-AS WE ARE GETTING OLD, WE ARE GETTING TIRED, THERE IS NO AIM, NO GOAL, NO AMBITIONS OF ANY SORT DAY AND NIGHT PASS OFF IN ROUTINE, CHARM OF LIFE IS GONE, WORRIES AND CONFLICTS ARE MULTIPLYING -WHAT FOR AND WHY, WE HAVE STRUGGLED THROUGHOUT OUR LIFE TO PROVIDE THE BEST COMFORTS TO OUR CHILDREN, THOUGHT NEVER THAT SUCH A SITUATION OF ACCUSATIONS AND FIGHTS WILL NEVER HAPPEN DURING OUR LIFE TIME, WHY AND WHAT FOR WE ARE REABLY UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND -IN FACT WHAT WE HAVE, ALL THIS IS THE RESULT OF OUR STRUGGLES AND AS SUCH IT IS OUR RIGHT WHETHER WE GIVE THESE TO OUR CHILDREN TO WHOM AND WHOM NOT, MAYBE GIVE THEM NOTHING AND MAY DECIDE TO DOLE OUT ALL THIS FOR THE POOR AND NEEDY ONES IN BELIEF THAT THEIR BLESSINGS WILL BRING TO US RELIEF AND HAPPINESS WHICH THINKING NOT ONLY HAS BEEN WASHED OFF BY OUR CHILDREN BUT THAT THANK GIVING AND LAUDABLE DREAMS HAVE INSTEAD BEEN REPLACED BY WORRIES, REGRETS AND TEARS POURING OUT NON STOP -SOME TIME WE THINK WHY AND WHAT FOR WAS THE NEED TO HAVE OUR CHILDREN, ALAS, NEVER BELIEVED THAT INSTEAD OF PROVIDING US COMFORT IN OUR OLD AGE, OUR CHILDREN WILL INSTEAD CAUSE US WORRIES AND REPENTANCE AND MAKE OUR LIFE RESTLESS AND MISERABLE WITH NO DESIRE TO LIVE ANY LONGER -TRUE, ALL THIS IS A PATHETIC SITUATION, WHICH MAY NOT BE THE EXPERIENCE OF SOME WHO FOUND TIME ENOUGH TO MEET, DISCUSS AND SOLVE THE ISSUES OF THEIR CHILDREN, ESPECIALLY IN THE GROWING AGE. NEVER TO FORGET, IT IS SAID, LOVE BEGETS LOVE, SAME MOSTLY HAPPENS TO THOSE WHO MANAGE TO GIVE ENOUGH TIME TO THEIR CHILDREN AND PLAN THEIR LIFE TIME ACCORDINGLY. -BESIDES IT IS ALSO SAID THAT CHILDREN GET THE TEACHING BY LISTENING AND OBSERVING ABOUT WHAT THEY TALK ABOUT THEIR VOCATIONS RELATIONS WITH BOTH SIDE PARENTS AND THEIR CHILDREN ETC. ETC ESSENTIALLY AS TO HOW THEIR PARENTS ARE BEHAVING WITH EACH OTHER LOVING OR GRUMBLING, FIGHTING ETC. ETC. -BESIDES WHEN CHILDREN GROW UP, THEY ALSO KNOW AND FIND OUT HOW THEIR FATHER AND MOTHER HAVE BEEN BEHAVING WITH THEIR RESPECTIVE BROTHERS, SISTERS AND PARENTS AS WELL. -HENCE THE RELATIONS OF THE PARENTS WITH EACH OTHER AND ALSO WHAT HAVE BEEN ATTITUDES OF THEIR PARENTS , BEHAVIOUR AND ACTIONS ETC. TOWARDS THEIR BROTHERS, SISTERS ETC. WHICH GENERALLY NOT ONLY GET EMBITTERED BUT MANY A TIME RESULT IN FIGHTS AND BREAK-AWAY RELATIONSHIP. -IT IS SAID THAT MAN IS THE PRODUCT OF HOW ONE HAS LIVED DURING HIS/HER EARLY AGE, WHAT HE/SHE HAS OBSERVED IN FAMILY, RELATIONS, SO-CALLED FRIENDS, WHAT HAS BEEN HIS/HER EXPERIENCE, HOW HE/SHE WILL TURN HIS/HER ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIOUR IN HIS/HER LIFE TOWARDS THESE RELATIONS AND CONTACTS THEREOF. -WE SEE AND OBSERVE THAT THOUGH THE AFORESAID FACTORS DO INFLUENCE THE CHILDREN BUT NOT NECESSARILY IT HAPPENS SO WITH ALL THE CHILDREN, EACH