SHOULD ONE HAVE CHILDREN OR NOT? -IT IS AN EMOTIONAL URGE WITH BOY AND THE GIRL TO HAVE CHILDREN, IF NOT MORE AT LEAST ONE -THOUGH CHILD/CHILDREN GIVE RESPONSIBILITY BUT THE CHILD/CHILDREN DO NECESSITATE TO WORK HARD AND HARD TO DISCHARGE THESE ADDITIONAL RESPONSIBIITIES -AS ALSO TO FULFIL THE AMBITIONS AND GOAL WHICH THE PARENTS WERE NOT ABLE TO ACHIEVE -ALSO HARLDLY ONE WANTS TO GIVE AWAY WHAT ONE HAS EARNED DURING LIFE TIME, IT IS THE WISH AND ENDEAVOUR OF EACH AND EVERY PARENT TO HAVE SOMEONE OF HIS/HER/THEIR OWN TO LEAVE HIS/HER/THEIR EARNING TO MINE AND THERE FALLS THE CHOICE OF ONE’S OWN CHILD/CHILDREN -HENCE EMERGES THE URGE AND NEED TO HAVE CHILD/CHILDREN -FURTHER AFTER A FEW YEARS, THE COUPLE LIFE BECOMES NOT ONLY A ROUTINE BUT MONOTONOUS AND MOSTLY TAKES TO DISCUSSIONS, CLASHES AND CONFLICTS ETC. -BESIDES MOTHER’S, PARENTS’ WISH AND INSISTENCE ON BOTH SIDES AS ALSO SOCIETY DO OBLIGE TO GO INTO HAVING CHID/CHILDREN -BESIDES THOSE WHO HAVE CHILD/CHILDREN DESPITE HAVING RESPONSIBILITIES ENJOY LIFE BETTER THAN THOSE WHO DO NOT HAVE CHILD/CHILDRE -THE CHID/CHILDREN BECOME THE SOURCE OF LOVE TO GET RID OF MONOTOUS AND CONFLICTING COUPLE LIFE -THE QUESTION ARISES WHEN SO ARE THE URGE, NEED AND INFLUENCE, THEN WHY QUITE NUMBER OF BOYS AND GIRLS BELIEVE BETTER NOT TO HAVE CHILDREN. -SUCH A THINKING IS EMERGING DUE TO: -BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE WORKING WHICH CREATES STRESS A LOT -MARRIAGE HAS BECOME VERY TRICKY AND UNRELIABLE -BOTH BEING EARNERS, WORKING HARD FOR PROGRESS IN ALL WALKS OF LIFE ADDED WITH HARDSHIP IN TRAVEL ETC. LEAVES THE LEAST TIME TO RELAX, GET EMOTIONAL, LOVING ETC. TO HAVE A CHILD/CHILDREN -REMAINING TENSED ALMOST ALL THE TIME WITH PRESENT DAY RESPONSIBILITIES AND UNCERTAINTAINTY OF JOB FURTHER ENCOURAGE THE BOYS AND GIRLS BETTER NOT TO HAVE CHILD/CHILDREN -FINANCIAL POSITION, STATUS, TEMPTATION FOR PROGRESS. CONFLICTS AND CLASHES BETWEEN THE COUPLE TEMPT -THE BOY AND THE GIRL TO LOOK TO SOME ALTERNATIVE -FATIGUE DOES DEVELOP BETWEEN THE COUPLE AFTER SOME YEARS -HENCE TO SEARCH AND ENJOY WITH OTHER COMPANIONS DEVELOP THE WISH AND URGE THEREAFTER. -FURTHER MOST THE FEMALES THINK, SO LONG AS SHE IS HEALTHY AND BEAUTIFUL, SHE WILL REMAIN IN DEMAND BY MEN FOLK -AND AS TO GIVE BIRTH TO A CHILD MOSTLY AFFECTS AND DESHAPES FEMALE’S BODY, ADDED WITH HARD TIME TO SPEND DURING PREGNANCY, THE FEMALE PREFERS NOT TO HAVE A CHILD/ CHILDREN -BESIDES ALL THESE, SOCIETY HAS TURNED OUT TO BE AN OPEN SOCIETY. TO LIVE ALONE AND ENJOY LIFE AS ONE WISHES IS PREFERED THAN BEING BOUND TO ONE MALE OR FEMALE ALL THE TIME -INSECURITY OF MARRIED LIFE AND ADDED