IF SOMEONE HURTS US, SHOULD WE RETALIATE IN REVENGE, FOREGET IT, KEEPING DISTANT RELATIONS OR EXPLAIN AND RECONCILE. 1stly the question arises, as to why that person has hurt me, intentionally or un- intentionally, let us reflect and look back at our past relations. If all had been going on well, if something happened now which has hurt us, better we should ignore and even forget it and check about it when we meet again and when both are fine to talk over the misunderstanding, better it is to talk over, not to discuss, as if nothing happened. If one has hurt intentionally, let some time pass as it is said that time is a good healer, possibly the person who has hurt, might reflect and conclude that it just happened while he/she never wanted it , somehow in discussion the situation got aggravated, as such harsh and hurting words were used, through whims and not by intention. If to expect that such a person will ask for excuse, it is rare, hence the answer will remain to forget it, call and arrange a meet but be careful never to talk about what happened and how it happened, as otherwise the other person will talk all to justify himself/herself. It will also happen that the person hurt will continue pondering about as to how it happened, it should not have happened, so on and so forth. Forgetting all this, if one thinks by hurting or getting aggrieved and by breaking relations, has he/she gained anything, the answer will come about, NOTHING rather it has encouraged worries and waste of time for no use at all. HENCE THE ANSWER REMAINS NEVER TO BREAK RELATIONS, BETTER TO FORGET AS IF NOTHING HAPPENED, MANAGE TO KEEP WORKING RELATIONS AND IT IS MOST LIKELY THAT THE PERSON WHO DID HURT YOU, WILL ENGAGE BY ALL MEANS TO IMPROVE UPON THE RELATIONS. FURTHER IF HE/SHE TALKS ABOUT TO JUSTIFY HIMSELF/HERSELF, BETTER TO LISTEN IN THE START, AND TO SAY THERE IS NO USE TO TALK OVER WHAT HAD HAPPENED, I HAVE FORGOTTEN ALL, BETTER WE KEEP OUR RELATIONS AS IF NOTHING HAPPENED. IN NUTSHELL, BETTER TO FORGET AND FORGIVE AND WE DO ALL TO KEEP OUR HEALTHY RELATIONS AS LIFE NEEDS ALWAYS FRIENDS, RELATIONS TO LIVE AND ENJOY WITH. By vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com solicited all inquiries about marriage cost free..