Some time we feel fully shattered fully frustrated, get into bad mood and do not know what to do.Some time we feel fully shattered fully frustrated, get into bad mood and do not know what to do.
SOME TIME WE FEEL FULLY SHATTERED, FULLY FRUSTRATED GET INTO BAD MOOD AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO.
TRUE IT HAPEENS ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE DOES GET THE
RESULT AFTER WHOLE DAY TOIL AND STRUGGLE.
-IN SUCH A SITUATION, THE ANSWER REMAINS TO DIVERT
ONE’S ATTENTION TO SOME THING ELSE
-STILL BETTER TO GET AWAY FROM THAT SITUATION AND
GET TO SOME RESTAURANT, COFFEE HOUSE, CINEMA OR
TO A MALL JUST TO STROLL AROUND, DIVERT ATTENTION,
RELAX PERHAPS AND GET BACK FULLY TIRED, GET TO SLEEP
AND AS SUCH FORGET WHAT HAPPENED,
-AND ON NEXT DAY TO START ANEW WITH NEW EFFORTS,
NEW MOOD, AND PERHAPS WITH NEW SOLUTIONS.
-BESIDES IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ANALYSE THE CAUSES WHY YOUR
MISSION AND EFFORTS FAILED
-AND NOW WHAT COULD BE THE SOLUTION
-WHETHER TO PURSUE IT OR TO FORGET IT
-AND TAKE TO SOME OTHER JOB OR ACTIVITY.
-THEN QUESTION ARISES WHEN ONE SHOULD GET FRUSTRATED
WHETHER TO CONTINUE WITH IT
-THERE IS NO DOUBT, WITH FAILURE DEFINITELY FRUSTRATION DOES
HAPPEN, IT IS TOTALLY UNAVOIDABLE
-BUT DO ENSURE THAT IS A TEMPORARY ONE AND NEVER ALLOW IT
TO CONTINUE AND CURB YOUR FUTURE THINKING, MOTIVATION
AND EFFORTS THEREFOR.
-HOWEVER SOME NEVER FORGET, SOME TRY BUT ARE NOT ABLE
TO GET OVER
-TRUE, IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT WAS THE SUBJECT AND NOT HAVING
SUCCEEDED, WHAT CONSEQUENCE IT WILL BRING ABOUT
-IF THE SUBJECT IS SO SERIOUS WITH DIRE CONSEQUENCES,
-BETTER TO GET TO BE ALONE
-AS OTHERWISE ANGER AND SHOUTING WILL HAPPEN TO SOMEONE
WITHOUT HIS/HER FAULT
-ALSO BESIDES BEING ALONE. WILL ALSO GIVE THE CHANCE TO THINK OVER,
REFLECT ON REASON, AND POSSIBLY DIG OUT VARIOUS OPTIONS AND
FUTURE COURSE OF ACTION
-FURTHER IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT SOME TIME THE WORK/SUBJECT IS
NOT PERMITTED UNDER THE RULES AND REGULATIONS
-THEN IT IS BETTER TO MAKE ALL EFFORTS
-BUT NEVER GET DISMAYED AND DEMOTIVATED
-BELIEVE IN THAT YOU DID ALL EFFORTS PERHAPS SOME SOLUTION
COULD BE FOUND
-AND IF IT DID NOT HAPPEN, YOU KNEW IT FROM THE START ITSELF
THAT THERE WAS NO POSSIBILITY, BUT IN YOUR BELIEF, SOME TINGE
HOPE WAS STILL LEFT, HENCE THE EFFORT WAS INITIATED
-AS IN SUCH A SITUATION, WHEN A PERSON KNOWS ALREADY,
-THERE WILL NEVER HAPPEN DEJECTION AND POSSIBLY ONE WILL NOT
GET DISHEARTENED.
-SOME TIME PERHAPS, FAMILY PROBLEMS MAY CROP UP AND FOR WHICH
THERE IS HESITATION TO JUMP TO SOLUTION, BEING AFRAID OF SHOUTS
ACCUSATIONS, AND ESTRANGEMENT/BREAK OF RELATIONS AS WELL.
-IT IS THE MOST TICKLISH AND TROUBLESOME SITUATION. NOT ONLY ONE’S
MOOD WILL BE OFF, ONE WILL GET FULLY FRUSTRATED, MAYBE SOME TIME
THINK ALSO LET THEM FIGHT AS THEY WANT, I HAVE DONE A LOT, IF STILL
INSTEAD OF APPRECIATING ALL MY STRUGGLES AND SACRIFICES THEY DO NOT
BOTHER, LET ME FORGET THEM AND LET THEM FACE THE CONSEQUENCES AS
THEY WISHFOR.
-TRUE, ALL SUCH FEELINGS DO COME IN, BUT EMOTIONS AND LOVE DO NOT
PERMIT ONE TO LEAVE THE SITUATION BOILING, ONE DOES JUMP IN TO
FIND SOLUTION IRRESPECTIVE OF THAT THERE MAY BE ACCUSATIONS,
SHOUTINGS, AND PERHAPS ABSUSES OF ALL SORTS
-AS SUCH, IN SUCH A SITUATION WHICH HAS CREATED PANIC AND GREAT
DISTURBANCE IN ONE’S MIND, DESPITE THAT IF ONE DEFINITELY BELIEVES
THAT IF HE/SHE AVOIDS TO TAKE DECISION, THEN SUCH DISPUTES WILL
MOUNT TO BIGGER DIMENSIONS, WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN SUCH A SITUATION
THEREAFTER, ONLY GOD KNOWS, CERTAINLY HE/SHE WILL NOT BE AFRAID OF
THE CONSEQUENCES. ONE WILL GET TO THE ISSUE(S), LISTEN, KEEP PATIENCE
BY ALL MEANS, AND THUS BY LISTENING TO EACH ONE, SOME SORT OF
COMPROMISE WILL DEFINITELY HAPPEN, IF ONE OR TWO DO NOT GET
SATISFIED, MAKE FURTHER EFFORTS TO PERSUADE THEM, IF NOTHING
HAPPENS, THEN LEAVE THEM WITH THEIR THINKING, IT IS POSSIBLE THAT
AFTER SOME TIME WHEN THEIR TEMPERS WILL COOL DOWN, PERHAPS
THEY WILL UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THE SOLUTION AS SUGGESTED.
-BUT DO ENSURE THAT EACH ONE IS LISTENED AND EXPLAINED SEPARATELY
NEVER TALK OR DISCUSS WHEN ALL ARE TOGETHER, AS THAT COULD CREATE
A CHAOTIC AND UNCONTROLLABLE SITUATION.
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In short there could arise many situations which will be frustrating and
disgusting one. In such a situation. if one leaves the situation without a
solution, in all probability it will aggravate and create unsurmountable
consequences. Hence it is essential that whatever and howsoever the
mood may be, one has necessarily to get over through some of the ways
I have suggested above and there could be many more as well. ESSENTIAL
NEVER LEAVE THE SITUATION IN TURMOIL AND/OR PENDING, MUST TAKE
TO DECISION AS OTHERWISE THE CONSEQUENCES COULD MOSTLY BE DIRE
ONES.
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