NEVER GET ANNOYED WITH ANYONE NOR BREAK RELATIONS WITH ANYONE WHY SUCH A THINKING AND ADVICE? WHEN SOMEONE DOES NOT DO WHAT WE ASK FOR, SOME IRRITATE US WITH THEIR OWN WAY OF THINKING AND WORKING, CHANGE NEVER, RATHER ARGUE THAT HE/SHE KNOWS BETTER WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO DO, SOME WITHOUT ANY FAULT OF OURS, BURST OUT ANGER OF OTHERS ON US SOON AS WE SAY OR OFFER SOME SUGGESTION ETC, SOMETIME ALSO WHEN ONE IS IN BAD MOOD, IS SICK, DEPRESSED AND IS SUFFERING DUE TO SOME LOSS, UNEXPECTED HAPPENINGS ETC. ETC. TRUE, ALL SUCH SITUATIONS ARE THE TESTING POINT OF OUR PATIENCE, WHETHER WE CAN EXERCISE SEL-CONTROL, CAN VISUALISE AS TO WHAT GOOD IT WILL BRING IN IF I ALSO GET ANNOYED AND RETALIATE, POSSIBLY I WILL AGGRAVATE THE SITUATION THEN I THINK IT IS BETTER TO SAY NOTHING, KEEP QUIET AND IF POSSIBLE, MOVE OUT OF THAT SITUATION. SIT SOMEWHERE TO THINK OVER AS TO WHAT TO DO, WHY TODAY HE/SHE IS SO ANNOYED, PERHAPS DUE TO SOME MISTAKE I HAVE COMMITTED OR DONE SOMETHING WRONG IN TALK, IN BEHAVIOUR, IN ACTION, IN EXPLANATION, IN ADVICE ETC. ONCE I ANALYSE THIS, THEN THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER I SHOULD GET BACK TO EXPLAIN OR KEEP QUIET AND IF I KEEP QUIET, IT IS POSSIBLE THAT HE/SHE MAY RETALIATE MORE AND COME WITH CERTAIN FRIENDS TO HIT AND THRASH ME OUT, AND IF I GO TO HIM/HER, PERHAPS HE/SHE WILL SHOUT AND POSSIBLY MAY INSULT ME ALSO. NORMALLY WHEN ONE TAKES SUCH A STEP AND GOES TO THE PERSON WHO WAS ANNOYED, IT IS POSSIBLE BY THIS TIME, HE/SHE WOULD ALSO HAVE THOUHT OVER AND WOULD HAVE CALMED DOWN AND PERHAPS WANTED TO MEET ME, BUT HIS/HE EGO STOPPED HIM/HER ALL THE TIME. IT IS BETTER TO GO TO MEET. NORMALLY WHEN ONE STEPS INTO SUCH ACTION, THE OTHER ONE DEFINITELY THINKS THAT SUCH AND SUCH PERSON IS REGRETTING AND HAS COME TO BEG PARDON AND IF NOT, HE/SHE SHOUTS, LET HIM/HER SHOUT, KEEP PATIENCE, REMAIN CALM, SAY NOTHING, SIT QUIETLY IN APOLOGETIC POSTURE, MOSTLY IT SO HAPPENS THAT IN SEEING SUCH A SITUATION OF HELPESSNESS AND REGRETS, THE OTHER ONE WILL COME TO SENSES, POSSIBLY WILL COME TO TALK AND OFFER SOMETHING TO DRINK. IF THIS HAPPENS, BETTER LISTEN TO HIM/HER, SAY A FEW WORDS TO EXPRESS THAT I HAD NO REASON TO ANNOY YOU BUT SOMEHOW IT SO HAPPENED, NEITHER I MEAN IT NOR EVER I WANT TO REPEAT IT. HEREAFTER GENERALLY, ALL WILL GET SETTLED, GOOD RELATIONS WILL DEVELOP, IRRITATION AND ANNOYANCE WILL BE FORGOTTEN. IT IS THEREFORE ESSENTIAL, REFLECT WELL, SHUN EGO, NEVER TROUBLE YOURSELF IN REPETANCE OR PRONOUNCING AND SEARCHING FAULTS OF THE OTHER, ESSENTIAL IT IS TO THINK AND DECIDE THAT BY SUCH A BEHAVIOUR I WILL JUST BE WASTING TIME AND PERHAPS CAUSING HARM TO MY BODY, PERHAPS WHAT IS CALLED NIP IN THE BUD, THE EARLIEST THE RELATIONS ARE RE-ESTABLISHED BY ALL MEANS AND IN ALL MANNERS, BETTER IT WILL BE, BESIDES PERHAPS INSTEAD OF INVOKING RETALIATION WHEN I SHALL INSTEAD INVOKE LOVE, THEN ALL AND EVERYTHING WILL GET SETTLED. IT IS RIGHTLY SAID NEVER LEAVE SOMETHING SIMMERING.ONE DOES NOT KNOW, AFTER SOME TIME IT MAY FLARE UP, GET INTO FLAMES AND DESTROY EVERYING. AS SUCH ANY SITUATION WHICH CAUSES IRRITATION, ANNOYANCE OR ANGER, MUST DO ALL TO SETTE IT, WHICH IS POSSIBLE ONLY WHEN ONE DOESN”T FIND FAULT IN OTHERS, SEARCHES SOLUTION AS QUICKLY AND AS PATIENTLY AS POSSIBLE, THE BETTER IT WILL BE FOR HIM/HER AND FOR OTHERS ALSO DESPITE THE FACT WHETHER IT WAS THEIR FAULT OR. FOR SUCH AND SUCH ACTION, TO SHUN EGO IS VERY IMPORTANT, TAKE COURAGE AND DO ALL TO PACIFY THE SITUTION AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Written by vasdeloond in reflection and thinking that such a writing and advice perhaps will help many to avoid annoyance, and it ever it happens, do all to apologize and mend the situation rather than leaving it to aggravate in brutality of all sorts. I FEEL I AM A THOUGHT PROVOKER AND SOLUTION GIVER TO ALL MY FRIENDS WHO SUFFER FROM EGO ETC.AND NEVER BELIEVE TO GIVE IN, REGRET OR APOLOGISE. I CAN BE CAN BE CONTACTED IF NEED BE AT 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com. tks