REAL LIFE AND BEHAVIOUR AROUND, HOW TO MANAGE 4-1-24


04 January 2024 09:22

REAL LIFE AND BEHAVIOUR AROUND HOW TO MANAGE. -IN REAL LIFE, ONE NEEDS TO LISTEN TO OTHERS -ADJUST AS MUCH AS ONE CAN -COOPERATE ETC.ETC. -THE QUESTION ARISES, -SHOULD ONE BEHAVE IN THE MANNER -WHICH PLEASES OTHERS OR ONE SHOULD -KEEP UP ONE’S OWN PERSONALITY AND -ONE’S OWN VIEWS, ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR -I FEEL ONE MUST ACCOMMODATE OTHERS -IN ORDER NOT TO ANNOY OR GET INTO CONFLICT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, RATHER TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT POSSIBLE -BUT WHEN ONE FEELS SUFFOCATED -AND ALSO FEELS THAT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH -IN SUCH AN EXTREME SITUATION -SELDOM AND RARELY ONE MUST EXERT ONE’S VIEWS CLEARLY AND EMPHATICALLY -SUCH SITUATIONS CAN HAPPEN ONLY -WHEN ONE GETS HURT, DISRESPECTED OR DISGRACED ETC. -DESPITE ALL THESE ACTS OF PROVOCATIONS -IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT ESSENTIALLY ONE KEEPS UP ONE’S PATIENCE, NEVER THINKS OF RETALIATION, -RATHER INSTEAD KEEPS LISTENING ATTENTIVELY, MANAGES TO BE UNRESPONSIVE -BUT IF INSISTED -ONE MUST POLITELY AND GENTLY CONVEY THAT ONE IS NOT IN A MOOD AT THE MOMENT TO DISCUSS IT FURTHER -AND SHALL DISCUSS IT LATER -NOW THAT HE/SHE HAS PATIENTLY LISTENED AND HAS UNDERSTOOD HIS/HER/THEIR VIEWS -IT IS ESSENTAIL THAT TO ME SOME TIME IS GIVEN TO THINK OVER, DELIBERATE ON EACH AND EVERY VARYING VIEWPOINT, MAKE UP MY MIND AND THEN COME BACK AT A CONVENIENT TIME AND IN CALM ATMOSPHERE AS WELL -BUT IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT DELIBERATIONS AND DISCUSSIONS ARE NOT DELAYED TOO LONG -RATHER LET THESE HAPPEN AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE AND IN THE SHORTEST TIME POSSIBLE -HOWEVER BEFORE THE DISCUSSIONS TAKE PLACE AND/OR THE TIME IS DECIDED -ESSENTIAL IT IS TO ENSURE THAT ATMOSPHERE OF CALMNESS AND CONGENIALITY DOES EXIST AND/OR IS ESSENTIALLY CREATED -SO THAT THE PERSON(s) CONCERNED ARE APT AND CONDUCIVE TO LISTEN AND DISCUSS PATIENTLY AND POSITIVELY -I FEEL IF SUCH AN ATMOSPHERE IS CREATED IN ADVANCE BY EXPLANATION AND PERSUASION, -SOLUTION AND ACCEPTANCE TO WHATEVER CRITICAL AND ANTAGONISING PROBLEMS MAY BE -CAN CERTAILY BE FOUND OUT -ESSENTIAL HOWEVER IT IS THAT THE ONE WHO IS HEADING THE DISCUSSION AND DELIBERATIONS -HAS TO REMAIN CALM DESPITE PROVOCATIONS -REMAIN AS MUCH IMPARTIAL AS POSSIBLE -AND IF AT SOME STAGE SUCH A BEHAVIOUR IS FELT BY THE OTHER PARTY(ies), IT IS ESSENTIAL TO EXPLAIN THE REASONS IN AS MUCH PERSUASIVE MANNER AS POSSIBLE -TO ENSURE THAT ONE SUCCEEDS TO MAINTAIN ONE’S PERSONALITY AND RESPECT THEREOF AND THEREFTER -HENCE HEREAFTER ONE CAN LIVE POSSIBLY A COMFORTABLE LIFE -MORESO IN FAMILY, WITH COLLEAGUES, COMPANISONS IN GENERAL -IN EXCEPTION OF FRIENDS WITH WHOM ONE CAN TALK AND DISCUSS AS OPENLY AND AS FREELY AS ONE WISHES FOR WITHOUT ANY FEAR OF PERSONALITY CLASHES ETC …………………………………………………………………………………………….. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. FREE OF COST, NEITHER FOR REGISTRATION NEITHER AGAINST NOCs NOR AFTERWARD 5. ON REQUEST, BOTH SPOUSES WITH THEIR FAMILIES ARE RECEIVED AT MGNC OFFICE WHEREIN MEETS ARE ARRANGED, DISCUSSIONS ARE HELD, DOUBTS, IF ANY,ARE CLEARED AND EXPLAINED EXHAUSTIVELY. 6. 10,000 BIODATAS ARE HELD IN STOCK OF ALMOST ALL COMMUNITIES. 7. WAS FOUNDED IN 2015, CARRIES 5 STARS IN GOOGLE AND FACEBOOK. 8. FOR MARRIAGE WHAT DOES IT MEAN AND WHAT ARE ITS IMPLICATIONS, -