WHY INLAWS REMAIN INLAWS 20-1-24


19 January 2024 11:58

-WHY INLAWS REMAN INLAWS -NEVER THEY TURN OUT PARENTS -ANSWER -MAIN REASON SEEMS TO BE THE BLOOD RELATIONSHIP -AS IT IS SAID BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER -DAUGHTER IN-LAW AND SON INLAW GENERALLY REMAIN IN RELTIONSHIP LIKE WATER THICKER PERHAPS BUT NEVER TURN THICKER LIKE BLOOD -HOWEVER CONGENIAL RELATIONSHIP IS CREATED AND MAINTAINED, STILL IN RELATIONSHIP FEAR REMAINS NOT TO UTTER ANY WORD AND/OR GET TO SOME ACTS, BEHAVIOUR ETC. WHICH MAY ANNOY THE INLAWS -THIS RESERVATION REMAINS AND WILL REMAIN FOR EVER -HOWSOEVER GOOD AND CEMENTED RELATIONS MAY HAPPEN TO BE WITH INLAWS -EVEN IF INLAWS ARE LIVING WITH THEIR SON IN-LAW, STILL RESERVATION SHALL REMAIN ALL THE TIME OF CAUTION -AND DISCUSSIONS IN GENERAL AND IN PARTICULAR THOSE WHICH RELATE TO HIS OWN FAMILY -IN OTHER WORDS IT REMAINS A VERY DELICATE AND CAUTIOUS RELATIONSHIP -IF EVER RELATIONS GET SOAR OR EMBITTERED, THIS RELATIONSHIP STARTS GETTING AFFECTED AND EACH SIDE STARTS TAKING ITS OWN POSITION -SON INLAW FOR HIS FAMILY AND -AND DAUGHTER INLAW FOR HER FAMILY -THERE IS HOWEVER AN EXCEPTION WHEN THERE IS CONFLICT OF DAUGHTER OR SON IN DISTRIBUTION OF PROPERTIES, BUSINESS AND WHATEVER THE MONETARY INTERESTS MAY BE, IF DESIRED ALLOCATION AND DISTRIBUTION IS NOT DONE INCLUDING THE DAUGHTER BY HER PARENTS -IN THAT SITUTION THE RELATIONSHIP OF DAUGHTER IN-LAW BECOMES THICKER FOR HER HUSBAND AND INLAWS -SO HAPPENS FOR THE BOY TOWARDS HIS INLAW AS WELL -WORST HAPPENS WHEN RELATIONS DO NOT -GO WELL -AND THE DAUGHTER INLAW CANNOT ADJUST WITH HER IN-LAWS FAMILY -AND ALSO THE WORST OF ALL, NOT GET ALONG WELL WITH HER HUSBAND -THEN RELATIONSHIP TOTALLY BREAKS, EACH ONE TAKES TO HIS/HER SIDE -DAUGHTER IN-LAWS TURNS BACK TO HER PARENTS -AND SON INLAW BREAKS ALL HIS RELATIONS WITH HIS INLAWS -IN SUCH A SITUATION NOT ONLY RELATIONS ARE BROKEN -INSTEAD THEY TURN OUT ENEMIES OF EACH OTHER WITH NO RETURN AT ALL -HENCE THE QUESTION ARISES IS THERE ANY ANSWER TO THIS IN-LAW RELATIONSHIP? -NO DOUBT, THERE IS ALWAYS AN ANSWER TO EACH AND EVERY PROBLEM PROVIDED ONE THINKS, IS CONVINCED AND IS READY TO SCRIFICE OF ALL TYPES AND IN ALL MANNERS -NOW IN THIS CASE, THE THICK RELATIONSHIP DAUGHTER IN-LAW KEEPS WITH HER HUSBAND’S FAMILY AND IN PARTICULAR WITH HER HUSBAND -THE LESSER EFFECT OF WORD WILL REMAIN AS IN-LAW -AND INSTEAD SHE WILL TURN OUT TO BE LIKE THE DAUGHTER -RATHER AS OWNER OF THE HOUSE, ALL IN ALL MORE THAN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH REAL DAUGHTER -AS SHE GETS MARRIED AND AS SUCH HER AFFINITIES AND LOYALTIES START TURNING TOWARDS HER HUSBAND AND ALSO TOWARDS HUSBAND’S FAMILY IF RELATIONS ARE KEPT GOOD AND CONCILIATORY FROM HUSBAND’S PARENTS, BROTHERS ETC. -LIKKEWISE WHEN THE SON-LAW GIVES RESPECT TO HIS IN-LAWS AND IS READY TO LOOK TO ALL THEIR INTERESTS AS AND WHEN REQUIRED. HE MAKES HIS PLACE AS A GOOD SON INLAW BUT NEVER REPLACES THE PLACE OF SONS OF HIS INLAWS -THIS PREFERENCE OF BLOOD HAS REMAINED ALL THE TIME AND WILL REMAIN SO -UNTIL AND UNLESS THE RELATIONS OF PARENTS GET SO EMBITTERED WITH THEIR REAL SONS AND PERHAPS GETS TO FIGHTS AND COURTS ETC. -BESIDES THIS RELATIONSHIP, IT DEPENDS ON THE THINKING AS WELL -THE BETTERARE THE RELATIONS OF SON IN-LAW WITH HIS IN-LAW PARENTS, THE BETTER WILL BECOME HIS RELATIONS WITH HIS WIFE AND POSSIBLY WITH HIS PARENTS AS WELL, AND VICE VERSA -WHEN CONFLICT HAPPENS IN FAMILY OF IN-LAWS IF THE IN-LAW DECIDES THAT HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE DISTRIBUTION OF HIS-LAWS ASSETS ETC AND CONVINCES HIS WIFE AS WELL -IN THAT SITUATION, THE RELATIONS OF INLAWS THOUGH -REMAIN MORE OF RESPECT, SYMPATHY AND ACCEPTANCE BY ALL MEANS -BESIDES AS THE TIME PASSES, ALLEGIANCES AND LOYALTIES DO CHANGE AND TURN OUT IN FAVOUR OF WHERE THE PERSON IS SETTLED -HENCE THE DISTANCE AND RELATIONSHIP OF IN-LAW GETS REDUCED TO THE MINIMAL BASED ON RELATIONSHIP AND RESPECT BUT FOR ALL PURPOSES IT REMAINS IN-LAW -AND RESERVATIONS SMALL OR BIG REMAIN AND SHALL REMAIN FOR EVER. -conclusion: if good relations in respect, care and sharing, and no interest in in-laws assets and their personal affairs is done by action and in reality, the thicker and happier relations shall develop amongst the husband and wife as a loving couple. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. INTERESTED FOR COLLABORATION. CONTACTL9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com