WORRIES OF MAN NEVER END, WHY IT IS SO AND WHAT ARE THE CAUSES? -THE BIGGEST CAUSES FOR WORRIES SEEM TO BE -HOPES, DREAMS, ILL-HEALTH, HANDICAPS, POVERTY, SECURING JOB AND SECURITY, PROMOTIONS AND AND PROGRESS THEREOF, MARRIAGE BUT NO CONFLICTS, TO HAVE CHILDREN OBEDIENT, RESPECTFUL AND TO EARN NAME AND GET WELL SETTLED, ENJOY THE LIFE IN TOGETHERNESS AND IN HAPPINESS TILL THE END, AND IF THE END COMES EVER, BETTER TO DIE TOGETHER, BE ALWAYS ON OUR OWN, NEVER TO DEPEND AND BEG FROM ANYONE, NOT EVEN FROM OUR CHILDREN ETC. ETC. -ALL THESE ARE IFS AND BUTS, REALISATION OF THESE HOPES AND DREAMS START SOMEHOW FROM THE BIRTH ITSELF, IF BORN IN A POOR FAMILY, WITH HARDLY ANY MEANS HOW TO LIVE AND WITH WHAT TO LIVE, THE QUESTION OF STUDIES AND ADVANCEMENT IN LIFE GET HAMPERED FROM THE BIRTH ITSELF -EVEN ONE HAS MEANS TO STUDY, HIS/HER CAPACITIES AND CALIBRE DO NOT MATCH WITH HIS/HER AMBITIONS TO COMPETE AND PROSPECT FOR THE DESIRED GOOD JOB -EVEN IF ONE GETS A GOOD JOB, WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE, THERE IS NO CERTAINTY THAT ONE WILL GET THE SOULMATE AS HE/SHE ASPIRES, EVEN IF IT HAPPENS, THERE IS NO SURETY THAT SUCH AN ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR WILL LAST FOR THE WHOLE LIFE AS MANY INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES HAPPEN TO INFLUENCE THE THINKING, ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR OF EITHER OF THEM OR BOTH AS WELL -JOB UNCERTAINTY, PROMOTION, PROGRESS ARE HAMPERED BY INFLUENCE, VICTIMISATION ETC. ETC. -CHILDREN WHO ARE THE HOPE FOR FUTURE, TURN OUT WORST ALL THE TIME ACCUSING, FIGHTING AND BLAMING WITH REASONS AND/OR WITHOUT -AGE DECAYS, HANDICAPS DEVELOP, DEPENDENCE GETS UNAVOIDABLE PHYSICALLY AND ECONOMICALLY PERHAPS, REPENTANCE AND MISERIES ENGLOBE ALL THE TIME, TAKING AWAY ALL HOPES AND DREAMS OF ALL SORTS, DESIRING THE LIFE TO COME TO AN END, HOW AND WHEN TO DO OFFER NO ANSWER. NEVERTHELESS IT IS NOT ALL BLACK, THERE ARE INSTANCES WHERE EVEN THOSE WHO HAD MISERABLE START, THEY DID MAKE MARVELOUS PROGRESS AND EARN NAME AS WELL. QUESTION ARISES HOW: IT IS SAID WHERE THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY WHEN AMBITIONS ARE MATCHED WITH STRUGGLE AND STRUGGLEIS DIRECTED INTELLIGENTLY IN THE RIGHT WAY WITH DETERMINATION, PERSEVERENCE AND AWARENESS ALL THE TIME TO ASSESS IF THERE HAD BEEN THE SHORTCOMINGS WHAT WERE THE REASONS THEREFOR AND WHAT HAVE BEEN THE ACHIEVEMENTS AND HOW TO MAKE MORE EFFORTS TO IMPROVE THEREUPON ETC. ETC. IT IS ALSO SAID THAT OPPORTUNITIES DO HAPPEN AND COME ABOUT ANY TIME, IT ALL DEPENDS WHO JUMPS ON THESE AT THE RIGHT TIME TO ENCASH THE MOST AS ONE DESIRES AND/OR HAD DESIRED. SOME TIME CHANCE OR DESTINY AS IT IS CALLED, ALSO PROMOTE SUCCESS AS WE HAVE SEEN IN SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE AS ALSO THERE ARE INSTANCES MANY ENGLISHMEN TOOK THEIR SERVANTS WITH THEM TO ENGLAND WHO LATER ON PROSPORED IN FORTUNES FORTUNE SOME CHANGES BY ADOPTION BY FOREIGNER OR BY RICH FAMILIES ETC. THERE ARE MANY EXAMPLES IN POLITICS WHEREBY THE POOREST ONES HAVE RISEN TO PROMINENCE. Conclusion: never get entrapped with worries, worries bring in nothing. bring in total loss to make any efforts, live in miseries and believe in fate perhaps. INSTEAD WORRY NOT, STRUGGLE BY ALL MEANS, TURN OUT ACTION WORTHY, IT IS SAID CHANCE COMES TO THOSE WHO STRUGGLE IN LIFE IRRESPECTIVE OF IN WHAT MISERIES HE/SHE IS BORN AND/OR CIRCUMSTANCES HAVE PUT HIM/HER IN THAT POSITION. BELIEVE IN WORRIES BECOME CANCER, WITHOUT ANY CURE AT ALL THEREAFTER, LIFE IS LOST, HENCE THE ONLY ANSWER TO THOSE WHO WANT TO LIVE LIFE IS, BELIEVE IN STRUGGLE, WORK FOR IT AND RELENT NEVER. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau, incepted in 2015; contact; vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com