WITH ITS COMPLICATIONS FOR RELATONSHIP WITH PARENTS ON BOTH SIDES TO HANDLE, FURTHER COMPLICATED BY HIDDEN DESIRES OF GIFTS, DOWRIES ETC. AND INHERITANCE AS WELL, ALL SUCH REALITIES DO ENCOURAGE THE BOY AND THE GIRL BETTER TO LIVE ALONE AND ENJOY THEIR LIFE AS BEST ON THEIR OWN AS THEY CAN -FURTHER AS NEITHER MALE NOR FEMALE WANTS TO LOSE HIS/HER FREEDOM AND BE QUESTIONED, CRITICISED, COMMANDED IN ANY MANNER, SUCH A THINKING AND ATTITUDE ARE CAUSING THE DESIRE BOTH WITH BOY AND GIRL BETTER TO LIVE ON THEIR OWN THAN DEPEND AND RELY ONE EACH OTHER. -PRESENT INVENTIONS OF ALL TYPES OF CONTRACEPTIVES HAVE ALSO ALLOWED AND ENCOURGED THE BOY AND GIRL BETTER TO LIVE ALONE BY HIMSELF AND HERSELF. -TRUE, ALL THIS THINKING OF LIVING ALONE HAS SOME MERITS - BUT ALL THESE STAND TRUE SO LONG AS ONE IS YOUNG - NEVERTHELESS THERE DO DEVELOP WHEN SUCH LIVING ALONE THINKERS - GET FED UP TO OWN HOUSEHOLD RESPONSIBILITIES ALL ALONE -EXPERIENCE CHEATS AND MISCHIEFS WITH SUCH BOYS AND GIRLS OF LONE THINKERS -FINDING NONE TO TRUST AND SHARE HIS/HER WOES -AND WHEN REACHING THE OLD AGE AS SUCH -RESULT IN REGRETS, REMAIN ALONE DISGUSTED AND DISSIPATED -THOUGH SOME TAKE TO OLD AGE HOUSES.DHARAMSHALAS ETC. TO LIVE IN AND PASS THEIR LIFE IN SOME SORT OF LOOSE AND BROKEN TOGETHERNESS, COMPELS THE LONE THINKERS TO REMAIN AND LIVE IN LIFE FULL OF MISERIES AND IN THINKING -WITH WHOM TO LEAVE ALL WHAT THEY HAVE EARNED -EVEN WORSE THAN THIS THE VERY THINKING THAT WHEN I WILL DIE I WILL BE THROWN AWAY MERCILOUSLY JUST LIKE A GARBAGE -THERE WILL BE NONE TO TAKE CARE OF MY DEAD BODY AND ENGAGE N ALL TYPES OF RITES AND RITUALS -FINALLY MY IDENTITY AND EXISTANCE WILL GET WIPED OFF FOR EVER HENCE WITH ALL THESE PROS AND CONS OF MARRYING OR LIVING ALONE. ONE NEEDS TO KNOW AS TO WHAT SHOULD BE DONE AND WHAT COULD BE THE BEST ANSWER TO LIVE REASONABLY AN ENJOYABLE LIFE. CONCLUSIONS; 1. ONE MUST MARRY 2. ONE MUST HAVE CHILD/CHILDREN 3. IN ORDER NOT TO HAVE CONFLICTS WITH CHILDREN SOONER OR LATER IT WILL BE A BLISS -IF THE CHILD/CHILDREN LIVE A BIT AWAY IN THE SAME CITY/TOWN ETC ON THEIR OWN -AND PARENTS LIVE APART ON THEIR OWN -SUCH AN ARRANGEMENT WILL AVOID CONFLICTS AND MISUNDERSTANDINGS A LOT -FINALLY THIS ARRANGEMENT AS SUCH WILL ALLOW BOTH THE CHILD/CHILDREN AND PARENTS TO LIVE IN PEACE, LOVE, CARE AND WITH RESPOSIBILITIES PERHAPS AS AND WHEN NEED ARISES AND URGE TO MEET EACH OTHER FROM TIME TO TIME DEVELOPS TO BREAK MONOTONY AND TO SHARE THEIR PRESENT AND PAST EXPERIENCES. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. INTERESTED FOR COLLABORATION. CONTACTL9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com