VICES ARE THE WORST, THESE MUST BE ELEMINATED AT ALL COSTS -TO START WITH, LET ME EXPLAIN THAT HABITS AND VICES ARE NOT THE SAME. -HABITS RELATE TO GOOD OR BAD AS PER SOCIETY, FREIENDS RELATIONS, FAMILY ETC. WHILE VICES ARE INDIVIDUAL AND HARM THE PERSON CONCERNED WHO IS ADDICTED TO THESE. -HABITS COULD BE SUMMED UP IN RELATION TO DAILY USE IN ACTION FOR EXAMPLE REACHING OFFICE, APPOINMENTS, OFFICE ETC. IN SCHEDULED TIME, NEVER TO GET IN ANGER, RATHER EXPLAIN WHAT HARM ANGER BRINGS IN TO SELF AND ALL AROUND, FURTHER TAKE A MORNING AND EVENING WALK AS IT SUITS THE PERSON CONCERED, ATTEND TO FAMILY AND CHILDREN NEEDS ALMOST EVERY DAY TO DEVELOP LOVE AND HELP THEM TO GROW UP IN GOOD CONDUCT AND TURNING BRIGHT IN STUDIES ETC. HABITS CAN BE BAD ALSO AS SOME PERSONS ENGAGE IN THEFTS, FIGHTS, SOME ENGAGE IN CALLING BAD NAMES, SOME CREATE HATE AGAINST COMMUNITIES, NEIGHBOURS ETC. ETC. BUT VICES ARE NOT THE SAME, THESE ARE ALL BAD AND AFFECT THE HEALTH AND LIFE OF THE PERSONS CONCERNED WHICH CONSIST IN MOSTLY -SMOKING, DRINKING IN BIG QUANTITY AND DAILY, PLAYING CARDS WITH BETTING/GAMBLING ETC. ETC., BE IN ANGER ALL THE TIME, HATE CERTAIN PERSONS, COMMUNITIES ETC. ETC. -SMOKING HARMS THE BODY AND AFFECTS HEART OF THE PERSON CONCERNED. CAUSING HEART ATTACK ETC. -DRINKING TOO AFFECTS THE BODY, BESIDES BEING EXPENSIVE, ONE LOSES SENSES, AND BEHAVES IN ALL VULGAR AND UNBEARABLE BEHAVIOUR, BESIDES LOSING HIS/HER HEALTH AND LOSING PEACE IN THE FAMILY ETC. ETC. -CARD PLAYING AND BETTING/GAMBLING; CARD PLAYING PERHAPS COULD BE RELAXING FOR A SHORT TIME AND EVEN DAILY, IT IS NOT CONSIDERED TO BE WORST HABIT BUT BETTING SURELY IS ONE WHEREOF ONE DOES NOT KNOW WHETHER ONE WILL BE GAINING OR LOSING, LOSING IS SHOCKING, WHILE GAINING QUITE A HANDSOME MONEY IS DOLED OUT GENERALLY TO WAITERS, SERVICING PERSONS ETC. ETC. THOUGH THERE IS SOME SAVING, BUT GAIN CREATES THE HABIT AND MOSTLY SUCH PERSONS DESTROY THEIR HEALTH, RUIN THEIR PERSONAL LIFE AND MOSTLY RUN INTO DEBTS RESULTING IN END OF LIFE IN WORST CONDITIONS. -REMAINING IN ANGER ALL THE TIME AND EVEN TIME TO TIME IS NO GOOD AS NAGER IS LIKE FIRE, WHEN IT IS BUILT UP IN THE BODY, THE BODY SHAKES, ONE TREMBLES, IT BECOMES NECESSARY TO TAKE SOME REST AND GET TO NORMAL. SUCH PERSONS NEVER THINK OF NOR BELIEVE IN EXPLANATION, EITHER THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN, OR BELIEVE THAT BY GETTING ANGRY, THE PERSON CONCERNED WILL BEHAVE IN A DESIRED AND BETTER MANNER, PERHAPS IT MAY BE TRUE, BUT NEVER TO FORGET, SUCH A HABIT WILL DESTROY HEALTH OF THE ANGRY PERSON AND POSSIBLY, IF NOWHERE ELSE, IT WILL PEACE IN HOUSE ETC.. -LOSS OF CAPACITY TO BEAR SHOCKS BIG OR SMALL: IT BECOMES THE HABITS EVEN SMALL INCIDENTS CRATE TENSION IN THE MIND OF SUCH PERSONS, SHOCK CHANGES THEIR BEHAVIOUR NOT ONLY TO GET INTO TENSION, BUT BECOME ANGRY, ABUSE AND ACCUSE ONE OR EVERYONE FOR REASON OR NO REASON AT ALL . -AL0 