ONE IS BORN WITH SOME DIFFERENT ATTITUDUES, APTITUDES AND EMOTIONS, AND AS A RESULT THEREOF SOME WILL TAKE A LESSON FROM ALL SUCH HAPPENINGS ALL AROUND, THINK AND MAKE THEIR OWN JUDGEMENT AS TO WHAT ADVANTAGES SUCH EMBITTERED RELATIONS, ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIOUR THEREOF BRING TO THEM, IN FACT NOTHING. SUCH CHILDREN WILL MOULD THEIR LIFE JUST THE OPPOSITE TO ALL WHAT IS SAID ABOVE, AND INCULCATE IN THEIR BEHAVIOUR LOVE, RESPECT AND TOGETHERNESS. NEVERTHELESSTHERE WILL ALSO BE SOME WHO WILL TURN OUT TO BE THE WORST. -FINALLY IT IS ESSENTIAL TO CONCLUDE WHETHER IT IS GOOD TO HAVE CHILDREN OR NOT AND IF NOT WHY, AND ALSO WHAT ACTIONS NEED TO BE TAKEN BY PARENTS THAT THEIR CHILDREN DEVELOP LOVING ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS THEIR PARENTS, THEIR BROTHERS AND SISTERS, ETC. ETC. RATHER DO ALL TO ENSURE THE PROGRESS OF THE FAMILY, LOVE AND HAPPINESS FOR THE PARENTS AND LOVEABLE RELATIONSHIP WITH BROTHERS AND SISTERS. -THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT FOR MINE AND THINE, LOVE AND PROGRESS ONE NEEDS FAMILY AND CHILDREN THEREOF NOT ONLY TO LIVE AN ENJOYABLE LIFE, BUT HAPPILY AS WELL. -IT IS SAID THAT HARD WORK, SACRIFICE AND LOVE DEFINITELY RESULT IN ACHIEVING THE GOALS, PROGRESS AND HAPPINESS, MAYBE LATER THAN SOONER, THERE IS NO DOUBT ABOU IT, BESIDES, EXPERIENCE SHOWS THAT SUCCESS DOES COME ABOUT TO SUCH PERSONS SURELY AND CERTAINLY. HENCE IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT PARENTS INSTEAD OF THINKING NOT TO HAVE CHILDREN AND MAYBE CURSING THEMSELVES AS TO WHY THEY HAD SUCH CHILDREN, WHAT WAS THE NEED TO HAVE CHILDREN AND WHY NOT HAVE WE LIVED OUR LIFE AS BEST AND ENJOYABLE AS WE COULD, WITHOUT RESPONSIBIITIES AND WORRIES THEREOF. -HENCE IT IS ESSENTIAL TO SPECIFY AND ELABORATE AS TO WHAT THE PARENTS SHOULD DO THAT THEIR CHILDREN NOT ONLY TURN OUT LOVING ALL OVER BUT BRING IN NAME, FAME AND PRIDE FOR THE PARENTS AND THE FAMILY AS A WHOLE. -1. LOVE IS THE BEGINNING OF LIFE AND IT MATURES AS THE LIFE PASSES AND IN THE GOLDEN AGE, WHAT IS CALLED THE STAGE OF OLD AGE, LIFE IS FULL OF LOVE, NOT EVEN A TINGE OF DIVERGENCE OF VIEWS, BEHAVIOUR, ACTS ETC. LIKREWITH THE PARENTS WILL ALSO HAVE TO TAKE ALL CARE BY THEIR BEHAVIOUR AND DEALINGS WITH EACH OTHER, WHICH CONSIST IN THE ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIOUR AS UNDER: (a) PARENTS HAVE LOVING RELATIONSHIP AS HUSBAND AND WIFE (b) PARENTS BALANCE THEIR WORK AND FAMILY LIFE AND ESSENTIALLY FIND TIME TO BE WITH THEIR CHILDREN. TO DISCUSS AND GIVE ANSWER TO THEIR ISSUES AND WOES PERHAPS, IF ANY. © PARENTS TO CHECK WHAT ARE THE ATTITUDES AND APTITUDES OF EACH OF THEIR CHILDREN, WHAT ARE THEIR AMBITIONS AND WHAT IS THEIR GOAL IN LIFE TO RECH AT. (d) HENCE PARENTS NEED TO EXPLAIN, GUIDE AND SUGGEST ANSWERS TO