POSSESSIVENESS -POSSESSIVENESS IS GOOD AS IT HELPS -CREATES MINE AND THINE AS SUCH ONE, ALL THE TIME CONCENTRATES AND BUILDS RELATIONSHIPS AND ASPIRATIONS AS BEST AS ONE CAN, AS DEFINED HEREUNDER: -RELATIONS WITH WIFE -BRING UP THE CHILDREN AS BEST AS POSSIBLE. LOOK TO THEIR PROSPERITY AND WELL BEING -HAVE ONE’S OWN HOUSE -BUILD UP AS BIG ASSETS AS ONE CAN -LAUNCH IN BUSINESS AND ASPIRE TO LET IT GROW AND PRACTICALLY TURN IT INTO MONOPOLY -CRUSH COMPETITORS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE -ETC.ETC. -IT HELPS ONE TO STRUGGLE AND FIGHT FOR PROGRESS BUT IT HAS ITS OWN DEFECTS ALSO WHICH WE FIND IN THE FORM AS HEREUNDER: -NO COMPETITION AND/OR TO CRUSH COMPETITORS WHICH RETARDS AND CHECKMATES PROGRESS -TO AMASS WEALTH/ASSETS AS BEST AS ONE CAN, INDUCES AND ENCOURGES ONE TO USE ALL SORTS OF MEANS GOOD OR BAD, MOSTLY BAD, INDULGING IN ALL EVILS LIKE TAKING BRIBES, DEVELOPING JEALOUSIES, ENGAGING IN FIGHTS ETC. - CREATES CONTROLLING AND AUTHORITATIVE ATTIDUES AND MANNERS. -DEVELOPS GREED AND TO ASPIRE MUCH MORE THAN WHAT ONE HAS THE CAPACITIES AND THE MEANS Conclusion; despite all these defects, had there not been the instincts and desires for possessiveness, I do believe, one would not have struggled, and if had struggled, only that much as it could allow him/her to live a comfortable life and all the progress as human beings have made and mostly we all enjoy, perhaps we would not have. Now we find there is race to reach moon, sun and all other planets, which were not possible had there not been inspiration for possessiveness, this progress and hope would not have been built. It is this possessiveness which helps to create family and to struggle in all manners to turn it to enjoy comforts as best as one can by all means, good or bad. ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. By vasdevloond, founder of marriage bureau, called marriage guidance new concept, cost free as a social service. Contact:vasdevloond at 981194367 vasdevloond@gmail.com