SUCH PERSONS GET ENGULFED IN AND WITH PROBLEM, GET IMPATIENT, LOSE TEMPER AND NEVER THINK OF THAT THEY CAN FIND ANSWER ONLY WHEN THEY ARE IN PEACE AND ARE CALM. ANSWER REMAINS, NEVER ALLOW THE PROBLEM TO OVERPOWER YOU AND INSTEAD YOU OVERPOWR THE PROBLEM AND ENGAGE YOURSELF CALMLY AND PATIENTLY TO SEARCH THE ANSWER BY VISUALISING VARIOUS OPTIONS. ALAS SUCHANGRY PERSONS NEITHER BELIEVE IN IT NOR ACT IN THIS MANNER. -IRRITATION; IT CAN BE A SMALL THING BUT IT REFLECTS IN INSTANCES LIKE WHY YOU HAVE CHANGED THIS PHOTO FROM WHERE I HAD PLACED, FURNITURE ETC WHERE I HAD PLACED, WHAT SORT OF FOOD YOU ARE SERVING, IT IS RUBBISH AND IS UNEATABLE, SMALL TALK AND/OR A SMALL INCIDENT IRRITATATES SUCH PERSONS WITHOUT THINKING AS TO WHAT GOOD IT WILL BRING TO THEM WHY NOT TO EXPLAIN AND GET CHANGED, IT IS NEITHER IN THINKING NOR DO THEY AGREE. IRRITATION AFFECTS THE HEALTH OF THE PERSON CONCERNED ANNOYS ALSO THE PERSON WHO IS ACCUSED AND ABSUSED AND POSSIBLY NO ONE WOULD LIK TO COME NEAR TO SUCH AN IRRITATED PERSON NOR WILL CERTAINLY ALLOW SOMEONE TO BE WITH OR IN THE COMPANY OF HIM/HER. -TALK OF THE PAST, FAMILY, INLAWS, RELATIONS ETC. SUCH A HABIT BRINGS NOTHING EXCEPT ACCUSATIONS, FIGHTS, CONFLICTS IN FAMILY FRIENDS RELATIONS, ETC. ETC. AND DESTROYS PEACE OF MIND FOR THE PERSON CONCERNED AND FOR ALL THOSE AROUND. PAST IN FACT GIVES NOTHING, IT IS GONE BYE, GOOD OR BAD, RECALL DOES NOT BRING IN ANYTHING, EXCEPT SPOILING THE PRESENT IN ALL RESPECTS. NEVERTHELESS IF IT IS FELT THAT IS THOUGHT TO BE AN EXPERIENCE AND ITS USE COULD BE USEFULF AT PRESENT IT IS GOOD TO RECALL THE PAST AS IT WILL HELP TO SOLVE AND TIDE OVER THE ISSUE WHICH HAS HAPPENED IN THE SAME OR IN SIMILAR MANNER. LIKE THESE THERE WILL BE MANY OTHER INSTRANCES WHICH SPOIL PEACE OF MIND AND CREATE ILLWILL AND UNBEARING IN ALL THOSE WHO ARE RELATED AND ARE AFFECTED BY SUCH HABITS. THEN QUESTION ARISES AS TO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION AND HOW SUCH HABITS MUST BE ELEMINATED AND ERADICATED; 1. FIRST AND THE FOREMOST IS THE CONSCIOUSNESS AS WHAT AND HOW LOSS THESE VICES ARE CAUSING TO HIM/HER FINANCIALLY, IN HIS/HER BODY, ANNOYANCE AND DISTURBANCE IN THE FAMILY, NEGLECT OF WORK AND AS SUCH CHECKMATING HIS/HER PROGRESS, HEALTH GETS DETERIORATED ETC. ETC. BUT WHEN CHILDREN GET GROWN , FEEL THAT THEIR BEING POOR AND ALSO THE DISTURBANCE IN THEIR HOUSE ARE DUE TO THE SPECIFIC VICES OF THE FATHER/MOTHER, THEN THEY RESIST AND EMPLOY ALL SORT OF MEANS TO PERSUADE/FORCE THEIR FATHER/MOTHER TO STOP SUCH VICES. MARRIAGE OF THE CHILDREN: WHEN THE CHIDREN GET TO THE MARRIAGEABLE AGE THESE VICES OF FATHER/MOTHER ARE A BIG STUMBLING BLOCK TO GET INTO MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP BELIEVING FURTHER THAT THE CHID IN QUESTION FOR MARRIAGE, POSSIBLY ALSO IS HABITUATED WITH THESE VICES BUT HE/SHE IS HIDING AND WHEN MARRIED, THEIR DAUGHTER/ SON WILL FACE HORRIBLE