SUNAMI IS COMING FAST, DEAR MEN YOU NEED TO BE AWARE, VIGILANT AND TAKE PRECAUTIONS. SUNAMI IN SEA WE EXPERIENCED, THOSE WHO TOOK PRECAUTIONS, MOVED FROM THE PLACES OF ABODE AND WORK, WERE SAVED WHILE THOSE WHO DID NOT BOTHER WERE DESTROYED AND SWEPT AWAY. SUNAMI OF WOMEN'S RIGHT IS MOVING FAST, MEN NEED TO BE AWARE AND ADAPT ACCORDINGLY. NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT BECAUSE OF PHYSIQUE, ECONOMIC POWER, PARENTS UPBRINGING AND ADVICE, RITUALS, ALL THESE CULTIMANATED AND FORCED WOMEN INTO OBEDIENCE AND ACCEPTANCE OF COERCIION BY MEN OF ALL SORTS AND BY ALL MEANS. WOMEN EMPOWERMENT, SOCIAL ORGANISATIONS AND MEDIA HAVE DONE A LOT TO ENLIGHTEN WOMEN THAT THEY ARE ALSO HUMAN BEINGS LIKE MEN AND AS SUCH PHYSICAL WEAKNESS SHOULDN'T BE TAKEN TO SUBMISSION AND ACCEPTANCE OF ALL WHATEVER MEN SAY AND DICTATE. WOMEN AS SUCH HAVE GONE TO SCHOOLS, COLLEGES, IN CO-EDUCATIONS AS EQUALS, HVE SHINED UP ALL ALMOST IN ALL FIELDS WHICH USED TO BE MONOPOLISED BY MEN. THIS ECONOMIC POWER, CONFIDENCE AND REALITY THAT WOMEN ARE NO LESS INTELLIGENT THAN MEN AND THAT THEY ARE CAPABLE TO PERFORM AND IN CERTAIN CASES EVEN EXCEL OVER THE MEN. FEAR AND SHYNESS BEING A WOMAN ARE GONE BY AND ARE THE TALES AND NARRATIONS OF THE PAST AND THAT NOW WE SEE WOMEN COMBATTING WITH MEN IN FIGHTS AND IN COMPETITIONS. NO WONDER THERE WAS A TIME WHEN WIFE USED TO WAIT FOR THE HUSBAND TO SERVE FOOD AND EAT TOGETHER IRRESPECTIVE OF HOW LATE THE HUSBAND WAS COMING, NEVER CALLED THE HUSBAND BY NAME, GIRLS WERE EFFACING THEIR PARENTAL SURNAME AND WERE ADOPTING HUSBAND SURNAME INSTEAD, IN BELIEF THAT SHE WAS OBLIGED TO FORGET HER PAST AND NOT ONLY TO GET SETTLED WITH HER HUSBAND AND WITH HER INLAWS AS WELL AND CARRY HER HUSBAND'S SURNAME FORWARD. NO WONDER ALL THIS HAS CHANGED A LOT AS WE FIND NOW THAT GIRLS ARE CARRYING THE SURNAME OF THEIR PARENTS AND ADDING SURNAME OF THEIR HUSBAND, WOMEN TRAVEL ALONGWITH MEN,WORK TOGETHER IN WORKPLACES, AND AS FOR MARRIAGE IS CONCERNED, THE CHOICE AND MONOPOLY OF MAN EXISTS NO MORE, NOW WOMEN/GIRLS ALSO DECIDE LIKE MEN/BOYS WHETHER TO GET INTO WEDLOCK WITH THE SO-CALLED BOY OR NOT. ALSO WE FIND THAT DOWRY SYSTEM IS WADING AWAY OR EXISTS NO MORE FOR THE WORKING GIRLS. THIS CHANGE IS NOT GOING TO STOP HERE AND IT IS POSSIBLE THAT AFTER MARRIAGE WIFE WILL CONTINUE CARRYING HER PARENTAL SURNAME LIKE THE BOY, WILL INSIST FOR MICRO UNITS LIVING, TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN FROM BIRTH TILL THE CHILD GETS ADULT, TO SHARE ALL REQUIREMENTS AND RESPONSIBILITIES TOGETHER AS EQUAL PARTNERS. IT IS THEREFORE ESSENTIAL THAT MEN NEED TO ACCEPT THIS CHANGE AND LIVE WITH IT ACCEPTING THAT WOMEN ARE HUMAN BEINGS LIKE MEN, ARE IN NO WAY LESS THAN MEN IN ALL FIELDS OF LIFE, ABANDON GENDER BIAS, TALK, CONVERSE, AND ACCEPT EACH OTHER BY EACH ONE'S QUALITIES AND MANNERS AS EACH ONE IS, WITHOUT KEEPING AN IODATA OF THINKING THAT WOMEN BEFORE AND AFTER MARRIAGE ARE A WEAKER AND DEPENDENT GENDER, AND THOSE WHO WHO WILL ADAPT AND ACCEPT THIS CHANGE, THINK AND ACT IN EQUALITY BUT OF COURSE DECIDING DIVISION OF WORK AND RESPECT EACH ONE IN HIS/HER SPHERE AND EXTEND HELPING HAND WHEN ONE IS NOT ABLE TO COPE WITH HIS/HER RESPONSIBILITIES, IS NOT WELL OR IS TIRED. CONCLUSION; TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE, MAN NEEDS TO ACCEPT AND ADAPT TO THE CHANGED ENVIRONMENT AND EXTEND RESPECT AND DO ALL AS EQUALS WITH WOMEN AND THOSE WHO WILL NOT, WILL GET SWEPT AWAY IN LIFE LIKE SUNAMI IN THE SEA WHICH DESTROYED ALL THOSE WHO DIDN'T REALISE THE STRENGTH AND FORCE OF SUNAMI IN THE SEA. ................................................................. envisioned and narrated by vasdevloond founder of marriage guidance new concept cost free marriage burea NGO, to contact vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www.facebook.com