAD, DEPENDS ON AN INDIVIDUAL HOW ONEACCEPTS IT.... CHAPTER -I 27-7-24


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LIFE IS A LESSON, GOOD OR BAD, DEPENDS ON AN INDIVIDUAL HOW ONE ACCEPTS IT. CHAPTER-I -SOME TAKE LESSON FROM EACH STEP THEY TAKE WHILE SOME DO NOT BOTHER, TAKE LIFE AS A ROUTINE, PRHAPS A PASSAG OF DESTINY -THOSE WHO ARE INTELLIGENT AND MORESO HAVE LOGIC, THEY CHECK EACH AND EVERY HAPPENING, ANALYSE IT TO CONCLUDE HOW AND WHY IT HAPPENED, AND WHAT STEPS SHOULD BE TAKEN TO AVOID IT, RATHER BETTER FIND AN ANSWER, IT REPEATES NEVER. -SOMEHOW EXPERIENCES OF EVERYONE ARE NOT THE SAME WHAT ONE IS DOING, WHAT DIFFICULTIES AND OBSTACLES ONE ENCOUNTERS, DEPENDS ON HOW HE/SHE TAKES IT, ACCEPTS IT OR REJECTS OR RETALIATES AGAINST IT AS TO WHY IT HAPPENED AND IT SHOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED. -FOR EXAMPLE A PERSON WAS WALKING, FAST WINDS GUSHED IN HE/SHE FELL DOWN, THEN GOT UP TO WALK AND TAKE SHELTER UNDER THE TREEE BY HOLDING THE TRUMP OF THE TREE, WHICH UNFORTUNATELY DIDN’T HAPPEN, EVERY TIME HE MANAGED TO STAND UP, HE WAS BLOWN AWAY BY THE WINDS, FELL DOWN MANY TIMES, GOT HURT WITH BRUISES EVERYWHERE BLEEDING PROFUSELY, FINALLY HE WAS IN SUCH A SITUTION, THAT HE COULDN’T GET UP AND HAD PERFORCE TO REMAIN LYING DOWN UNTIL THE WINDS CALMED DOWN -AT THE SAME TIME THERE WAS ANOTHER PERSON WHO ALSO GOT CAUGHT BY THE FORCEFUL WINDS, HE FELL DOWN, HE STARTED THINKING IF I DARED TO STAND UP, I WILL FALL AGAIN AND WILL HURT MYSELF, HENCE IT IS BETTER THT I KEEP LYING UNTIL THE WINDS CALMED DOWN, NEVER MIND IF IT WILL TAKE SOME TIME, LET IT BE, I DO NOT HAVE ANY OTHER CHOICE OTHERWISE, FINALLY WHEN THE WINDS SLOWED DOWN HE STOOD UP AND WALKED HIS WAY THROUGH TO HIS DESTINATION.. -NOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO PERSONS IS, ONE DIDN’T USE HIS INTELLIGENCE AND AS SUCH GOT HURT, WHILE THE OTHER PERSON USED HIS INTELLIGENCE AND LOGIC, HE DIDN’T HURT HIMSELF AND WENT SAFE TO HIS DESTINATION. NOW THE EXPERIENCE OF BOTH THE PERSONS WAS DIFFERENT AND AS SUCH EACH ONE TOOK DECISION AS PER HIS EXPERIENCE. THE FIRST ONE WHO GOT BRUISED. DECIDED IF EVER HE MET FAST WINDS AGAIN, BETTER HE WON’T MOVE OUT OR WILL IMMEDIATELY RUSH TO THE SHELTER NEARBY, IF NOTHING ELSE HE FINDS, HE SHALL STAY, STAND AND/OR SIT AGAINST THE WALL. AND IF IN A GARDEN OR JUNGLE, WILL SIDE AGAINST THE BUSHES ETC. ETC. WHILE THE OTHER PERSON DECIDED SOON AS HE SHALL NOTICE THAT FAST WINDS ARE ABOUT TO BLOW, HE WILL RUSH TO A SHELTER NEARBY BEFORE THE FAST WINDS HAPPEN TO BLOW. HENCE WE SEE THAT BOTH FACED THE SAME SITUTION. BUT BOTH REACTED DIFFERENTLY AND TOOK DIFFERENT STEPS TO FACE THE SAME SITUATION. -LIFE SHOWS, SOME THOUGH EXCEPTION ONES, INVITE DIFFICULTIES, TAKE RISK, NEVER FEEL AFRAID, GET HARDENED AND PROFOUND IN THEIR EXPERIENCE TO FACE VARIOUS TYPES OF DIFFIULTIES WHILE THERE ARE MANY, WHO WALK STRAIGHT IN THE SAME DIRECTION AND PERHAPS IN THE SAME VOCATION/ACTIVITY. GAIN FULLEST EXPERIENCE ONLY IN THAT ACTIVITY/VOCATION BUT IF AND EVER THEY HAPPEN TO COME ACROSS OR FACE SOME DIFFERENT SITUATION, THEY FEEL DISTURBED FIND NO ANSWER AND GET LOST AS SUCH. In conclusion, life is a lesson, those who use intelligence and logic, sail better and live their life better while those who remain regimented with their same experience and same thinking, they suffer a lot if ever faced with situations different than their routine. HENCE TO BE SUCCESSFUL, ONE NEEDS TO BECOME MULTIFARIOUS, GAIN MULTIFARIOUS EXPERIENCES, NEVER FEELS AFRAID OF WHATSOEVER AND HOWSOVER HARD SITUATIONS HE HAPPENS TO FACE EVER,. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. INTERESTED FOR COLLABORATION. CONTACTL9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com   CHAPTER-II