CONSEQUENCES. AS SUCH THESE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS ARE ARE AVOIDED AND ALTERNATIVES ARE SEARCHED FOR. MEDICAL ADVICE; AS HEALTH STARTS DETERIORATING, ONE IS TO GET TO DOCTORS QUITE OFTEN, WHO OBSERVE THESE VICES AND ADVISE THEIR PATIENT TO LEAVE SUCH VICES AND IF NOT, WHAT MEDICINES THEY ARE GIVING AND MAKING ALL POSSIBLE EFFORTS, WILL BE TEMPORARY AND THE HEALTH WILL CONTINUE DETERIORATING. ABSENCE OF SOCIETY AND OLD FRIENDS; IT ALSO HAPPENS BY PASSAGE OF TIME, QUITE A FEW OF FRIENDS PASS AWAY AND/OR ENGAGED IN THEIR OWN FAMILY ISSUES AND ALSO POSSIBLY AVOID THE COMPANY OF THEIR OLD FRIENDS WITH VICES OF ALL SORTS. ENTERING AN OLD AGE OR INTO RETIREMENT, SHORTAGE OF FINANCIAL RESOURCES, DEPENDENCE IN HOUSE FOR ALL HIS/HER NEEDS ETC. DO FORCE ONE TO REALISE AND FEEL COMPELLED TO COMPARE HIS/HER CONDITION AT PRESENT COMPARED TO WHAT HE/SHE WAS AND WHAT HE/SHE IS NOW AS ALSO PERHAPS REALISING THAT WHERE AND HOW BETTER OFF ARE HIS OLD FRIENDS ETC. MOST OF THE VICES AS NARRATED ABOVE GENERALLY CONCERN THE MAN/HUSBAND, HARDLY TO THE WOMAN/WIFE, THE MAN/HUSBAND AFTER RETIREMENT AND/OR REMAINING ILL ALMOST ALL THE TIME, THE VICES WHATEVER THESE ARE, ARE CAUSING ENORMOUS FINANCIAL LOSS WHICH IN THE PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES ONE EITHER CAN’T AFFORD OR FEELS COMPELLED TO USE THIS MONEY FOR THE NEEDS OF THE FAMILY RATHER THAN ON HIM ETC.ETC. STATE OF OLD AGE IS NOT THE SAME AS THAT OF LIVING IN YOUTH WITH ALL FINANCIAL RESOURCES, FREEDOM OR COMPULSION TO MOVE IN FREE MOVEMENT AND BE IN THE SOCIETY OF ONE’S LIKING, AS OLD AGE DOES ONE REALISE THAT BY THE VICES, ONE HAS LOST HIS FUTURE IN PROGRESS AS ALSO HAS LOST NOT ONLY PEACE IN THE HOUSE BUT RESPECT ALSO. THERE COULD ALSO BE MANY OTHER SITUATIOS WHICH FORCE ONE TO THINK AND REALISE AS TO WHAT AND HOW ONE HAS SUFFERED FINANCIALLY, IN HEALTH, IN REPUTATION ETC. FINALLY AS SUCH THOSE WHO AFTER REALISING THE EFFECT OF VICES AND GETTING CONSCIOUS AS WELL DO MAKE EFFORT TO STOP SUCH VICES BUT QUITE A FEW OR MANY FAIL IN THEIR ENDEAVOUR DESPITE THEIR REALISATIN, DEPLETION OF FINANCIAL RESOURCES. DEPENDENCE IN HOUSE ETC. SOME WHO ARE FULLY DETERMINED AND CONVINCED DO MANAGE TO LEAVE MANY WHO ARE LESS WILLED, REDUCE THE USE OF SUCH VICES NEVERTHESE THE NEED AND REALISATION DO HAPPEN WHEN ONE GETS CONSCIOUS THAT BY THESE VICES ONE HAS LOST HIS HEALTH, PROGRESS, FINANCIAL RESOURCES, REPUTATION IN SOCIETY AND FAMILY, ONE DOES MAKE ALL EFFORTS, SOME WHO ARE DIE HARD DO SUCCEED WHILE WEAK ONES IN WILL AND DETERMINATION SUCCEED TO REDUCE SUCH VICES DEFINITELY TO SOME EXTENT. FINALLY IT IS CONSCIOUS, IN WHATEVER CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATION IT MAY DEVELOP OR COME ABOUT, ADDED WITH DETERMINATION, WHICH HELPS ONE TO LEAVE VICES OR AT LEASE REDUCE THESE. BY VASDEVLOOND CONTACTS; 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com- -