WOMEN DAY 8-3-24


10 March 2024 08:40

WOMEN’S DAY IT IS A GOOD DAY OF CELEBRATIONS AND WOMEN EMPOWERMENT -WOMEN ARE MOVING FAST TO GET THE BEST EDUCATIN AND EXCEL THE MALES -IT IS TRUE AS WHEN ONE HAS SOMETHING. ONE IS LESS BOTHERED TO MAKE MUCH EFFORT, THINKS OF ENJOYMENT MORE THAN CONCENRATION ON WORK AND PROGRESS FROM WHAT ONE’S STATUS IS. -BUT NO DOUBT WOMEN EMPLOWERMENT HAS GIVEN THE FEELING AND TRAINING IN COLLEGES TO DISCUSS AND FIGHT FOR THEIR RIGHTS -TRUE BUT ONE DAY OR THE OTHER THE FEMALS HAVE TO GET MARRIED AND IF AND WHEN THEY TAKE THIS ATTITUDE AFTER MARRIAGE AS WELL, IT DOES NOT GO WELL, CONFLICTS AND BREAKS HAPPEN. -MORESO THE MALES IN INDIA WHO HAVE MONOPOLISED SO FAR AND ARE DOMINATING TO SOME EXTENT BECAUSE OF CUSTOMS/TRADITIONS AND CONSCIOUS THAT THEY ARE MEN WHILE LADIES ARE MEANT TO TAKE CARE OF HOUSEHOLD -MEN BELIEVE THAT THE FEMALES WORK OR NOT, THEY HAVE TO CONSENT MOSTLY WHAT THE MALES ASK THEM TO DO. -BY WOMEN EMPOWERMENT, BY LAW AND BY GETTING TO JOBS LIKE MALES, THE FEMALS EXERT EQUALITY WHICH IS GENERALLY NOT HAPPENING -THAT IS THE MAIN REASON FOR CONFLICTS AND DIVORCES, WHICH ARE ON INCREASE ALMOST EVERY DAY -ESSENTIAL THEREFORE IS THAT THE MALES MUST CHANGE THEMSELVES TO ACCEPTANCE OF THE REALITY, FEMALES ARE ALSO HUMAN BEINGS, THEY NEED TO BE RESPECTED AND GIVEN HELPING HAND IN ALL RESPECTS. -UNFORTUNATELY IN MANY ORGANISATIONS I FIND THAT GIRLS WITH SAME QUAIFICATIONS ARE GETTING SALARIES ALMOST 1/3 OR AT THE MOST ½ -I THINK IT IS UNJUST, SALARY MUST BE BASED ON MERIT THAN BASED ON GENDER -SOME MAY SAY THAT FEMALES AFTER GETTING MARRIED CLAIM PREGNANCY BENEFITS AND DURING PREGNANCY THE WORK ALSO SUFFERS. -TRUE BUT SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES DO OBLIGE TO ASSIST ALL WHATEVER THE GENDER IS, FEMALES ARE EQUALLY IMPORTANT TO KEEP THE POPULATION IN BALANCE AND MOST OF THE TIME CONTRIBUTE TO THE PROGRESS OF FAMILY AND DO ALL TO PROVIDE HAPPINESS IN THE HOUSE. -PERHAPS ONE DAY THIS DISCRIMINIATION WILL GO AWAY AND WISDOM OR RIGHT OF FEMALES WILL PREVAIL. -THEN COMING TO VOCATIONS, I THINK FEMALES IF EVER THEY THINK OF MRRIAGE AT SOME STAGE, IT WILL BE BETTER NOT TO TAKE UP THE FOLLOWING JOBS -POLICE -MILITARY -AVIATION -NAVIGATION -NIGHT SHIFTS OR ANY OTHER WHICH AFFECTS THEIR ATTITUDE BY WHOLE WORK IN COMMANDING FUNCTIONS, OR WHICH TAKE AWAY THEIR LIFE TO BE SPENT AT NIGHT IN THE HOUSE OR DEPRIVES THEM FROM HOUSE TO LIVE A FAMILIAL LIFE. -BUT THERE IS A TREND OF NOT GETTING MARRIED AT ALL AND LIVE IN BOY AND GIRL FRIENDSHIP OR LIVE-IN ARRANGEMENT. -IF SUCH IS THE THINKING AND THE FEMALE DOES NOT WANT TO MARRY AT ALL ,THEN SHE MAY AND CAN TAKE UPALL THOSE JOBS WHICH I HAVE POINTED ABOVE AND ALSO ALL THOSE WHICH ARE MONOPOLISED BY MALES. NEVERTHELESS WOMEN EMPOWERMENT HAS CREATED ITS DRAW- BACKS AS WELL, QUITE SOME TIME JUST ON FLIMSY GROUNDS, THIS LEGAL POWER IS USED TO VICTIMISE THE MALE WHICH IF THIS LEGAL EMPOWERMENT WOULD NOT HAVE EXISTED, POSSIBLY RELATIONS DESPITE SOME SKIRMISHES HERE AND THERE, WOULD HAVE CONTINUED AND MARRIAGE WOULD HAVE BEEN KEPT INTACT. NOW MEN HAVE ALSO SOME RECOURSE, WHICH HAS ENCOURAGED LEGAL BATTLES AND AS SUCH THE VERY PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE IS VITIATED. FINALLY I BELIEVE THAT NONE OF MALES AND FEMALES TAKE TO EXTREME, LIFE IS MEANT FOR CO-HABITATION OF MALES AND FEMALES TO KEEP BALANCE IN POPULATION AND ALSOTO SATISFY THEIR ESSENTIAL NEEDS LIKE PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP, DEPENDANCE ON EACH OTHER, DIVISION OF RESPONSIBILITIES, REPOSE AND EXERCISE CONFIDENCE, REMAIN UNITED NOT ONLY TO SHOW MORAL VALUES TO THE CHILDREN BUT ALSO TO STRUGGLE BY ALL MEANS TO ACHIEVE PROGRESS OF THE FAMILY, CHILDREN AND ENJOY COMFORTS OF LIFE. MARRIAGE IS ESSENTIAL AND IS THE BEST INSTITUTION. THERE DO EXIST SOME FAULTS WHICH COULD BE AVOIDED MOSTLY BY PRE-MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP WHICH DOES ALLOW TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER BETTER, ENCOURAGES VISITS AND MEETS TO EACH OTHER HOUSES AND AS SUCH WHEN MARRIAGE TAKES PLACE, ALMOST ALL ISSUES ARE SETTLED AND THUS THE DRAWBACK WHICH EXIT IN THE MARRIAGE INSTITUTION ARE OVERCOME. IN CONCLUSION, BOTH MALES AND FEMALES HAVE TO TREAT EACH OTHER AS HUMAN BEINGS, MUST PRIORITISE TO MARRIAGE OVER SELF EGO, SELF PRESTIGE, I AM RIGHT AND YOU ARE WRONG, SO ON AND SO FORTH. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK