MONEY IS TURNING SUPER POWER THAN THE RLATIONSHIPS, WHY IT IS SO? ESPECIALLY WITH REGARD TO ONE’S CHILDREN -MONEY IS THE NEED FOR ALL PURPOSES -WHILE RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEEDED FROM TIME TO TIME -REST CAN BE SUBSTITUTED OR ONE CAN LIVE WITHOUT -AS THE CHILDREN GROW, SET UP THEIR OWN UNITS, COMPETITION AND JEALOUSIES DEVELOP MOSTLY INSTIGATED BY RESPECTIVE WIVES -ASSETS, BUSINESS AND DISTRIBUTION OF THESE TURN OUT TO BE THE MAIN CAUSE OF CONFLICTS AND RECONCILIATION IF INVOKED FAILS MANY A TIME -PARENTS’ PREFERENCE FOR ONE AND IGNORING OR NOT SHOWING SAME ATTITUDE FOR OTHERS, AGGRAVATES CONFLICTS AND COUNSELLING/EXPLANATIONS BY PARENTS FALL FLAT MANY A TIME -PARENTS GENERALLY FAVOUR THE WEAKER ONE AND IGNORE THE OTHERS, ESPECIALLY THE CONTRIBUTIONS MADE BY THE ELDER AND/OR ANY OF THEM, THE PARENTS AS SUCH BELIEVE TO DISTRIBUTE EQUALLY AND AS PER LOVE AND THUS SUCH A BEHAVIOUR CREATES ILL-WILL RATHER THAN EQUITABLE SETTLEMENT. -EACH ONE FEELS HIS/HER RIGHT TO CLAIM PARENTS ASSETS IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT THEY HAVE ALREADY AND ARE NEVER PREPARED TO CEDE ANYTHING MORE TO THE NEEDY, RATHER THEY FEEL THAT SUCH A PERSON IS A WASTE AND BURDEN TO THE FAMILY. -THUS RELATIONS BREAK, EACH ONE LOOKS TO HIS/HER INTEREST, CONFLICTS EMERGE, FIGHTS TAKE PLACE AND IF NOT SETTLED BY PARENTS, ALL ENDS UP IN LITIGATIONS ETC. -ADDED TO ALL THIS -SISTERS AFTER MARRIAGE IN GENERAL BY LAW OR OTHERWISE IN THEIR SELF INTEREST THOUGH BELONGING TO ANOTHER FAMILIES CREATE AN UNRESOLVED STRUGGLE AND CONFLICTS. -IT IS SAID THAT THE MORE ONE HAS, THE MORE TROUBLE ONE CREATES -AS SUCH, EACH CHILD PULLS TO HIS/HER ADVANTAGE TURNS RELATIONSHIPS INTO JEALOUSIES, CONFLICTS, FIGHTS AND THUS THE PARENTS LIVE IN REGRETS, -WORRIED AND GENERALLY LIVE IN ACCUSTATIONS AMONGST THEMSELVES AND WITH THE CHIDRE AS WELL. -IT IS RIGHTLY SAID, MONEY MAKES THE MARE GO. IT IS TRUE NOW AND IN ALL PROBABILITY MONY CRASE AND GREED WILL CONTINUE INCREASING MORE AN MORE. -RELATIONS AS SUCH WILL BECOME INSIGNIFICANT UNTIL AND UNLESS PARENTS OWN THEIR RESPONSIBILITY TO DISTRIBUTE THEIR ASSETS WHEN ALIVE, NEVER SHHOULD THEY FEEL TO BE AFRAID OF ACCUSATIONS ETC. AND THUS ENGAGE IN, TO DO JUSTICE TO EACH ONE AS BEST AS THEY CAN, LISTEN TO EACH ONE, RECONCILIATE AS BEST AS THEY CAN BY ADVANCING REASONS, ENGAGING IN PERSUASIONS AND RESOLVING CONFLICTS AS BEST A THEY CAN. Advice; let parents do their best to do justice to each one by explanation, persuasion, keep in view, of course also the contribution done by each and if ever they want to help the weaker one, better they must explain to all. give a part of their share to the weaker one, to ensure that the status of each of the child more or less remains comfortable to live with. Equally necessary it is also for the parents to give away their assets to their children while keeping their share to themselves, when they feel that their children are now mature and will put these assets to their needs and advantages as best as they think and decide by themselves alone, with clear thinking and understanding of parents that they will never interfere as to how these assets are being used nor indulge in any form (assuming as if they are non existent after having distributed their assets). ……………………………………………………………………………………… by vasdevloond, founder of marriage guidance new concept cost free marriage bureau, founded in 2015. Contacts vasdevloond 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com