HAVING LIVED IN FOREIGN, FULLY SETTLED, SHOULD ONE GET BACK TO HIS OWN COUNTRY OF ORIGIN/BIRTH, IS IT ADVISABLE OR A MISTAKE? -before answering it is essential to know at what age one has migrated to a foreign country -IN ANSWER to this, it seems logical and practical that those who have migrated at the age of 20 or more, generally in their old age will return to their own country of origin especially due to by the time they left, they were fully mature, had studied in his/her own country, had developed many friend(it is said that childhood friends are chums and these friends are never forgotten), had been attending many functions of relations friends etc. are entrenched in the culture and rituals of his/her own country, also equally important if one’s brother, sisters and perhaps parents are still alive, normally he/she will tend to get back, to live his/her old age with relations, family, old friends and also with the urge that he/she when he/she dies, he/she must be buried or cremated in the rituals one is accustomed to, with as big a gathering as possible, contrary to foreign, where one is buried and/or is put to fire hardly with few friends and relations or is taken by the ambulance of the government and his/her burial is taken care by the government. FINALLY ONE DOESN’T FEEL THE SAME DIGNITY NOR THE URGE AS IF OF HIS/HER OWN COUNTRY BESIDES WHAT ONE HAS EARNED, ON RETURN TO HIS/HER COUNTRY IS MUCH MORE RECOGNISED AND IS RICHLY ENJOYED IN FREQUENT MEETINGS AND GATHERINGS, FAMILY BONDAGE ALWAYS REMAINS A GREAT ATTRACTION, TO LIVE WITH AND HELP THEM IN WHATEVER MANNER ONE CAN, WISHES FOR AND/OR FEELS A NECESSITY.. -on the contrary, those who go in early age for studies, for work, and/or born in foreign, hardly think of return to their country and/or country of their parents origin, as they develop their friends in that country. study culture and customs of that foreign country, possibly develop their relationship between boy and girl, vice versa, find some job there, NEVER THINK OF RETURNING TO THEIR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN AND/OR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN OF THEIR PARENTS, MORESO WHENEVER THEY VISIT THEIR COUNTRY OF ORIGIN AND/OR OF THEIR PARENTS, THEY JUST TAKE THEIR JOURNEY AND STAY AS A TOURIST RATHER THAN BELONGING TO THIS COUNTRY WHERE THEY DO NOT KNOW PRACTICALLY ANY OF THEIR RELATIONS, PERHAPS DO NOT SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE, FIND NO FRIENDS ETC. AND AS SUCH GET BACK TO THE COUNTRY OF THEIR LIVING, WHICH WE MAY CATEGORISE AS A FOREIGN COUNTRY WHILE FOR THEM MORE OR LESS IT IS BELIEVED TO BE THEIR OWN COUNTRY, THEY AS SUCH LEAST BOTHER AS TO WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THEM AFTER THEIR DEATH AS DURING THEIR LIFE TIME, THEY GET USED TO AND ACCUSTOMED TO THOSE CUSTOMS AND PROCEDURES ETC. NOW THE QUESTION ARISES WHETHER IT IS GOOD TO RETURN OR NOT; -in general those who have their children born and settled in the foreign country, THOUGH THEY MAY LIKE AND WISH FOR, MAY COME FROM TIME TO TIME LIKE A TOURIST, but certainly will live with their own family. accept the life as it goes on, least bothered about as to how in their own country how their dead body will be taken with great ovation, accompanied by a flock of friends and relations, instead they know as to how and in what form when dead, the burial takes place, remain least bothered, as family becomes and remains most important for them to live along and with them. In conclusion it is difficult to define whether it is good or bad to return to one’s own country, mostly and in general it shall depend on one’s views, thinking and emotional love Further It becomes easier for him/her who has been visiting his/her own country for business or otherwise than those who rarely visit their own country due to financial strain etc. As it is the wish and desire of each and everyone to live an enjoyable life in old age in one’s own country, but finally it depends on his/her family and business/work bondage as also the financial aid provided the government of that country. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… Envisioned by vasdevloond, founder of cost free marriage bureau, titled Marriage Guidance New Concept incepted since 2015 for inquiries or demand for biodata form pl contact at 9811943867 vasdvloond@gmail.com, essential to mention mail id and phone number.tks,