WE DECEIVE OURSELVES AND PRACTICALLY ALL THE TIME REMAIN IN DECEPTION JUST TO CARE FOR THE SOCIETY TO BE ADMIRED ALWAYS, WITH LEAST CONSIDERATION FOR OURSELVES. NO DOUBT, BUEAUTY IN EACH AND EVERYTHING INCLUDING IN SELECTION OF ONE’S WIFE AND VICE VERSA, IS LIKED AND APPRECIATED. BUT SUCH AN APPRECIATION LASTS FOR A SHORTER TIME AND THEREAFTER ONE TAKES IT AS A ROUTINE AND FORGETS ABOUT IT. FURTHER TO GET BEAUTY AND MAINTAIN IT IS A COSTLY AFFAIR SOME ACCEPT IT, SOME IGNORE IT WHILE SOME CRITICISE IT. BUT DESPITE ALL THIS, ONE PREFERS TO GO OUT WITH BEAUTY MAYBE IT IS JEWELLERY, DIAMONDS, WEARS, MAKE-UP, AND IN PARTICULAR WITH WIFE AND VICE VERSA WHERE ALL FRIENDS AND CROWD AROUND LOOKS AT THESE/THEM. SOME ADMIRE OPENLY WHILE MANY DISCUSS AMONG THEMSELEVES. THIS LUST FOR BEAUTY, BESIDES IT BEING EXPENSIVE TO MAINTAIN IT/HER ALL THE TIME, NEEDS ALSO TO BE APPRECIATED EACH AND EVERY DAY BY HER HUSBAND AND IF NOT BY OTHERS, AS SUCH EITHER THE HUSBAND FEELS IRRITATED AND NEGLECTS HER AND IF THAT BEAUTY IS APRECIATED OUTSIDE, THE HUSBAND FEELS JEALOUS AND FEARS AS WELL PERHAPS SHE MAY QUIT HIM ANY TIME. HENCE THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT BEAUTY IS APPRECIATED AND ADMIRED OUTSIDE, BUT IT CREATES JEALOUSIES AND FEAR ALSO IN ADDITION IT CREATES AFTER SOME TIME SOME INCONVENIENCE AND INTOLERANCE AS WELL. HUMAN BEINGS AS WE ARE, DESPITE ALL THESE PITFALLS STILL WE PREFER BEAUTY IN ORDER TO BE ADMIRED OUTSIDE IN SOCIETY, SOCIAL GATHERINGS ETC. IN THIS RACE. WE BUILD BIG HOUSES, AND FROM HOUSES TO MAHALS, ETC. ETC. AND THIS RACE OF BEAUTY AND APPRECIATION NEVER SEES A STOP. WE ENGAGE IN ALL SORTS OF FASHION BUYS., FASHION WEAR, FASHION DÉCOR IN THE FORM OF JEWELLERY/DIAMONDS, HOUSESHOLDS, TRAVELS, OWNING HELICOPTERS, VILLAS, BIG BUSINESSES AND WHAT NOT. HOWEVER ONCE WE BUILD ANY OR MOST OF THESE AND/OR POSSESS THESE, THE DANGER SURMOUNTS WITH REGARD TO THEFTS, JEALOUSIES, CONFLICTS, FIGHTS AND PERHAPS BEING KILLED SOME TIME AND IN ORDER TO SECURE OURSELVES, WE KEEP PISTOL, BODY GUARDS, CAMERAS ALL AROUND, AND ENSURE THAT ALL DOORS ARE TIGHTLY AND SAFELY CLOSED. WORRIES ABOUND, WE ENJOY ALL SORTS OF COMFORTS BUT REMAIN ALL THE TIME IN FEAR AS ALSO WORRIED. THEN THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER WE ARE TO LIVE FOR THE SOCIETY OUTSIDE OR AT PEACE OURSELVES AS A COUPLE, IN FAMILY ETC. WHICH IS BETTER AND NEEDS TO BE PREFERRED INSIDE THAN OUTSIDE; IN REPLY I WILL SAY THOUGH COMFORTS ARE ESSENTIAL BUT THESE SHOULD NOT BE AT THE COST OF PERSOAL AND FAMILY LIFE. PERSONAL PEACE AND HAPPINESS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE COMFORTS WHICH ARE IN FACT SUBDIARY TO ADD TO ENJOY AND REMAIN SATISFIED. IN CONCLUSION AFTER ANALYSING THE APPRECIATION OUTSIDE AND RISKS INVOLVED THEREIN, I THINK IT IS BETTER NOT TO GO IN MORE THAN ONE’S CAPACITY AND AFFORDABILITY AND AS FOR RELATIONSHIP IS CONCERNED, ONE MUST MIRROR IN ONSELF, SEE HOW AND WHAT HE/SHE IS AND LOOK AROUND ALMOST OF SAME TYPE OF SPOUSE, BETTER TO CONCENTRATE WHICH ONE NEEDS FROM HIS/HER COMPANION AND WHAT HE/SHE IS LACKING, SO THAT BOTH BECOME APPRECIATIVE OF EACH OTHER AS EACH ONE IS, THERE IS NO COMPARISON BESIDES CARING AND SHARING BECOME EASIER AS AT TIMES IT IS SAID THAT ONE NEEDS TO MAKE A CHOICE BETWEEN SURAT AND SEERAT, AND IN COMPARISON, ONE WILL FIND THAT SURAT IS TEMPORARY WHILE SEERAT IS PERMANENT. IF ONE CAN GET BOTH, THE BEST, BUT IT IS A RARE PHENOMENON, AS SUCH ONE MUST BETTER MAKE CHOICE FOR SEERAT AND GET INTO SELECTION OF PARTNER AS ONE IS AND WHAT HE/SHE NEEDS TO BE COMPENSATED AND SHARED. ……………………………………………………………………………………… Vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevkiibd@gmail.com