to (a) meditation, yoga etc (b) search and be in the company of friends, relations, associations, groups etc. who share one's views and those who love to be in your company etc. (c) consign to destiny, IF YOU BELIEVE IN, and reconcile to in which family one is born, which cast, which religion, which environments etc. MOST IMPORTANT IS TO REALISE THAT HAPPINESS IS THE FOOD WHILE TO REMAIN UNHAPPY IS A POISON, choice remains to each individual whether to CHANGE ONE'S ATTITUDE TO DO ALL TO REMAIN HAPPY or to live in regrets and curses. ALSO IF ONE IS DETERMINED, ALL IS POSSIBLE. tks
HOW TO BE A PERFECT MAN OR BE CATEGORISED AS A PERFECT PERSON. 8th step: SHUN MINE AND THINE. It is impossible to shun mine unless one leaves everything, goes to jungles or some other unknown place(s) to embark on a particular mission, to pursue it and spread it to public at large. IN REAL LIFE, ONE CAN REDUCE MINE TO THE MINIMUM BUT CAN'T EFFACE IT AS EMOTIONS KEEP THE BONDAGE ALWAYS. Thus when someone reaches this stage, he will be on the right path to climb to the final success of being a perfect man or be categorised as the perfect person. 9th step: TO BE HONEST, BE LAUDABLE IN ACTION AND BEHAVIOUR. EXPLANATION AND ANSWER: to be honest is a difficult job especially in this world of hypocrisy, deceit, selfishness etc. etc. where personal and material gains are the prime objective regardless of what and how much harm it will do to other(s) Further to REMAIN HONEST ALL THE TIME AND ALWAYS is more difficult which very few can or are able to do, that too when they are convinced and are determined to remain HONEST IRRESPECTIVE OF WHATEVER THE CONSEQUENCES. I think one cannot be totally honest, BUT ONE CAN BE COMPARATIVELY HONEST in action, behaviour, talk, decisions, relationship, prominence, status/position etc. etc.
HOW TO BE A PERFECT MAN OR BE CATEGORISED AS A PERFECT PERSON. 8th step: SHUN MINE AND THINE. It is impossible to shun mine unless one leaves everything, goes to jungles or some other unknown place(s) to embark on a particular mission, to pursue it and spread it to public at large. IN REAL LIFE, ONE CAN REDUCE MINE TO THE MINIMUM BUT CAN'T EFFACE IT AS EMOTIONS KEEP THE BONDAGE ALWAYS. Thus when someone reaches this stage, he will be on the right path to climb to the final success of being a perfect man or be categorised as the perfect person. 9th step: TO BE HONEST, BE LAUDABLE IN ACTION AND BEHAVIOUR. EXPLANATION AND ANSWER: to be honest is a difficult job especially in this world of hypocrisy, deceit, selfishness etc. etc. where personal and material gains are the prime objective regardless of what and how much harm it will do to other(s) Further to REMAIN HONEST ALL THE TIME AND ALWAYS is more difficult which very few can or are able to do, that too when they are convinced and are determined to remain HONEST IRRESPECTIVE OF WHATEVER THE CONSEQUENCES. I think one cannot be totally honest, BUT ONE CAN BE COMPARATIVELY HONEST in action, behaviour, talk, decisions, relationship, prominence, status/position etc. etc.
TO BE A PERFECT MAN OR BE CATEGORISED AS A PERFECT PERSON....... CONCLUSION; It is practically impossible for a normal person to be PERFECT but if one makes effort, one will surely be near the goal, maybe one may achieve it. It is said that PERFECT PERSONS like Lord Rama, Lord Krishna, Budha etc. were GODs Messéngers to correct the human beings on this earth and guide them how to live in harmony with others and to let the world move smoothly. No one is without faults even some time we do crticise our LORDS, but THEY had immense qualities and had largesse at heart and in action, the petty defects or mistakes presumed to be committed by THEM, we ignore these. Likewise one may not be perfect, but if one pursues the path (a) to keep one off or away from the so-called vices (b) to bring MINE and THINE to the minimum (c) turn out to be JUSTICE GIVER irrespective of personal interests of all forms and in any manner (d) does not crave for prominence, position, amassing wealth etc. etc. (e) listens and is prepared to heal up the miseries of the sufferers (f) believes and does all actions as a MISSION irrespective of inconvenience and sufferences of oneself for the sake of others (g) remains at peace, happy and jubilant at each and every moment in all circumstances, shall generally be able to give HAPPINESS AND LOVE TO OTHERS. The we may not remain in deception that we cannot and can never be PERFECT or be CATEGORISED PERFECT, WE MUST DO WHAT IT IS IN OUR MIGHT, PERCEPTION AND WISH TO RENDER GOOD TO THE PEOPLE, OUR THINKING AND ACTIONS WILL ENSURE TO KEEP AT PEACE WITH OURSELVES AND ONCE WE ARE AT PEACE, IF WE WISH FOR, WE SHALL BE ABLE TO DO GOOD TO OTHERS, WE WILL DERIVE SATISFACTION, FEEL TO BE ACHIEVER AND SUCCESSFUL, ALL INFORMATION OF PRAISE, LOVE, GATHERINGS, CONGREGATION ETC. WILL TURN OUT TO BELIEVE IN OURSELVES THAT WE IF ARE NOT PERFECT, WE ARE SOMEONE WHO CARES AND DO EVERYTHING TO RELIEVE THE SUFFERERS FROM THEIR MISERIES. Believe me, if one is not taken as a perfect man, one will at least be seen at present and remembered in the future as a GENTLE AND BENEVOLENT PERSON, if this happens, what else one wishes for, I think nothing. as one will turn out to be an EXCEPTION WHO SHALL REMAIN AT PEACE, HAPPY TO HIMSELF AND WILL BE LOVING OTHERS ALL THE TIME.
