LIFE IS FULL OF WORRIES AND COMPLICATIONS WITH EXCEPTION OF COURSE THAT MOMENTARY JOY AND HAPPINESS DO HAPPEN. ALAS AND UNFORTUNATELY, AS THE LIFE ADVANCES, THESE WORRIES AND COMPLICATIONS MULTIPLY AND DO RESULT IN TO BECOME SO POWERFUL THAT FEW OCCASIONS WHICH EXISTED FOR JOY AND HAPPINESS DO START VANASHIPING AND FINALLY DIE OUT. ALSO DESPITE THE FACT THAT WE ENGAGE IN PRAYERS, GET TO RELIGIOUS PLACES, TEMPLES, MOSQUES, CHURCHES ETC. RELIGIOUS ORGANISATIONS ETC. ETC. ALL WILL SAY TO US REMAIN HAPPY AND LOVING ALWAYS. BUT THE FACT REMAINS IN REAL LIFE IT DOES NOT HAPPEN. THEN IT IS ALSO LEARNT AND BELIEVED THAT GOD DECIDES OUR LIFE AND COURSE OF OUR ACTIONS. DOES IT MEAN THAT GOD HAS CREATED US ALL TO REMAIN WORRIED ALL THE TIME, IF THAT IS SO, THEN WHAT WAS THE PURPOSE OF GOD TO CREATE US ALL HUMAN BEINGS. WHEN WE REMAIN WORRIED AND FIGHT WITH EACH OTHER, DOES IT PLEASES GOD , WE BELIEVE AND AFFIRM, NEVER AND NEVER GOD CAN EVEN THINK OF THIS. GOD ON THE CONTRARY HAS CREATED US ALL TO LOVE EACH OTHER, ENJOY LIFE AS BEST AS POSSIBLE AND TO REMAIN HAPPY ALWAYS. THEN QUESTION ARISES WHAT ARE THESE WORRIES AND WHAT ARE THE REASONS THEREFOR. IN QUICK ANALYSIS IT COMES TO MY MIND THAT GREED AND MINE&THINE ARE THE MAIN CAUSES FOR ALL THESE WORRIES. THEN QUESTION ARISES HOW TO AVOID THESE . IN ANSWER I RECOLLECT TO SAY THAT I HAVE SAID AND WRITTEN QUITE A FEW TIMES THAT ALL IS POSSIBLE IF ONE WISHES FOR, PLANS, MAKES CONCERTED EFFORTS AND IS FULLY CONVINCED THAT ONE WILL AND CAN DEFINITELY SUCCEED. NEVERTHELESS GREED WILL REMAIN TILL OUR EXISTENCE AND SO WILL REMAIN MINE & THINE EXCEPT IN EXTREME CASES WHEN PARENTS ARE TOTALLY CUT OFF FROM THEIR CHIDREN AND DO NOT WANT TO SEE EYE TO EYE WITH EACH OTHER. IF SO, THEN WHERE DOES LIE THE ANSWER TO AVOID WORRIES AND GREED. I THINK IT IS IMPOSSIBLE AND ALSO NEVER TO THINK, THAT GREED AND MINE & THINE CAN BE TOTALLY ELIMINATED. NEVERTHELESS ANSWER LIES IN THE FACT THAT SOON AS THE CHILDREN GROW UP, GET SETTLED TO THEIR JOBS AND IN THEIR OWN FAMILIES, WE MUST LEARN TO WORRY THE LEAST FOR THEM. AND AS FOR GREED IS CONCERNED, AS THE LIFE MOVES ON AND WE GET OLDER, OUR GREED CONTINUES DIMINISHING AND WHEN THERE WILL BE MINE AND THINE TO THE LEAST, GREED WILL ALSO GET REDUCED TO THE LEAST. CONCLUSION;WORRIES, GREED, MINE & THIN CAN BE MITIGATED IF ONE GETS CONSCIOUS OF THESE VICES AND HARMFUL EFFECT THESE CREATE, BUT THESE CAN NEVER BE ELIMINATED, WE NEED TO REMEMBER THAT SO LONG AS THERE IS EXISTENCE, WORRIES, GREED, MINE & THINE WILL CONTINUE WHILE WHAT WE CAN DO IS TO REDUCE THESE TO THE MINIMUM AND BAREST POSSIBLE. ............................................................... written by vasdevloond founder of marriage guidance new concept, cost free marriage bureau NGO to contact vasdevloond for all sorts of questions about marriage, here is his phone no: 9811943867 vasdevloond@gmail.com www.marriageguidance.in www.facebook.com