 

-LIFE consists in and is built up mostly of the following factors:

          

                                 -inborn aptitudes

                                 -association

                                 -environments

                                 -upbringing

                                 -education, to what level, what quality

                                 -contacts

                                 -opportunities

                                 -parents set-up

                                 -parents vocation

                                 -ambition, zeal and goal

                                 -workplace opportunities and environments

                                 -MARRIED LIFE AND FAMILY

All these factors trace the course and future of each and every one, however, some time external

environments, situations and circumstances do affect the direction, thinking and vision of life.

 

As such we find some take to various types of vocations, some move on slowly to different echelons

while those who are bright, laborious, and ambitious, get to higher positions very quickly. ALL SUCH

PERSONAS CAN BE CATEGORISED AS PROFESSIONALS. There exist lakhs of professions, no need to cite each of those, but essential it is that to get into and exercise professions, education is very very

Important and there is no exception to it.

 

Politics is a field which requires education and one can manage without education as well. In this

aptitude, how much social one is, how floral and articulate he/she is in communication, good memory is also important. Promising fluke or correct, assuring all possible and impossible, capable to employ all sorts of means right or wrong, are the art and faculties which are essential to get into politics, many get into politics and remain just as workers but those who are better educated and are shrewd enough into carving out contacts and/or making all types of promises reach higher position in politics, from sarpanch to even PM post.

 

Athletes profession to pick up does not require much education, while it requires lot of physical

strength, body mobility and articulation, wisdom and sharpness with inborn aptitude and qualities

are important.

 

Upbringing, education in renowned schools, colleges and universities, count a lot, contacts, influences, push and pulls are also very important to shape up the life of a person. Here does matter important vocation of the parents, set-up of the parents in business etc.

 

Association plays a great part in shaping the course of life of a person, some turn up thieves, some

dacoits ,some get to vulgarities and all types of vices to victimise, threaten and even kill the individuals innocent and enemies.

 

OPPORTUNITY is a rare phenomenon but it does exist, and those who discern and pick up courage

to jump into it, succeed enormously, whether education or not, intelligence and shrewdness do

count a lot.

 

Marriage becomes the most turn point of life, it enriches some, trails many, breaks quite a number

of them, to derail in career, business etc. and causes lot of miseries etc. etc.

These are some of the citations as to how the life in general shapes up, but it is not all,

There are many exceptions to these as well.

 

Some get into all types of vices, spoil their health and spoil practically everything.

 

There are also quite a few who become conscious and thus thereafter change their habits

and course of life.

 

Not to forget and it is essential to tell that life also gets into transformation, as the age

advances. one gains experience, develops faculty to decide what is right and what is wrong,

besides burdened with familial responsibilities etc. one does change his/her course of life

generally for the better,

 

Some go by hit and choose, some time they gain and many a time they lose.

 

Though all above citations, narrations and examples are important, but the fact and truth remain

that MAN IS THE CREATOR OF HIS DESTINY AND TRACES HIS/HER LIFE AS HE/SHE WANTS GUIDED

BY AMBITIONS, WISDOM, ZEAL, DETERMINATION, ACTION, CORRECTED WHEREVER NECESSARY

BUT REMAING STEADFAST AND UNFALTERED TO ACHIEVE ONE’S GOAL LEAST CARING EVEN IF THE LIFE IS PUT TO RISK.

 

In conclusion: life is built up of mission, experience, opportunities, determination, intelligence,

vision and logic supported by consistency, favourable environments, by destiny perhaps if it exists,

and if ever one gets derailed by his/her actions, circumstances, association etc. it gets very difficult to correct one’s derailed course of life. HENCE ESSENTIAL IT IS TO REMAIN AWARE, PRUDENT, ALERT

AND VIGILANT OF THE PRESENT AND OF THE FUTURE AS ALSO HOW HIS ACTIONS AND BEHAVIOUR

WILL TURN HIS/HER LIFE AS AT PRESENT AND THE FUTURE AS WELL.

 

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