Stress, reasons and answers thereof

 Is it not a fact that it passes off with most of the persons in old age, in stress, strain, regrets, conflicts, loss of freedom, ill-health, grumbling, cursing one's fate and what not, hardly a few live old age in happiness in family and around. Why it is so, what are the reasons? 1. ill-health causes irritation and grumbling 2. family conflicts become taxing 3. relationship with children and their behaviour 4. deception in hopes and dreams 5. pre-mature death of one of the partners in couple and to live alone thereafter 6. being left alone uncared for 7, no specific activity and/or compelled to do jobs unliked and/or hated ones 8. none or least of the friends left to chat and relax etc. etc. THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER IT IS NATURAL OR THERE IS SOME ANSWER. Of course, there are answers: 1. most important is to change oneself in thinking and behaviour 2. accept life as it has come about 3. old age phenomenon happens with everyone when one becomes weak in health, submission and acceptance become most important and are essentially to be accepted and to pass these off as natural part of life. 4. to believe and get convinced that old age has its shortcomings and has also advantages, it is left to one how he/she moulds oneself to fit in the situations in whatever manner these happen, the earliest one transforms, changes one's habits and attitudes, the happier one will tend to live and enjoy old age. tks