THEIR CHILDREN AS BEST THEY CAN ( e) IN CASE THE PARENTS DO NOT KNOW THE SUBJECT, THEN THE PARENTS MUST EXPLORE THROUGH ALL MEANS AND COMMUNICATE TO THEIR CHILDREN OR IF IT IS POSSIBLE, TO ARRANGE A MEETING WITH THOSE WHO KNOW ABOUT THE SUBJECT FULLY WELL (f)IF THE CHILD WANTS TO GO TO FOREIGN FOR STUDIES AND THE PARENTS DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH RESOURCES, THEY MAY ADVISE THEIR CHILDREN TO DO SOME JOB OR TUITION AFTER STUDIES, BUILD THEIR RESOURCES AND THE PARENTS WILL GIVE FIANCIAL HELP AS MUCH AS THEY CAN AFTER STUDIES, BESIDES THERE EXIST LOAN FACILITIES, LET THESE BE CHECKED, BUT AS ALL WILL DEPEND HOW MUCH BRIGHT THE CHILD IS AND HOW MANY MARKS HE/SHE HAS GOT IN THE EXAMS HENCE WITH THIS INFORMATION AND ENLIGHTENMENT, THE PARENTS CAN ENCOURAGE AND MOTIVATE THE CHILD TO GET TO FOREIGN FOR HIGHER STUDIES. (g)IF IT IS A QUESTION OF JOB AND AFTER CHECKING AS TO WHAT TYPE OF JOB IS GOOD AND WHAT IS ITS FUTURE, BASED ON THE APTITUDE OF THE CHILD AND MARKS OBTAINED, PARENTS CAN SUGGEST VARIOUS OPTIONS AND AT THE SAME TIME ASK THEIR CHILD TO DO ALL INQUIRIES THROUGH GOOGLE, COLLEAGUES, LITERATURE ETC. AND THEN DECIDE AS TO WHAT JOB BASED ON HIS/HER MARKS AND APTITUDE WILL BE THE BEST. (h)if the child in in marriageable age, then the parents can suggest to their child as to what marriage means, what are its implications and responsibilities and let him/her free to make the decision he/she thinks to be the best. (i) FINALLY IT IS NECESSARY FOR THE PARENTS AS TO WHAT IS THE ULTIMATE GOAL OF LIFE, WHICH CONSISTS IN TO MAKE PROGRESS IN CAREER, DEVELOP A LOVING FAMILY AND AS SUCH LIVE A HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE LIFE. (J)SOON AS THE CHILDREN BECOME ADULT AND OWN THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES, PARENTS ESSENTIALLY MUST BECOME GOOD LISTENER, RENDERING ADVICE WHEN ASKED FOR, OTHERWISE LEAVE THEIR CHILDREN TO MANAGE THEIR AFFAIRS BY THEMSELVES, WITHOUT ANY INTERFERENCE OR DISTURBANCE BY THE PARENTS. In conclusion, if the parents take care of all the concerns of their children, impose all sorts of restraints on themselves, due to parents loving relations as husband and wife and they bei help and guide for their children, I believe and I am sure, the children will turn very respectful and loving ones. In reality, the old age which is called the gold age, instead, whole life will turn out to be a golden, with all respect, love, care-share and in togetherness. MESSAGE MARRIAGE GUIDANCE IS UNIQUE FOR REASONS:- 1. EXHAUSTIVE BIODATA FORM 2. MATCHES SENT ARE FULLY VETTED AS PER REQUIREMENTS. 3. WHEN APPROVED BY BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WHEN CONFIRMATION OF NOC IS RECEIVED, BIODATAS TO BOTH ARE GIVEN VICE VERSA 4. 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