What gives happiness, struggle or destinyWhat gives happiness, struggle or destiny
ACHHEY DIN AANAIGAI, IT IS GENERALLY SAID
WHEN ONE IS DISTRESSED
THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER
1. IT IS TO CONSOLE THE PERSON CONCERNED
2. TO PUT HIM/HER ON POSITIVE THINKING
3. PUTTING HIM/HER TO BELIEVE IN DESTINY
4. OR TO EXPLAIN AND CONVINCE THAT
NOTHING IS STATIC, CHANGE IS ESSENTIAL
ANYTHING WHICH GETS TO WORST, GETS
BACK TO THE BRIGHTER SIDE SOONER
OF LATER, IT IS THE LAW OF NATURE.
THEN QUESTION ARISES WHEN ONE IS DISTRESSED
WHETHER TO TAKE TO ADVISE HIM/HER
I WILL SAY NOT AT ALL, AS THE PERSON CONCERNED
IS ALREADY SUFFERING, IS NOT INCLINED TO LISTEN
AS HE/SHE BELIEVES THAT HE/SHE HAS DONE ALL EFFORTS
BUT THE EFFORTS HAVE BEEN USELESS AND OF NO REWARD
AT ALL.
IT WILL BE BETTER TO AGREE TO WHAT THE CONCERNED
PERSON SAYS, APPRECIATE AND NEVER THINK OF
CONTRADICTING AT ALL, IN ORDER TO AVOID IRRITATION
THEN WHAT IS THE ANSWER LEFT
-DO ALL TO BRING BACK THE PERSON CONCERNED TO
HIS/HER NORMAL POSITION
-ONCE DISTRESS IS REDUCED OR IS FORGOTTEN, THEN
SLOWLY SLOWLY PUT ACROSS THE IDEA AS TO HOW
LIFE GOES ON
AND ALSO TO EXPLAIN THAT LIFE IS TO GO ON IN DISTRESS
OR IN HAPPINESS, IT IS LEFT TO THE INDIVIDUAL HOW ONE
THINKS AND ACTS UPON
-ALSO TO EXPLAIN WHEN ONE IS DISTRESSED, ONE IS DISTURBED
IN SUCH A SITUATION, IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO THINK POSITIVE
AND ALSO AS TO WHAT COURSE OF ACTION NEEDS TO BE TAKEN,
WHICH COULD BE THE BEST TO GET RID OF DISTRESS
-ALSO TO EXPLAIN WHEN ONE GETS OVER DISTRESS, WHETHER
ONE IS HAPPY OR NOT, WHEN ONE IS IN NORMAL STATE OF MIND
ONE CAN REFLECT BETTER, TURN POSITIVE AND MOVE ON TO
STRUGGLE
-PERHAPS ALSO TO COMPARE WHEN OTHERS MAKE EFFORTS
AND SUCCEED, WHY SHOULD HE/SHE SHOULD NOT, IT IS POSSIBLE
ONE WILL ANALYSE THE CAUSES, TEND TO MAKE AMENDS, AND
THUS REACH ONE’S GOAL.
In conclusion when one is distressed, never contradict, never give
examples of others, just go by what the distressed person says,
believe and commit yes, and yes, may be at times to remain silent
could also be the best option, time to time.
