PARENTS HOULD NEVER INSIST ON THEIR CHILDREN TO GO ABOUT WHAT THE PARENTS WANT, RATHER INSTEAD DISCUSS AND CHECK UP WITH THEIR CHILDREN WHAT THEY WANT AND WHAT ARE THEIR AMBITIONS AND GOAL IN LIFE, AND THE PARENTS MUST DO ALL TO AID, FACILITATE AND ENCOURAGE THEIR CHILDREN BY ALL MEANS. -PARENTS WANTED THAT THEIR SON MUST BECOME IAS, IPS ETC. -BUT THE SON WAS NOT INTERESTED AT ALL NOR HE HAD AN APTITUDE FOR STUDIES -HE WAS ALL HIS TIME SPENDING IN ROAMING ABOUT, FIGHTING, ENGAGING IN CONFLICTS, SEEING AND ENJOYING GAMES ETC -FATHER THE FATHER HIMSELF WAS AN IAS OFFICER, POSTED IN A VERY HIGH POSITION -UNFORTUNATELY HE HAD NO TIME TO COME REGULARLY HOME AND DISCUSS WITH HIS SON -ON THE CONTRARY HE WAS COMING HOME VERY TIRED AND BOGGED DOWN WITH IMMENSE RESPONSIBILITIES, EVEN HE WAS GETTING CALLS WHEN HE WAS AT HOME -DESPITE THAT, HE WISHED THAT HIS SON MUST BECOME IAS, IPS ETC. BUT HAD NO TIME TO SIT AND DISCUSS WITH HIS SON -DISCUSSION ABOUT HIM WENT ON FOR LONG BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE AS TO HOW TO PUT THEIR SON ON THE RIGHT TRACK -FINALLY IT WAS DECIDED BY THE PARENTS TO GET THEIR SON ADMITTED IN AMERICAN SCHOOL -IT WAS WELL THOUGHT THAT DESPITE THEIR SON STUDYING IN AMERICAN SCHOOL WILL BE COSTING THEM A LOT OF MONEY -BUT IN THEIR URGE AND WISH, THEY FELT THAT IN AMERICAN SCHOOL HE WILL BECOME WELL DISCIPLINED AND WILL SHINE UP IN HIS STUDIES BY SPECIAL ATTENTION WHICH IS GIVEN TO THE CHILDREN IN THIS REPUTED SCHOOL -DESPITE ALL EFFORTS BY THE TEACHER, THIS BOY NEVER CONCENTRATED IN STUDIES, RATHER HE WAS DISTURBING OTHER STUDENTS AND THE TEACHERS AS WELL -BESIDES STUDIES AMERICAN SCHOOL WAS ALSO RUNNING EXERCISE/ GAMES CLASSES -THIS BOY USED TO WAIT FOR RECESS AND GET TO THE EXERCISES/GAMES CLASS -HE STARTED SHINING IN COMPETITION AGAINST OTHER SCHOOL STUDENTS AND STARTED GETTING RECOGNISED AND REWARDED FOR ALL THE TIME WINNING THE COMPETITIONS. -HIS SCHOOL, AMERICAN SCHOOL, GOT PROUD OF HIM AND ENLISTED HIM FOR COMPETITION IN THE COUNTRY ALL OVER -THE SCHOOL PRINCIPAL CALLED THE FATHER OF THIS BOY, TOLD HIM THAT HE MUST NOT INSIST ON HIM TO GO ABOUT IAS, IPS ETC. AND INSTEAD GET HIM ENLISTED IN GAMES CLUBS -FATHER RELUCTANTLY AGREED AS IT WAS NOT HIS THINKING, BUT BY PERSUASION BY THE PRINCIPAL HE AGREED TO THE IDEA AND BECAUSE OF HIS INFLUENCE AND MONETARY RESOURCES HE GOT HIS SON ADMITTED IN THE GAMES CLUBS, ONE AFTER THE OTHER -THE SON STARTED SHINING IN TENNIS, BECAME CAPTAIN OF INDIAN TEAM TO COMPETE IN THE WORLD. -THERE ALSO WITHIN NO TIME, HE WON THE TROPHY, SO HAPPY FOR HIMSELF, FOR HIS TEAM AND FOR THE COUNTRY. -FATHER WAS CALLED BY EVERYONE TO CONGRATULATE HIM ABOUT THE SUCCESS AND HONOUR HIS SON HAS BROUGHT FOR HIM AND FOR THE COUNTRY AS WELL. -WHAT A RELIEF AND HOW GRATIFYING WAS THIS SUCCESS, THAT FATHER FORGOT HIS DREAM THAT HIS SON WILL BECOME IAS, IPS AND APPRECIATED, RATHER CONGRATULATED HIS SON FOR THE NAME AND FAME HE BROUGHT TO HIM. Conclusion: parents should never insist on the children to do what they should do, each child has his/her own aptitude, capacity and ambition, better the parents must study the inherent traits of their children and help them to go about as they want, there is no doubt because of their aptitude and ambition, aided by the parents, they will mostly do wonders and bring name to the parents, which the parents eagerly wish for. NEVER THE PARENTS INSIST ON WHAT THEY WANT THEIR CHILDREN TO BE, INSTEAD THEY MUST ENTHUSE THEIR CHILDREN TO REALISE THE AMBITIONS OF THEIR CHILDREN WHAT THEY DREAM FOR AND ARE READY TO DO ALL TO ACHIEVE THEIR GOAL. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………. by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept,cost free marriage bureau, incepted since 2015; for contacts vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com