WHAT WERE THOSE DAYS WHEN I WAS FLYING AND TOUCHING THE SKY AND WHAT ARE THESE DAYS WHEN IT IS DIFFICULT TO WALK EVEN IT IS SAID “ BACHPAN DIN BHULA NAN DENA” WHILE I WILL SAY NEVER FORGET THOSE DAYS OF YOUTH WHEN THERE WAS POWER, STATUS, ALL RELATIONS, FRIENDS COLLEAUGES ETC. WERE AROUND AND WHAT I SEE AND AM FACING NOW NO ONE BOTHERS ABOUT ME QUESTION ARISES WHY SO IN FACT, POSITION AND POWER AND DEALINGS ARE THE SOLE REASONS WHICH CREATE RELATIONS NOT ONLY OF DEPENDENCE BUT MOSTLY TO GAIN FINANCIAL HELP, BY WORK, COLLABORATION, PARTNERSHIP ETC. ETC. AS NOW THERE ARE NO SUCH INTERESTS, NO OBE BOTHERS, FEELING NEGLECTD IS BUT NATURAL REFLECTED I A LOT AND SOON CAME AN IDEA TO ME AND THAT WAS TO KEEP MYSELF BUSY WHATEVER I AM CAPABLE TO DO, WHAT HAD BEEN MY EXPERIENCE AND WHAT IS MY PASSION AS WELL. ALL OF A SUDDEN IDEA TURNED INTO WORKING ON VARIOUS OPTIONS FEELING FULLY THAT I DO NOT NEED ANY FINANCIAL GAIN AT THIS STAGE AT ALL THEN WHAT ANSWER REMAINS BECAME A PERPLEXING QUESTION INCIDENTLY I SAW SOME OLD PEOPLE DOING YOGA, SOME WALKING IN GROUPS TALKING ABOUT POLITICS AND WORLDLY AFFAIRS ETC. ETC. I FELT THAT IT IS JUST WASTE OF TIME, A BIT LATER I FOUND QUITE A FEW OLD ONES FLOCKING INTO THE TEMPLES TO OFFER PRAYERS I FELT THAT IT IS REALLY GOOD TO PASS THE TIME AND EARN PEACE OF LIFE, SOME DAYS PASSED OFF, I FOUND THAT PRAYERS IN GENERAL HAVE REMAINED IN THEM JUST FOR NAME SAKE, NOTHER CHANGED IN THEIR BEHAVIOUR, ATTITUDES AND DEALINGS. IT WAS REALLY A PUZZLING SITUATION AS TO WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO REMAIN OCCUPIED AS IN EARLY MORNING I AM USED TO READ NEWSPAPERS, I SAW AN ARTICLE THAT DAY BY DAY DIVORCES ARE ON RISE, THERE IS NO TOLERANCE, NO ACCEPTANCE, NO ACCOMODATION, AND THAT RETALIATION HAS REPLACED LOVE IN EGO, EQUALITY, STATUS, TEMPTATIONS, FATIGUE BY LIVING ALL THE TIME WITH THE SAME PERSON, NOTHING NEW IN RELATIONSHIP AND NOTHING NEW TO TALK OVER ETC. ETC. I JUMPED INTO THIS IDEA THAT IF I OPEN UP A MARRIAGE BUREAU COST FREE I COULD SERVE MANY TO EXPLAIN AS TO WHAT IS MARRIAGE, WHAT ARE ITS ADVANTAGE, HOW IT NEEDS TO BE MANAGED DESPITE ADDITIONAL RESPONSIBIITIES, DIFFERENCES OF VIEWS, NON-ACCEPTANCE ETC. ETC. AND AS SUCH EXPLANATION COULD BE THE SOLE VIABLE SOLUTION TO HALT THE TREND FOR DIVORCES. I RUSHED WITH THIS IDEA TO OPEN A MARRIAGE BUREAU TO SERVE THE POOR AND NEEDY PERSONS, ALL AS A SOCIAL SERVICE TO ESTABLISH CONTACT BETWEEN THE INTENDING SPOUSES EXPLAIN TO THEM WHAT ARE THE IMPLICATIONS OF MARRIAGE AND HOW MARRIED LIFE NEEDS TO BE MANAGED. AT THE SAME I FOUND IT WAS ESSENTIAL TO DISCUSS WITH PARENTS AS WELL THAT THEY MUST NOT INTERFERE IN THE LIFE OF THEIR CHILDREN, TAKE THEM AS ADULTS AND NOW IN THIS OLD THEY MUST LOOK AFTER THEMSELVES AND ENJOY THE OLD AGE AS BEST AS THEY CAN.. AS SUCH I REMAIN FULLY OCCUPIED, DEVOTED ALL THE TIME TO SERVE MANKIND, PASS ON MY EXPERIENCE TO THE GROWING UP CHILDREN AS TO WHAT IS LIFE, WHAT IT IS ITS PURPOSE, HOW TO PROGRESS AND HOW TO REMAIN HAPPY, IN SHORT I EXPLAIN TO ALL CONCERNED THAT MARRIAGE IS THE FOUNDATION OF PROGRESS, RESPONSIBILITIES, REALISATION OF DREAMS AND TO LIVE A COMFORTABLE LIFE. I EXPLAIN AND WARN THEM EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS POSSIBLE IF ONE LEARNS TO ADJUST, ACCEPT EACH ONE AS EACH ONE IS, AND TRY TO MOULD ONESELF AND NEVER IMPOSE YOUR DEMANDS ON THE PARTNER, BETTER DO IT YOURSELF, BY DOING THAT YOU WILL LOSE NOTHING, RATHER INSTEAD WILL ENJOY PEACE AND LOVE. REMEMBER ALWAYS THAT CONFLICTS BRING IN DESTRUCTION AND ONCE WHAT ONE HAS, IS LOST, THEN THE ENTIRE LIFE GOES IN REGRETS AND RECALLS AND MISERIES OF ALL KINDS. HENCE ESSENTIAL IT IS, LEARN TO LOVE, OVERLOOK THE WEAKNESSES OF EACH OTHER, GIVE PRIORITY TO ADJUSTMENT AND UNDERSTANDING, NEVER THINK THAT THE NEXT WILL BE BETTER, BELIEVE IT THAT THE NEXT WILL BE MORE DEMANDING IN ADJUSTMENT. TOLERANCE AND ACCEPTANCE AND ALSO WHO KNOWS THAT THE NEXT WILL BE BETTER THAN THE PRESENT ONE.. HENCE I BELIEVE PRE-MARRIAGE GUIADANCE TO THE GROWING UP CHILDREN IS VERY IMPORTANT IF WE WANT TO HALT THE TREND FOR DIVORCES. HOPE YOU ALL WILL CONTRIBUTE SOME BIODATAS TO ADD TO THE PRESENT DATA, AS THE MORE THE STOCK OF DATA, MORE INTENDING SPOUSES WILL BE SERVE, BE AS SUCH CONTRIBUTORY TO THIS SOCIAL CAUSE, WHICH IS THE ESSENTIAL NEED TO HALT DIVORCES BY ALL MEANS AND BY ALL COSTS. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. INTERESTED FOR COLLABORATION. CONTACTL9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com