WHAT PITIABLE AND PATHETIC SITUATION IS WHEN ONE LOSES ONE’S WIFE THINKS MANY A TIME WHAT IS THE USE OF THIS LIFE, WAS HE MEANT TO SUFFER LIKE THIS, WAS HE DESTINED FOR THIS MISFORTUNE, SO ON AND SO FORTH. -THIS IS A CRITICAL SUBJECT BUT IT IS NECESSARY TO TACKLE IT SO THAT THOSE WHO ARE WIDOWERS AND/OR WHOSE WIFE/WIVES HAS/HAVE DIED, HOW AND IN WHAT MANNER TO SPEND THE REST OF HIS/THEIR LIFE. IN THIS CONTEXT, IF THE HUSBAND DIES, COMPARATIVELY WIFE CAN MANAGE BETTER THAN HER HUSBAND AS SHE IS MULTIFARIOUS, TAKES CARE OF THE HOUSEHOLD ACTIVITIES, AND AS LEADIES LOVE TO TALK IN VARIOUS TOPICS RELEVANT OR IRRELEVANT, AS SUCH IT IS EASIER FOR THEM TO PASS OFf THE TIME COMPARATIVELY BETTER THAN MAN. ANOTHER FACTOR WHICH IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO ADDRESS IS AS TO WHAT AGE WHEN DEATH HAS TAKEN PLACE, IF IT IS STILL A MARRIAGEABLE AGE, PERHAPS ONE CAN THINK OF REMARRYING. EVEN IF ONE DOES THINK OF REMARRYING, IN THE PRESENT ENVIRORNMENTS ONE PREFERS TO MANAGE TO BEFRIEND HERE AND THERE AND THUS PASS OFF THE TIME. IT IS MUCH HARDER WHEN ONE HAS GOT INTO OLD AGE OR IS NEAR TO THE OLD AGE AND WHEN THERE IS NO CHANCE TO GET REMARRIED, THE SITUATION GETS MORE CRITICAL AND UNBEARABLE. LONELINESS AND PAST REMEMBRANCES DO NOT ALLOW ONE TO CONCENTRATE IN ANYTHING AND FURTHER CONTINUOUS THINKING ALL THE TIME DOES AFFECT ONE’S HEALTH, RESULTING IN WHY TO WORK AND FOR WHOM TO WORK, WHAT IS THE NEED AND WHAT IS THE PURPOSE AND AS SUCH ONE DOES NOT FEEL INCLINED TO MEET ANYONE NOR TALK TO ANYONE LEST ONE HAPPENS TO BE IN SUCH A SITUATION, IT WILL BE BETTER FOR HIM/HER TO RECONCILE TO THE SITUATION PERHAPS TAKE RECOURSE TO DESTINY AND ALSO TO BELIEVE THAT IT IS NOT ESSENTIAL EXCEPT IN ACCIDENTS, THAT BOTH WILL EVER DIE TOGETHER. HENCE WHOSOEVER IS LEFT BEHIND HAS TO LIVE HIS/HER LIFE SO LONG AS THE LIFE GOES ON HENCE SUCH A THINKING DEVELOPS ESPECIALLY WITH THOSE WHO ACCEPT THE REALITY, THEY THINK SOME ALTERNATIVES AS TO HOW TO REMAIN BUSY. SOME WILL GET TO OLD AGE HOMES, SOME WILL JOIN SOME GROUPS OF THEIR LIKING WHICH COULD BE RELIGIOUS, ACADEMIC. OR THOSE WHO ARE INTERESTED ALMOST IN SAME KIND OF TOPICS LIKE POLITICS, ECONOMIC, STOCKS, AND/OR IN GENERAL WAY OF LIFE TO SPEND, SOME JUST BUILD UP A COMPANY TO GET TO COFFE HOUSES AND RESTAURANTS, GAMES, WALKS, TRAVELS, SITE SEEINGS ETC. ETC. IT IS TRUE TO ENGAGE ONESELF IN SOME SORT OF ACTIVITIES JUST TO PASS OFF TIME AND LIFE THEREOF, WHICH IN MY VIEW IS NOT THE BEST ANSWER AT ALL. INSTEAD I WOULD SUGGEST ONE MUST THINK OF RENDERING SERVICE TO MANKIND BY PASSING OFF ONE’S EXPERIENCE, KNOWLEDGE, PASSION ETC. ETC. -MAYBE ONE TAKES TO GIVING FREE COACHING, INVITING SOME YOUNG CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO THEIR VIEWS ON VARIOUS TOPICS AS ALSO THE PROBLEMS THEY ARE FACING AND/OR ARE NOT CLEAR ABOUT THEIR FUTURE ETC. HENCE BEING WITH YOUNGSTERS WILL MOSTLY HELP HIM/HER TO FORGET /HER WORRIES AND RECOLLECTIONS, REJUVINATE HIM/HER AND PERHAPS WILL KEEP HIM/HER BUSY AS TO HOW AND IN WHAT MANER TO REPLY AND EXPLAIN TO THE YOUNGSTERS TO OFFER ANSWER THEIR DOUBTS AND ALSO TO ENCOURAGE AND MOTIVATE THEM AS WELL. I THINK THE MORE AND MORE HE/SHE BASED ON HIS/HER EXPERIENCE AND DESIRE, WILL LEAD SUCH GROUPS TO GROW AND AT THE SAME TIME WILL HELP HIM/HER TO REMAIN BUSY AND OCCUPIED ALL THE TIME TO SPEND SOME TIME IN THE EVENING, ONE CAN BEFRIEND WITH A FEW ONES TO CHAT, EAT, DRINK, TAKE A WALK AND GET TO SLEEP. BETTER IF ONE CAN AFFORD, ONE CAN KEEP A SERVANT/MAID TO TAKE CARE OF THE HOUSEHOLDS, MEALS AND HIS/HER HEALTH NEEDS AS WELL. I BELIEVE SERVICE TO MANKIND WILL BE MORE GRATIFYING THAN TAKING TO RELIGIOUS ACTIVITIES ETC. AND POSSIBLY BY SEEING THOSE YOUNGSTER GROWIG AND PROGRESSING BY HIS/HER GUIDANCE, WILL ENCOURAGE HIM/HER TO LIVE LIFE AS USUAL, BESIDES BLESSINGS FROM THOSE YOUNGSTERS APART. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. INTERESTED FOR COLLABORATION. CONTACTL9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com