WE GO TO FOREIGN, GET SETTLED THERE BUT OUR HEART ALWAYS REMAINS FOR OWN COUNTRY WHY IT IS SO GENERALLY IT HAPPENS TO THOSE WHO GET TO FOREIGN COUNTIES WHO ARE AT ADULT AGE AT THE TIME OF LEAVING THEIR OWN COUNTRY, MAYBE FOR JOB, BUSINESS AND/OR TO SETTLE DOWN AS CITIZENS. ON CONTRARY TO THOSE CHILDREN WHO ARE BORN IN FOREIGN COUNTRIES OR IN THEIR YOUNG AGE GET TO FOREIGN COUNTRY, THEY GET EDUCATED THERE, MAKE FRIENDS THERE, MOVE IN THE SAME COUNTRY AND ENJOY CULTURE OF THAT COUNTRY. THOSE CHILDREN WHOSE PARENTS ARE IN BUSINESS AND/OR DISPLOMATS ETC. DO GET THE OPPORTUNITY TO VISIT THE COUNTRY OF THEIR ORIGIN/PARENTAL COUNTRY, GET INTRODUCED TO THEIR RELATIONS ETC. SUCH CHILDREN DO DEVELOP LIKING FOR THEIR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN/PARENTAL COUNTRY, LIKING ONLY, NOT TO LIVE IN AT ALL.. BESIDES THIS WHEN SUCH CHILDREN SEE THEIR PARENTS TALKING ABOUT THEIR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN, NARRATING CERTAIN STORIES, SINGING SOME OLD SONGS, SUCH CHILDREN GET INFLUENCED AND DEVELOP KEENNESS TO VISIT THEIR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN/PARENAL COUNTRY JUST AS A TOURIST AND NEVER TO SETTLE DOWN IN THEIR PARENTAL COUNTRY FOR REASONS SINCE FROM THEIR CHILDHOOD THEY HAVE LIVED IN THAT FOREIGN COUNTRY, LEARNT THE LANGUAGE, HAVE STUDIED THE CULTURE AND HISTORY OF THAT COUNTRY IN SCHOOLS, COLLEGES ETC. AND THEIR ASSOCIATION WITH THE LOCAL BOYS/GIRLS FOR PLAY, CHAT, ASSOCIATION ETC. SUCH CHILDREN FOR ALL PURPOSES GET GROUNDED AND GROWN UP WITH CUSTOMS, LAWS, LEGAL,ELECTORAL SYSTEM OF THAT COUNTRY, MANY A TIME GET MARRIED IN THERE WITH THE LOCAL PEOPLE AND WHEN THEIR CHILDREN ARE BORN, THEY REMAIN MUCH DISTANT FROM THE COUNTRY OF THEIR PARENTS, GRAND-PARENTS ETC. IN NUTSHELL THOSE WHO ARE BORN IN THE COUNTRY OF ORIGIN, STUDY THERE, REACH ADULTHOOD, THEY DO KEEP LOVE FOR THEIR COUNTRY, IN KEENNESS TO MEET THEIR FRIENDS AND RELATIONS, MORESO WHEN THEY GET OLD, THEY DEFINITELY WISH TO LIVE THE END OF THEIR LIFE IN THEIR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN, OF COURSE, BASED ON THEIR FIANCIAL RESOURCES ETC. AND MOST LIKELY IF THEY HAVE ACQUIRED, BUILT AND/OR HAVING THEIR ANCESTRAL HOUSE TO LIVE IN. BESIDES MEETING RELATIONS, IT IS ALSO THEIR KEEN DESIRE THAT WHEN END OF LIFE COMES IN THEY ARE SURROUNDED BY FRIENDS AND RELATIONS TO TAKE HIS/HER BODY TO THE CEMETRY/ BURIAL PLACE WHERE HE/SHE IS KEPT OR BURNT CEREMONIOUSLY AND ALSO THAT HIS/HER ASHES ARE DROPPED IN THE HOLY WATER OF GANGES AND/OR BURIED CAREFULLY AND COMFORTABLY IN THE GRAVE. THIS WISH AND LOVE REMAINS ALWAYS WITH EVERYONE WHEN ONE GETS OLD ON THE CONTRARY, IN FOREIGN COUNTRY, AT THE END OF LIFE PERHAPS A FEW FRIENDS WILL GATHER AROUND, TAKE THE BODY TO CEMETARY TO BURN, REMAINING WITH FAMILY IS MOSTLY OUT OF QUESTION, AND IN FEW HOURS ALL IS FINISHED, THERE IS NONE TO TALK OVER AS EVERYONE GETS BUSY IN HIS/HER OWN JOB, WHILE ON THE CONTRARY IN INDIA AND ASIAN COUNTRIES, ASSEMBLIES AND FUNCTIONS ARE HELD A FEW DAYS LATER, NOT ONLY TO LET THE FRIENDS AND RELATIONS GET KNOWN ABOUT THE DEATH, BUT TO DISCUSS AS TO HOW THE BEREAVED FAMILY COULD BE ASSISTED TO GET OVER THIS PAINFUL SITUATION. WE ALL ASIANS, IN GENERAL THE WELL TO DO, BUY OUT A HOUSE IN FOREIGN COUNTRY JUST TO LIVE IN AND/OR THEIR CHILDREN TO LIVE IN, BUT THEY ALWAYS LOOK BACK TO THEIR OWN COUNTRTY AND FEEL IT AS SUCH NECESSARY TO HAVE A LIVING PLACE IN THEIR OWN COUNTRY, TO LIVE, SPEND AND ENJOY THEIR OLD AGE. THIS IS HOW IT IS SAID THAT SAB SAI BARHIYA HINDUSTAN HAMARA, HAM HAIN ISSKAI BULUL, YEH HAI DESH HAMARA. Narrated by vasdevloond, founder of cost free marriage bureau, titled Marriage Guidance New Concept contact: 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com