SHOULD ONE THINK ANTI, TALK ANTI AND FIGHT ANTI, IF SO, WHY?


11 August 2024 12:12

SHOULD ONE THINK ANTI, TALK ANTI AND FIGHT ANTI, IF SO WHY? -In reply, the answer is, none is good, just waste of time, then the question arises, why it so happens and why these are so current. THINK ANTI: -personal interests, jealousies and worst relations parental, personal, damaged relations are the causes generally current. -TALK ANTI -it is but natural when we think anti, whenever we find an opportunity, or find some sympathizer or who is interested to know and help perhaps, or thinks if someone is disturbed, if he/she will talk over, he/she will be relieved of stress. -ANTI FIGHT: -when a situation gets aggravated and intolerable, one takes to fight individually, in groups, in courts, and explores all types of measures and means with the idea to finish him/her off and if not, destroy and injure him/her that hereafter he/she is not able to raise his/her head nor is left with any means to take revenge. QUESTING ARISES WHY WE SHOULD TALK ANTI, THINK ANTI AND ACT ANTI. Let it not be forgotten when we think anti, talk anti or act anti, we develop anti feelings, verbal or physical or both. NOW THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER ANTI TALK, ANTI THINKING AND ANTI ACTION DO SUCH BEHAVIOURS BRING ANY GAIN? NO NOT AT ALL, after engaging in all these behaviours, when one is left alone, It is but natural, reflection does happen whereby one thinks what one has gained by accusation, fight etc. maybe just wasted time and perhaps has aggravated the situation It is a fact when one is faced with the same or similar situation and/or happens to be in front of his/her so-called foe face to face, one forgets this thinking and instead gets enraged, behaves in the same manner as before and/or perhaps more drastic and brutal in action. IF EVERY TIME SUCH A SITUATION HAPPENS, THEN WHAT IS THE COURSE LEFT TO AVOID SUCH A SITUATION In answer, thinking about that it is better to change the environments and get to some other place where there is no contact not only with this foe but all those well- wishers, friends and groups as well. As such a step will involve financial strain, be away from relations, perhaps from the family and in fact uprooting oneself completely, it is not easy to take such a decision unless the situation has reached to an extreme one and there is disturbance and worries all the time. Further such an act will expose one to weakness and cowardice in the eyes of all so-called well-wishers, friends, relations, groups etc., which action generally no one will take except in extreme and eventually after being counseled by the family members. NOW AFTER HAVING EXPLORED ALL THE POSSIBILITIES AND ALTERNATIVES, IF NO EFFECTIVE AND FRUITFUL RESULT HAS HAPPENED, THEN WHAT IS THE LAST COURSE LEFT TO GET OVER THIS ROUTINE, UNENDING AND HORRIBLE SITUATION. Conclusion: to my mind it appears, anti thinking, anti talk, anti behaviour, anti action and eventually to engage into fight practically gives no gain, rather makes one worried, causes waste of time ,loss of financial resources, remaining busy in reflecting all the time as to how to turn counter offensive etc, BY ALL SUCH THINKING AND ACTS, ONE GETS NO GAIN AT ALL, INSTEAD LOSES A LOT IF NOTHING ELSE, PEACE OF MIND ESSENTIALLY. IN ALTERNATIVE IF ONE DECIDES TO FORGET, AVOID AND EVEN IF EVER COMING ACROSS, JUST TO TAKE HIS/HER WAY WILL BE BEST ANSWER TO ALL TENSIONS AND AGGRAVATION OF THE SITUATION. IT IS HUMAN NATURE IF ONE REPEATS ONE’S ACTIONS AND THE OTHER PERSON DOES NOT REACT, MOSTLY THE ONE WHO WAS KEEPING REVENGE FOR WHATEVER REASONS IT MAY BE, WILL HUMBLE DOWN AND WILL SATISFY HIMSELF/HERSELF IN SATISFACTION THAT HE IS THE WINNER AND HAS FINALLY ACHIEVED WHAT HE/SHE WANTED. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. INTERESTED FOR COLLABORATION. CONTACTL9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com