DOWRY: To avoid this problem I have drafted Syllabus on Pre-Marriage Education and Guidance, it is in the process of publication which I think will be worth reading, not only to clear doubts about marriage but also how dowry problems, family and assets problems, husband and wife relationship problems etc etc could be tackled in the most possible manner. I believe there lies solution to each and every problem provided one is inclined and determined to find a solution. tks FAMILY CONFLICTS; 2nd step is DOWRY; in some communities amount is negotiated in advance while in others it is left to EXPECTATIONS In the negotiation to get into relationship and decide the amount, besides that those who can't afford find it difficult to get their daughter married and in expectation, when the boy and girl get married and the girl steps into the house of the husband, DOWRY IS SEEN AND EXPOSED, CRITICISM FROM MOTHER-IN-LAW AND RELATIONS COME POURING AND HEREON STARTS THE CONFLICTS.