HOW TO BE A PERFECT MAN. 3rd step etc. GOOD, LOVED AND APPRECIABLE THOUGHTS. 4: PERCEPTION, VISION AND GUIDE: It is essential that the person who wishes and/or is keen to transform oneself to be a perfect man, must love all human beings irrespective of caste, creed, gender, belief, religion etc and is ready to make all sacrifices to pronounce and spread his/her thoughts, perception, vision and be a guide to all those who do not believe or are bewildered in problems/worries with no answer at their end. Thoughts, perception, vision and then to turn to be the GUIDE, need first, one to believe in those, practice to observe advantages and disadvantages as one comes across and to suggest answers to the woes of the sufferers and aggrieved, take a lead, push his/her thoughts, vision, perception and solutions in meetings, assemblies, writings, media etc. etc. and most important by holding daily or at pre-determined timings and days to be present to listen to the sufferers and needy ones, offer to them solutions and solace by practical answers rather than just by preaching, to reconcile them to their past karma and destiny, and instead I think OFFER THEM PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS
AND MOTIVATE THEM INTO ACTION IN BELIEF AND ACTION THAT HE/SHE IS THE MASTER OF HIMSELF/HERSELF AND ALSO OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES EXPECTED AS ALSO UNEXPECTED. I believe the more one will offer practical solutions and demonstrate him/herself by his/her actions and daily life will go a long way to help the needy and the public at large, AND WILL ALSO DEVELOP CONFIDENCE IN THE PERSON WHO WISHES TO BE A PERFECT MAN, AS ALSO TO REMAIN HAPPY IN ALL SITUATIONS...tks
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HOW TO BE A PERFECT MAN OR BE CATEGORISED AS A PERFECT
PERSON. 8th step: SHUN MINE AND THINE. It is impossible to shun mine unless one leaves everything, goes to jungles or some other unknown place(s) to embark on a particular mission, to pursue it and spread it to public at large. IN REAL LIFE, ONE CAN REDUCE MINE TO THE MINIMUM BUT CAN'T EFFACE IT AS EMOTIONS KEEP THE BONDAGE ALWAYS. Thus when someone reaches this stage, he will be on the right path to climb to the final success of being a perfect man or be categorised as the perfect person. 9th step: TO BE HONEST, BE LAUDABLE IN ACTION AND BEHAVIOUR. EXPLANATION AND ANSWER: to be honest is a difficult job especially in this world of hypocrisy, deceit, selfishness etc. etc. where personal and material gains are the prime objective regardless of what and how much harm it will do to other(s) Further to REMAIN HONEST ALL THE TIME AND ALWAYS is more difficult which very few can or are able to do, that too when they are convinced and are determined to remain HONEST IRRESPECTIVE OF WHATEVER THE CONSEQUENCES. I think one cannot be totally honest, BUT ONE CAN BE COMPARATIVELY HONEST in action, behaviour, talk, decisions, relationship, prominence, status/position etc. etc.
ONE MUST REMEMBER HONESTY MAKES A PERSON STRONG, FEARLESS AND MORE IMPORTANT, IT PROVIDES INNER PEACE AND AS SUCH REFLECTS IN LOVE FOR EACH AND EVERYONE. HONESTY IS FRANK, STRAIGHT AND DOES NOT NEED TO REMEMBER, AS AND WHEN ASKED FOR, SAME WORDS/STATEMENT AND REAL BEHAVIOUR WILL COME OUT AUTOMATICALLY, AND SHALL NEED NO THINKING OR REFLEXION. As to have inner peace is the final goal of a man, it is always better to remain as honest as one can, be determined to remain honest always, with the least deviation in extremes perhaps. In real life,honesty must remain the goal to translate into action, and be at PEACE with yourself and with others as well. next will be the sum up of all I have visioned and explained earlier on the subject of TO BE A PERFECT MAN OR BE CATEGORISED TO BE THE PERFECT PERSON. tks
