RECIPICE FOR ALL PROBLEMS, WHAT A WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE AND CITATION FOR ALL FRIENDS TO BENEFIT FROM MY EXPERIENCE BE PATIENT AND QUITELY REFLECT AS TO HOW AND WHAT PROMPTED TO CREATE THIS PROBLEM, IT IS FOREMOST ESSENTIAL TO GET TO THE ANSWER, SUPPOSE SOMEONE GETS EXTREMELY ANGREE WITH YOU AND CALLS NAMES OF ALL SORTS. 1. ONE AND QUICK ANSWER REMAINS TO RETALIATE 2. THE OTHER COMES TO ONE'S MIND WHY IT IS THAT I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING WRONG, WHY I AM BEING ACCUSED FOR NO FAULT OF MINE, SHOULD I GET TO EXPLAIN, NOT AT ALL, BURST WILL BECOME MORE STRONGER AND ANNOYANCE WILL ALSO GET STRONGER, AVOID EXPLANATION AND LET THE ANGRY PERSON CALM DOWN 3. REFLECT AND BE PATIENT BY THINKING, PERHAPS THE ANGRY PERSON WAS VERY MUCH DISTURBED BY ALTERCATION WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND WHEN I HAPPEN TO BE THERE AFTER THAT INCIDENT, THE ANGER WAS AT ITS EXTREME, HENCE A WORD FROM ME PROVOKED THE ANGRY PERSON TO BURST AT ME. 4. ESSENTIAL TO REFLECT ON DID I NOT SAY OR DO ANYTHING WRONG TO ANNOY THE ANGRY PERSON. 1-3 NEED PATIENCE AND ALLOW THE ANGEY PERSON TO CALM DOWN WHILE THE 4TH ONE NEEDS TO SEARCH FOR THE REASON AND IF I FIND THAT I AM GUILTY, I MUST BE READY TO REGRET AND APOLOGISE FOR MY MISTAKE, CAUTION, ONLY WHEN THE ANGRY PERSON HAS CALMED DOWN AND IS ALSO IN A LISTENING MOOD. conclusion. hence instead of getting to retaliation, better keep patience and reflect on causes as to why the angry person bursted on me and then decide on my action and behaviour. tks vasdevloond