SHOULD ONE WHEN LEAVING A PARTY. FAMILY, BUSINESS, FRIENDS, GIVE REASONS AND THOSE IN PUBLIC, I WILL SAY NO, NOT AT ALL. -QUESTION ARISES WHY I SHOULD SAY NO AS IT IS THE RIGHT OF EACH AND EVERY INDIVIDUAL TO VENT HIS/HER GRIEVANCES AND GIVE REASONS OF HIS/HER UNHAPPINESS. -TRUE IT IS THE RIGHT OF EVERYONE BUT WHEN ONE DECIDES TO LEAVE, IS IT ESSENTIAL TO CLARIFY AND ELABORATE HIS/HER GRIEVANES OF ALL SORTS. -IN REPLY I WILL SAY AND FIRMLY I WILL WAY SAY NO, AS ONCE ONE HAS DECIDED TO QUIT, BY GIVING REASONS FOR QUITING, I THINK BY EXPRESSING ONE'S VENGENCE AND ALSO TO HURT THE ORGANISATION, FAMILY, BUSINESS, FRIENDS ETC. WHERE ONE HAS BEEN A PARTY AND HAS LIVED OR WORKED WITH THEM FOR SOME TIME.. PERHAPS THERE COULD BE ENORMOUS REASONS, FOR EXAMPLE, IDEOLOGY HAS CHANGED, TOP HIERARCHY HAS CHANGED AND ONE CANNOT GO ALONG ANY MORE AND PERHAPS FEELS HURT ALSO, FINDS BETRAYAL BY FRIENDS, BUSINESS ASSOCIATES ETC. ETC., -QUESTION ARISES AS TO HOW THE AGGRIVED PERSON DEALS WITH THE SITUATION, IN EXTREME AFTER EXPLANATIONS, DEMONSTRATING HIS/HER UNHAPPINESS, NOTHING HAPPENED TO HIS/HER SATISFACTION. FINALLY ONE DECIDES TO LEAVE, WHAT SHOULD BE LAST ACTION BY THE AGGRIEVED PERSON. -IN MY VIEW, HE/SHE SHOULD GIVE HIS/HER RESIGNATION AND QUIT TO GO OVER WHERE ONE DECIDES AND WHEN ONE DECIDES -FINALLY IN RESPONSE TO MY SAYING FIRMLY NO, I THINK BY GIVING REASONS: -ONE IS TRYING TO HURT THE ORGANISATION, FAMILY,FRIENDS, POLITICAL PARTY, RELIGIOUS ORGANISATION ETC. AND AS SUCH IS ENTRING INTO CONTROVERSIES, IN JUSTIFICATION AND QUESTIONING. -PERHAPS ONE THINKS THAT ONE IS SO MUCH AGGRIEVED THAT ONE CANNOT BEAR IT ANY MORE, HENCE IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT ONE MUST VENTILATE AND EXPRESS HIS/HER ANGER AND THUS BY SUCH EXPRESSION, ONE FEELS RELIEVED PERHAPS IN REVENGE. -TRUE, BUT I THINK, ONE NEEDS TO EXPRESS REASONS IN A LETTER MAIL ETC. AND GET AWAY, AND AS SUCH LET THE ORGANISATION, PARTY, FAMILY ETC. STUDY THE REASONS AND REALISE THEIR MISTATES, AND CORRECT THE SITUATION BY CALLING HIM/HER AND EXPRESSING THEIR REGRET FOR WHAT HAD HAPPENED, -AND IF THEY DO NOT CARE, THEN ONCE ONE HAS LEFT, IT IS BETTER TO FORGET THAT HAPPENING/EPISODE AND GET BUSY WITH HIS/HER FUTURE COURSE OF ACTION. -TRUE, ON MAY GET INTO ACTION FOR FURTHER COURSE, BUT HOW IT IS POSSIBLE AND IS ACCEPTABLE THAT FOR YEARS ONE HAS BEEN PREACHING HIS/HER IDEOLOGY, THINKING, LINE OF ACTION AND HAD BEEN CRITISING HIS/HER OPPONENTS, AND IF ONE DOES THAT THEN THE CONCLUSION ONE DEDUCES, AND/OR APPREHENSION DEVELOPS THAT SUCH AND SUCH PERSON WHO HAS RESIGNED, HAS RESIGNED FOR HIS/HER PERSONAL INTERESTS AS ONE HAS BEEN FEALING THAT CIRCUMSTANES AND ENVIRONTMENTS HAVE CHANGED, AND THAT IT NOT POSSIBLE FOR HIM/HER TO CONTINUE ANY MORE. -in conclusion, I will say, reasons if one decided to give, one must put those as confidential and thereafter just leave than giving reasons to colleagues, friends, other members of the family, organisation etc. to justify one's action, practically with no gain, except to express anger and vengence, which I think need to be avoided and all efforts are done to concentrate on one's future course of action. ..................................................................... ENVISIONED AND EXPRESSED BY VASDEVLOOND 9811943867 VASDEVLOOND@GMAIL.COM