CHAPTER  ONE   HOW SURPRISING IT IS THAT WHWN CHILDREN ARE IN GROWING AGE, THEY LOVE 

OTHER AND DO NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO HURT ANY OF THEM, IF IT HAPPENS, ALL GET

TOGETHER AND ENGAGE IN A STUNNING FIGHT SO THAT THE SO-CALLED ENEMY NEVER

DARES TO EVEN GAZE AT ANY OF THEM.

-ALAS WHEN THEY GROW AND GET TO JOBS AND OR GET MARRIED, DISLIKING, ACCUSTIONS

 COMPARISON ETC. START.

                                            CHAPTER --1

-WHY IT IS SO AND WHAT ARE THE REASON THAT BEING BORN FROM THE SAME BLOOD

 NOT ONLY THEY DO NOT PULL ON TOGETHER BUT ENGAGE IN CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS.

1. TREATMENT BY THE PARENTS WHICH GENERALLY IS MORE LENIENT, CONSIDERATE AND

     LOVING FOR THE WEAKER ONE, WHICH CREATES JEALOUSY AND FRICTIONS.

2. SOME ARE HARD WORKING WHILE SOME ARE NOT, THE HARD WORKING CHILD GETS

    ANGERED, ACCUSES, SHOUTES AND EVEN SOME TIME THRASHES THE IDLE AND NON

    LABORIOUS BROTHER IN ORDER THAT HE ALSO LEARNS TO WORK HARD AND DOES NOT

    BECOME A BURDEN ON HIM AND THE PARENTS.

3. AS THE CHIDREN GET TO THEIR JOB, STATUS OF EACH ONE DIFFERS, SOME WHO ARE

    BRIGHT MAKE QUICK PROGRESS WHILE OTHERS JUST LAG BEHIND AND REMAIN

    BOGGED IN ROUTINE AND ACCEPT THEIR LIFE AS A NORMAL ONE.  THIS DIFFERENCE

    OF STATUS BETWEEN BROTHERS CREATES SOMEWHAT OR MOST, HESITATION TO MEET

    EACH OTHER, INDULGE IN COMPARISON, ACCUSATIONS AND PERHAPS SOME DEMANDS

    HERE AND THERE.

4.MANY A TIME WIVES DO NOT PULL ON WELL. STANDARD OF THE EDUCATION OF CHILDREN

    DOESN’T MATCH, STANDARD OF LIVING DOES NOT MATCH, HENCE COMES IN AVOIDANCE TO

    MEET EACH OTHER.

5. AS A RESULT OF ALL ABOVE FACTORS WHEN THEY ALL MEET AT THEIR PARENTS HOUSE

    SINCE THEY DO NOT LIKE EACH OTHER FOR THE ABOVE REASONS AND ALSO BY RECALL

    OF THE PAST, THEY GENERALLY FIGHT WITH EACH OTHER AND AS SUCH LEAVE THEIR

    PARENTS IN HELPLESSNESS AND DISTRESS CONDITION.

6. THERE IS NO WONDER THAT EVEN A SMALL INCIDENT AND TALK WHICH IS DISLIKED,

     RATHER IS HATED, ENRANGES THEM TO SHOUT AT EACH OTHER AND MOSTLY RESULTS

     IN EACH ONE GETTING APART AND DRIFTING AWAY FROM THE HOUSE,

9. IF THEY HAPPEN TO BE IN THE SAME BUSINESS, THERE ARE MORE CHANCES OF CONFLICTS,

    NON ACCEPTANCE OF EACH OTHER AND THUS BRING OUT THE PAST INCIDENTS, BEHAVIOUR

    AND MAL-TREATMENT ETC. WIVES ADD FURTHER TO SUCH CLASHED BY SUPPORTING

    THEIR HUSBANDS EACH OF THEM, THE BREAK HAPPENS AND THEREAFTER THEY NEVER

    SEE EYE TO EYE WITH EACH OTHER.

10.ALLOCATION AND DISTRIBUTION OF ASSETS BY THE PARENTS EXPOSE DISCRIMINATION.

    PARTIALITY AND FAVOURITISM OF ONE OR SOME AGAINST THE OTHER(S), CLASHES EMERGE

    RESULTING IN NEVER TO TALK WITH EACH OTHER WHAT TO TALK ABOUT MEETING AND IF NEED

   BE HELPING EACH OTHER. AT TIME, FOR GETTING THE DESIRED ASSET/BUILDING/BUSINESS

   THEY ENGAGE IN FIGHT AGAINST EACH THROUGH LAYWERS OF ALL SORTS.

11. GENERALLY AS THE TIME PASSES, DIFFERENCES ASSUME MORE AND MORE IMPORTANCE

   TO DISRUPT AND BREAK RELATIONS ALTOGETHER SOME TIME EVEN WORSE THAN THEIR

   BEHAVIOUR WITH EACH COMPARED TO THEIR BEHAVIOUR AND RELATIONSHIP TO THEIR

   NEIGHBOURS, COLLEAGUES, FRIENDS ETC.

12 IN SUCH SITUATIONS PARENTS MANY A TIME CANNOT ENFORCE THEIR DISCIPLINE AS EARLIER

  THEY THEMSELVE HAVE FACED SUCH SITUATION AND FINALLY SEPARATED FROM EACH OTHER

  SOME TO REMAIN DISTRANT WHILE MANY A TIME EVEN TO BREAK THE TALKING RELATIONSHIP.

  ALL THESE CHILDREN SEE, HEAR THEIR PRENTS TALKING ABOUT ILL AGAINST THEIR BROTHERS