WE DECEIVE OURSELVES AND PRACTICALLY ALL THE TIME

WE DECEIVE OURSELVES AND PRACTICALLY ALL THE TIME

REMAIN IN DECEPTION JUST TO CARE FOR THE SOCIETY TO

BE ADMIRED ALWAYS, WITH LEAST CONSIDERATION FOR

OURSELVES.

 

NO DOUBT, BUEAUTY IN EACH AND EVERYTHING INCLUDING

IN SELECTION OF ONE’S WIFE AND VICE VERSA, IS LIKED AND

APPRECIATED.

BUT SUCH AN APPRECIATION LASTS FOR A SHORTER TIME AND

THEREAFTER ONE TAKES IT AS A ROUTINE AND FORGETS ABOUT

IT.

FURTHER TO GET BEAUTY AND MAINTAIN IT IS A COSTLY AFFAIR

SOME ACCEPT IT, SOME IGNORE IT WHILE SOME CRITICISE IT.

 

BUT DESPITE ALL THIS, ONE PREFERS TO GO OUT WITH BEAUTY

MAYBE IT IS JEWELLERY, DIAMONDS, WEARS, MAKE-UP, AND IN

PARTICULAR WITH WIFE AND VICE VERSA WHERE ALL FRIENDS

AND CROWD AROUND LOOKS AT THESE/THEM. SOME ADMIRE

OPENLY WHILE MANY DISCUSS AMONG THEMSELEVES.

 

THIS LUST FOR BEAUTY, BESIDES IT BEING EXPENSIVE TO MAINTAIN

IT/HER ALL THE TIME, NEEDS ALSO TO BE APPRECIATED EACH AND

EVERY DAY BY HER HUSBAND AND IF NOT BY OTHERS, AS SUCH EITHER

THE HUSBAND FEELS IRRITATED AND NEGLECTS HER AND IF THAT

BEAUTY IS APRECIATED OUTSIDE, THE HUSBAND FEELS JEALOUS AND

FEARS AS WELL PERHAPS SHE MAY QUIT HIM ANY TIME.

 

HENCE THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT BEAUTY IS APPRECIATED AND

ADMIRED OUTSIDE, BUT IT CREATES JEALOUSIES AND FEAR ALSO

IN ADDITION IT CREATES AFTER SOME TIME SOME INCONVENIENCE

AND INTOLERANCE AS WELL.

 

HUMAN BEINGS AS WE ARE, DESPITE ALL THESE PITFALLS STILL WE

PREFER BEAUTY IN ORDER TO BE ADMIRED OUTSIDE IN SOCIETY,

SOCIAL GATHERINGS ETC.

 

IN THIS RACE. WE BUILD BIG HOUSES, AND FROM HOUSES TO PALACES,

ETC. ETC. AND THIS RACE OF BEAUTY AND APPRECIATION NEVER SEES A

STOP. WE ENGAGE IN ALL SORTS OF FASHION BUYS, FASHION WEAR,

FASHION DÉCOR IN THE FORM OF JEWELLERY/DIAMONDS, HOUSEHOLDS,

TRAVELS, OWNING HELICOPTERS, VILLAS, BIG BUSINESSES AND WHAT NOT.

 

HOWEVER ONCE WE BUILD ANY/OR MOST OF THESE AND/OR POSSESS THESE,

THE DANGER SURMOUNTS WITH REGARD TO THEFTS, JEALOUSIES, CONFLICTS,

FIGHTS AND PERHAPS BEING KILLED SOME TIME AND IN ORDER TO SECURE

OURSELVES, WE KEEP PISTOL, BODY GUARDS, CAMERAS ALL AROUND, AND

ENSURE THAT ALL DOORS ARE TIGHTLY AND SAFELY CLOSED.

 

WORRIES ABOUND, WE ENJOY ALL SORTS OF COMFORTS BUT REMAIN ALL

THE TIME IN FEAR AS ALSO WORRIED.

 

THEN THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER WE ARE TO LIVE

FOR THE SOCIETY OUTSIDE OR AT PEACE OURSELVES AS

A COUPLE, IN FAMILY ETC. WHICH IS BETTER AND NEEDS

TO BE PREFERRED INSIDE THAN OUTSIDE;

 

IN REPLY I WILL SAY THOUGH COMFORTS ARE ESSENTIAL

BUT THESE SHOULD NOT BE AT THE COST OF PERSONAL AND

FAMILY LIFE. PERSONAL PEACE AND HAPPINESS ARE MORE

IMPORTANT THAN THE COMFORTS WHICH ARE IN FACT

SUBDIARY TO ADD TO ENJOY AND REMAIN SATISFIED.

 

IN CONCLUSION AFTER ANALYSING THE APPRECIATION OUTSIDE

AND RISKS INVOLVED THEREIN, I THINK IT IS BETTER NOT TO GO

IN MORE THAN ONE’S CAPACITY AND AFFORDABILITY AND AS

FOR RELATIONSHIP IS CONCERNED, ONE MUST MIRROR IN

ONSELF, SEE HOW AND WHAT HE/SHE IS AND LOOK AROUND

ALMOST OF SAME TYPE OF SPOUSE, BETTER TO CONCENTRATE

WHICH ONE NEEDS FROM HIS/HER COMPANION AND WHAT

HE/SHE IS LACKING, SO THAT BOTH BECOME APPRECIATIVE OF

EACH OTHER AS EACH ONE IS, THERE IS NO COMPARISON BESIDES

CARING AND SHARING BECOME EASIER AS AT TIMES IT IS SAID

THAT ONE NEEDS TO MAKE A CHOICE BETWEEN SURAT AND

SEERAT, AND IN COMPARISON, ONE WILL FIND THAT SURAT IS

TEMPORARY WHILE SEERAT IS PERMANENT. IF ONE CAN GET

BOTH, THE BEST, BUT IT IS A RARE PHENOMENON, AS SUCH

ONE MUST BETTER MAKE CHOICE FOR SEERAT AND GET INTO

SELECTION OF PARTNER AS ONE IS AND WHAT HE/SHE NEEDS

TO BE COMPENSATED AND SHARED.

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